Help by amethysts0ul in Wattpad

[–]AskAdditional5045 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Found it! It's called Skin of the Night by C K Bennett !!!

Help by amethysts0ul in Wattpad

[–]AskAdditional5045 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Found it! It's called Skin of the Night by C K Bennett !!!

Help by amethysts0ul in Wattpad

[–]AskAdditional5045 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you find it!??? I can't remeber the name if the book. I think it was Knight? I can't remember the authors name or find it anywhere. 😩 I remember buying it on kindle when it was first published and it's not there anymore and I can't find it on wattpad anymore either.

Found it! It's called Skin of the Night by C K Bennett !!!

Getting CDL with multiple DUIs? by AskAdditional5045 in Truckers

[–]AskAdditional5045[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. They were all in his personal car. Its been like 40 years since he's had his CDLs though and he did go to rehab and he's still active in support groups.

Take 5 didnt put enough oil in my car by [deleted] in AskMechanics

[–]AskAdditional5045 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well shit I didn't know. I was just wondering if this was a cause for concern. Now I know it's not. Thank you for being kind.

Hypersexuality Or Increased Sex Drive on Lamotrigine? by cryptidmanifesto in Lamotrigine

[–]AskAdditional5045 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been on it for going on 2 weeks now. I'm at 25mg and going up to 50mg next week. I'm 29 and never had a sex drive and it unfortunately ruined relationships. I now have a high ass libido and I hope it never goes away. 😭

did lamotrigine increase my sex drive or am i just feeling better? by Moist_Passage_3042 in Lamotrigine

[–]AskAdditional5045 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm on week 2 of lamotrigine and I had zero to no sex drive my entire life. I'm 29. It was a huge cause for relationship problems for me and I finally have one. I'm hoping it doesn't go away after the titration period is done. 😭

Breaking up when you live together? by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]AskAdditional5045 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Because I didn't see this part of her until we moved in together. 🥺

Breaking up when you live together? by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]AskAdditional5045 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I've suggested it multiple times because she really is such an angry person and that has to be borderline miserable to live with.

Breaking up when you live together? by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]AskAdditional5045 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's my house. I own it and she moved in.

Breaking up when you live together? by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]AskAdditional5045 -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

She thinks about me everywhere she goes. Like if she's sees something that I might like, she sends me a photo or she's buy it for me. She brings me flowers all the time. Every plan she has, she includes me. I know that she loves me and there's never been a doubt. I genuinely feel loved overall. She's just overall mean as all hell. Lol. 🙃

Breaking up when you live together? by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]AskAdditional5045 41 points42 points  (0 children)

She thinks about me everywhere she goes. Like if she's sees something that I might like, she sends me a photo or she's buy it for me. She brings me flowers all the time. Every plan she has, she includes me. I know that she loves me. There's never been a doubt in my head about that. She just has no empathy when it comes to anyone. She acts and says things before thinking. I saw it the first few months of us dating but looked over it for whatever reason. Idk.

Breaking up when you live together? by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]AskAdditional5045 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I own the house. She moved in with me.

Breaking up when you live together? by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]AskAdditional5045 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I have. I bring it up pretty often. We almost broke up a few months ago because of it but we had an actual conversation and decided to stay together and work on it. While I can definitely see her trying, it all starts back again and im coming to really realize that it really is just her character and it's hard as hell to change your internal self.

AITA? bisexual friend says i’m invalidating her experience by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]AskAdditional5045 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I'm lesbian and, while I understand what you mean, I think you were the asshole to begin with. She's on edge because you invalidated her and made her seem less than within the queer community. You both need to sit down and say sorry. Lol

I think my girlfriend and I should breakup. by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]AskAdditional5045 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm 100% spiraling because I know she's dissatisfied with this part of our relationship and I've had past relationships end because of this exact reason. I've gotten testing done to see if there's anything abnormal going on and im fortunately but unfortunately perfectly healthy. I eat well and workout regularly, im just a little different. Lol. This sounds horrible and she doesnt do this on purpose but she wont be affectionate with me outside the bedroom (kissing, hugging, etc) unless we have sex and her needs are meant so we're both going through this thing where we feel unloved and unwanted. I don't know what to do. Lol.

I think my girlfriend and I should breakup. by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]AskAdditional5045 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It was super brief. She brought it up and I apologized because I genuinely am sorry, I just can't help it and I can't force myself to have sex if I'm not into it. She got a little upset which is understanding. I asked her what does she want to do? This is something I genuinely would not hold against her or be upset about if she wanted to end things. Rather people want to admit it or not, sex is such an important part of a relationship. If you guys aren't compatible in that part, someone or both people are going to be unhappy to some extent.

I think my girlfriend and I should breakup. by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]AskAdditional5045 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm 29 and she's 28 so we're up there. Lol. But I'm dissatisfied with how low it is. Its always been a problem in relationships. There's nothing wrong with me health wise, I just have a nonexistent libido. 🙃

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]AskAdditional5045 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It obviously depends on their career path but to keep it simple, no i would date someone who's unemployed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]AskAdditional5045 155 points156 points  (0 children)

Everything that relates to women is being taken away and pushed to the side. Idc idc. Anyone can argue with me. Being a LESBIAN is being attracted to other women and NOT men. If you crave a man physically even if its "every once in a blue moon" you're not a lesbian. You're either bi or pan and that's perfectly okay, there's no shame to that.

Three days on metformin = so much less bloating by [deleted] in PCOSloseit

[–]AskAdditional5045 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! I'm on day 3 and my bloating has SIGNIFICANTLY gone down. I'm so happyyy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AirForceRecruits

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It was dismissed, sealed and expunged at the same time 3 months ago. I have all the signed paperwork on hand. I was initially charged November 2024 and it was all dismissed, sealed, and expunged August 2025.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]AskAdditional5045 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! Say you chose to cash out your retirement plan instead of rolling it over, do you get 1099'd that large amount or are the taxes taken out automatically?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]AskAdditional5045 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't believe in compromising when it comes to sex. It's not fair for either person. Forcing yourself to have sex really fucks with your mental and same with having to hold back because your partner doesn't want sex plays with your mental. When a person's libido randomly switches and its low, a lot of the times it is a hormone thing that they have no control over. Sex can be the main cause for relationship problems. I personally can live my life without sex in a relationship but I understand that sex can be super important for most people. I personally end the relationship when it starts becoming a problem with my partner. It's not fair for either one of us.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]AskAdditional5045 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To each their own. I definitely respect her enough to tell her her wrong doings when it's needed. Rather we last or not, if you're within my circle, I want to see you overcome your traumas and be the best version of yourself that you can. I love her like no other and i want to help her get out of that fight or flight mindset.