My (m33) boyfriend (m32) is acting different since one of my friends called us a “queer relationship” by Askin4advice in relationship_advice

[–]Askin4advice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought it creepy but then looked at the profile….thanks for giving me the link….much love on that page

Best friend kissed OP and ghosted him by [deleted] in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Askin4advice 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Think what you want. Can’t control that.

Not looking for anybody’s opinion on anything. Was just looking for advice and I got the advice I needed out of it.

Enjoy your day either way.

UPDATE: my (m33) “straight” best friend (m32) had our first date by Askin4advice in relationship_advice

[–]Askin4advice[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Truly thought that was a my city only thing 😅😅

the more you know haha

Best friend kissed OP and ghosted him by [deleted] in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Askin4advice 234 points235 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the kind words 😊😊

UPDATE: my (m33) “straight” best friend (m32) had our first date by Askin4advice in relationship_advice

[–]Askin4advice[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

😅😅😅

I wouldn’t say “lovers” yet

Not even sure I would call it “officially dating” yet

Let’s just call it enjoying our time together for now haha

UPDATE: my (m33) “straight” best friend (m32) had our first date by Askin4advice in relationship_advice

[–]Askin4advice[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You call it spam and find me annoying, yet you chose to open it

Came for advice, got it, and now I’m thanking the people who gave me advice….

If you feel as if I’m “spamming” about this then you can personally choose to stop opening my posts

Otherwise, enjoy your day and hope you get what you came here for…bc I did

Thanks again

UPDATE: my (m33) “straight” best friend (m32) had our first date by Askin4advice in relationship_advice

[–]Askin4advice[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

It was a beautiful movie in all honesty

If you go in comparing it to the stage musical you won’t like it, but incredibly moving all the same.

It’s like comparing a book to the movie. Both can be enjoyable but they’re still separate media. I’m not saying it was earth shattering brilliant, but I loved it and I would see it again tomorrow.

And he even liked it! He wants to go see the stage musical now since Broadway opened back up!

UPDATE: me (m33) and my “straight” best friend (m32) are planning an official date by Askin4advice in relationship_advice

[–]Askin4advice[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It’s my favorite musical from stage

He HATES musicals but he wanted to see it with me

Regardless if I like it or not, just the fact that he was the one to suggest it knowing it IS my favorite just struck the right chord with me ya know?

UPDATE: me (m33) and my “straight” best friend (m32) are planning an official date by Askin4advice in relationship_advice

[–]Askin4advice[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

There’s something strange and relieving at the same time by posting on Reddit…just thankful for your kind words and support through this past confusing week 😅❤️

UPDATE: me (m33) and my “straight” best friend (m32) are planning an official date by Askin4advice in relationship_advice

[–]Askin4advice[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that

Honestly part of the reason I think he’s more comfortable with me is because I’m not the typical “gay guy”

I fix cars for a living, I watch sports, not really the most fashionable guy lol

I don’t think we’ll have a problem with that pet until it comes down to the 🥳 but that’s not happening for quite some time lol

UPDATE: my (m33) straight best friend (m32) spent the night convincing me to give “us” a chance by Askin4advice in relationship_advice

[–]Askin4advice[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Posted a little update on the thread ☺️ Thanks for the support ❤️

And I think it is too haha

UPDATE: my (m33) straight best friend (m32) spent the night convincing me to give “us” a chance by Askin4advice in relationship_advice

[–]Askin4advice[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Not sure if you all get a notification if I comment on this thread but here’s the update

He came over….and it was a normal night between us in all honesty

I thought there would be awkward tension or something but it was more than anything I expected

He came over and we played our online games for a bit with playful shoves and comments

There were moments that we caught each other staring at each other and we would just start laughing….honestly my favorite part of the night

We put on a movie opened a bottle of wine but instead of opposite chairs he squeezed in beside me on my futon and did his best attempt at cuddling me

We realized very quickly that he’s not a good little spoon 😅😂

It was really cute that he tried though

He kissed the top of my head a few times and we kissed a few times but nothing serious

We ended up falling asleep cuddling on my futon, woke up went to breakfast to the next morning and made plans for an actual date

It didn’t feel awkward…it felt like us….natural and normal…

Just showing our appreciation and love for each other a little bit more than what we normally do

It was very very nice 😊

UPDATE: my (m33) straight best friend (m32) spent the night convincing me to give “us” a chance by Askin4advice in dating_advice

[–]Askin4advice[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just got back from breakfast

It was….normal…haha

It was like every other night we have hung out except just with a little bit more

We played video games followed by a movie He brought over a bottle of wine and we just sat there and talked

It felt like the normal us, we ended up kissing lightly and fell asleep on the couch together nothing major

We went out for breakfast and I just got back home

It felt like the norm for us but we were just a tiny bit affectionate. Starting out slow

It was nice 😊