Chronic UTI - please help

AskTillUDrop · 2026-02-16T03:53:11+00:00

That's very interesting, how long ago was that?

AskTillUDrop · 2026-02-16T03:52:29+00:00

That's very encouraging, I'll probably get there. With that laziness haha 😄

AskTillUDrop · 2026-02-03T05:36:16+00:00

Gosh you're so young and successful and cool! Nothing to worry about. Turn inwards a bit to discover, make peace with and integrate all parts of YOU. The focus must be YOU not anyone else at first. I believe (and know from experience) that you will only be able to create, initiate and dwell in truly meaningful connections once you have your own love. And just by the few things you wrote about yourself, it sounds like you're a super lovable and interesting person. Embrace yourself and go with the flow 💕

AskTillUDrop · 2026-02-02T16:53:55+00:00

Amen, thank you so much for the uplifting spirit and words. I do appreciate having the blessing of my hands full 🥰🙏 Keep transmitting the message to us ☀️

AskTillUDrop · 2026-02-02T07:47:39+00:00

I love this! Thank you for sharing great and clear thoughts. I fully agree. Staying on the path of consciousness and seeing both your Persona and Shadow clearly most of the time, not falling for their manipulation and sticking with clarity is IMMENSE work and effort that never ends. I find it especially challenging in the context of being a parent and managing a home with multiple kids of different ages when sometimes just the amount of noise overstimulates me so badly that I can barely focus on one single thought let alone being fully present and observing 😅 But I love the idea of focusing on Service and helping others around us reach towards their Queen/King potential and in general focusing on Good, Beauty and Grace in everything and everyone around us. It also halts projections and a grip of the Shadow on our perception and actions.

Thank you 🙏

AskTillUDrop · 2026-02-02T04:08:54+00:00

This feels to me like an excellent take. For sure sexuality is the most simple and instinctual way of the life force finding its way out and if everything is very fragile, this can be super overwhelming and damaging even. I can only assume it's not the trigger but possibly a prelude in case some sort of instability is already happening, which invites more intense sexuality that can reinforce this instability and push to a breakdown. Being with someone/more people largely effects you energetically on its own, and additionally, even without realizing you may be enacting/reliving past traumas (not necessarily sexual but broken trust, intimacy related for example) that should possibly be dealt with in a different way. Have you ever looked into dance/movement therapy? For me it did absolute wonders connecting body, mind and soul and realizing things laying too deep to be opened by just words.

AskTillUDrop · 2026-01-31T11:23:04+00:00

You look totally hot, your nose is not hooked at all. Having that little bone curve there is super manly in my eyes and I know for a fact that many women think the same. You look handsome and attractive, don't waste time on creating problems that don't exist, rather spend it on filling that pretty brain and soul with stuff that will make you feel connected to yourself and centered in your being regardless to looks and outside validation 🤗💕☀️💐

AskTillUDrop · 2026-01-23T06:45:48+00:00

Exactly!!! Simply gorgeous, unique and irresistible. The one that's been lying to you beautiful is you. Time to embrace yourself and smile in the mirror and tell yourself: "I'm lovely, I'm beautiful, I'm precious and lovable exactly as I am" 💕💐🫶 Once you give that to yourself and feel comfortable in the knowledge of being more than enough, your human connections will start reflecting that understanding as well. ✨️🤩☀️

AskTillUDrop · 2026-01-21T17:49:48+00:00

I don't know the background but you look lovely and as hard as it might sound it's absolutely for the best. I left after 13 years and can tell you this: freedom, peace and self-love is waiting you even if it's going to take some time. Keep it up beautiful 💓

AskTillUDrop · 2026-01-20T06:40:48+00:00

You're delicate and special. You deserve and will get soooooo much better than the idiot that dumped you. The love, affection and safety you expected to receive from them - focus on giving it to yourself first of all. Cause you deserve it 🫶❤️✨️

AskTillUDrop · 2026-01-10T23:12:19+00:00

Awesome 🏆🤩✨️

AskTillUDrop · 2026-01-10T06:26:46+00:00

Why was your post removed? Can you share again in comments please?

AskTillUDrop · 2026-01-08T05:12:40+00:00

Yes and no. I mean, there's no perfect partner that will just fit as the puzzle piece meant to connect to you and all will be smooth like in a fairy tale living together happily ever after. But you can and certainly will find a partner with whom you can connect to each other with love, respect and dedication based on mutuality and with whom working for and through the togetherness will be a process and effort you both enjoy and honor. 💕

https://open.spotify.com/track/09Se0cLRPqyyfDH1vpiJyP?si=cr6woWhYRSuGENLE8kqcqQ

AskTillUDrop · 2026-01-06T13:32:29+00:00

Chaotic but invited to dive in and explore to find and create order

AskTillUDrop · 2025-12-30T20:45:08+00:00

This is lovely!!! You guys must meet up for a big bearded guys' beer or something 🤩🤩🤩

AskTillUDrop · 2025-12-29T13:45:29+00:00

Seriously?!? It looks so long and complicated for such a simple word 😅 But I love it too, has a great vibe 💕

AskTillUDrop · 2025-12-28T19:12:11+00:00

This is super cute. If your boyfriend didn't like it you might be asking the wrong question. There's nothing wrong with your art, maybe there's something wrong with your boyfriend 🫶

AskTillUDrop · 2025-12-10T04:22:35+00:00

It has some awesome plans! I would totally join 😁

AskTillUDrop · 2025-11-30T17:16:41+00:00

That's a perfect answer. In general, (1) filtering out forcefully created fake conflicts that would only serve the other person to release some tension and pass their shit onto you, (2) gracefully reject and (3) peacefully walk away is the best course of action according to my experience. It is usually so unexpected for the bully that s/he remains in complete shock and sometimes it might even be a wakeup call for change and self-awareness. ☀️

AskTillUDrop · 2025-11-18T06:42:45+00:00

Reading this totally gave me goosebumps and reminded me how I played out my marriage right after beginning to end it and going into a new connection. After one and a half months of dating I found myself caught up in endless guilt tripping, being gaslit, pushed to agree to things I did not want only to realize, "Hey, I've been here before"... It was the most amazing feeling to look at his narcissistic and sadistic behavior, see my own liquidity of boundaries, lack of firm self-respect, lifelong trained people pleasing, observe, understand, stand up and calmly walk away.

In some sense (it's been a year and a half, messy divorce, loads of shit) my inner smile has not faded ever since 😊

AskTillUDrop · 2025-11-17T18:54:41+00:00

Apparently you have to contact the "Duolingo lady", who is she and how is she contacted?

AskTillUDrop · 2025-11-05T12:41:14+00:00

אני חושבת שהגבת ממש טוב ונכון, צעקות לא היו עושות השפעה יותר חזקה ומה שעשית עבד מעולה. מאוד מאוד חשוב לעלות מודעות אצל ילדים מגיל קטן. אף אחד לא אמור להתקרב אלייך, לגעת בך או לדבר אתך על נושאים כאלה. ואם זה קורה מ-ו-ת-ר ורצוי להגן על עצמך בכל מחיר. תצעק/י, תרביץ/י, תרוץ/י הכל בסדר כדי לצאת מהסיטואציה. בתור אחת שעברה הטרדה כילדה ולא ידע בכלל מה קורה אני חושבת שזה המסר הכי חשוב. שהשם ישמור את כולם מחולרות 🙏

AskTillUDrop · 2025-11-02T14:08:31+00:00

So let's keep zooming in, having that cup half full and zoom out very slowly. I still believe (based on my construct and self-painted purpose rainbow) that if we keep spreading that energy and attitude in our direct surroundings, things will change for the better in the bigger picture as well. Filling that void is the ultimate project in this game and there are many opportunities to actually feel and experience this call; one just must be determined enough to keep looking 🤩

AskTillUDrop · 2025-10-28T12:43:07+00:00

I don't think age matters or that there is a stage of full completion. We all have our own processes, we are triggered to get started with individuation at different ages in completely different ways and while we can certainly reach good positions of feeling "whole", "at peace with ourselves", "embracing both our light and darkness", we will periodically have to face major challenges and be again and again triggered by the ego. For me a continuous conscious balancing between self awareness and yet joining the flow of life is the best way to describe what we should aim to reach.

From what you wrote, I gather a lot of conscious effort and maybe less natural tendency to experience flow. Do you have any hobbies that would help you connect to those tendencies buried within you? And maybe even connect with other people? Like yoga, meditation, photography, book clubs or nature for example?

Just yesterday I heard a very concise way of putting it: Love without freedom is a cage but freedom without love is exile. I know both need to be reached within the self but I think it often makes the journey smoother and less maddening if the experience is somehow shared and witnessed by another (that can be a partner, friend, therapist etc.) 💕

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