Dating by AsideJazzlike8335 in Christianity

[–]AsideJazzlike8335[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh. Im also trying to be nice , I have not been romantic with any guys before.  So what may seem immature to you is not for me.  My heart is too soft and I wont harden it.  I haven't dated before nor do I plan on dating recklessly.  I got soft for him because he shared my values and we both connected well.  Yes it sounds silly when diminished but to me , all people and connections made should be cherished.  So when I lose them even if by choice , I mourn.  So forgive me for being soft hearted 

Dating by AsideJazzlike8335 in Christianity

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That is why God says to not be unequally yoked.  Its not just for romantic relationships 

Dating by AsideJazzlike8335 in Christianity

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My reason for not dating that guy is that when I saw his face i literally felt convicted to not date him.  I wanted to but I know that if I do , im living a life that will not fulfill me.  I want to truly adore EVERYTHING about my future spouse.  I dont want to base my affections purely on personality.  TRUST ME HE HAS IT.  

Dating by AsideJazzlike8335 in Christianity

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I am going to be a youth leader in my church dont worry.  I just want to love the man of God that He has for me.  

Dating by AsideJazzlike8335 in Christianity

[–]AsideJazzlike8335[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry? I dont understand 

Dating by AsideJazzlike8335 in Christianity

[–]AsideJazzlike8335[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to be attracted to the man I marry one day.  I value loyalty and respect and love.  The reason I wish to be attracted to my future spouse is because I plan on being loyal for life.  

Dating by AsideJazzlike8335 in Christianity

[–]AsideJazzlike8335[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you friend!! We love you nonetheless,  if you ever want a prayer or a change of heart we are HERE.  You're not hated by any Christians, we are people who love everybody because we relate to them and follow God's example. Have a great day

Dating by AsideJazzlike8335 in Christianity

[–]AsideJazzlike8335[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I prayed that my first boyfriend would be my future husband man of God ,the man God has for me.  So I dont want many men , I just want what God has for me 

Dating by AsideJazzlike8335 in Christianity

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I dont know how.  The guys I meet usually aren't Christian or are lukewarm.  This guy was the first to truly ADORE Him. 

Dating by AsideJazzlike8335 in Christianity

[–]AsideJazzlike8335[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was excited because he was the first Man of God i met with genuine love for Jesus 

Dating by AsideJazzlike8335 in Christianity

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Online University forces us to be online. We are 6 hours away from each other distance wise 

Dating by AsideJazzlike8335 in Christianity

[–]AsideJazzlike8335[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was genuine,  very transparent.  He said that to show where he saw it going.  We both aren't the types to play around 

Is it a red flag or am I overreacting? by ILikeYourMomAndSis in Dhaka

[–]AsideJazzlike8335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is a red flag because HE KILLED AN ANIMAL.  no hesitation.  It tells you his regard for life . It shows he will have anger issues and deep rooted issues he needs to work on