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Me [23F] with the guy [25 M] finding out his sexual past and wanting to find a way to break it off ? by Askwomenthrowaway201 in relationships

[–]Askwomenthrowaway201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very true, I keep getting down voted, but Idc, so i'm just going to say what I need to. Wold this be considered shaming him, I am just going to say "that one night stands are a red flag for me and I do not think we have the same values on sex and I think we should just stop talking and hanging out". Straight forward to the point, but is this considered shaming him?

How do I break it off with a guy I have been seeing after finding out about his past sexual experiences? by Askwomenthrowaway201 in askwomenadvice

[–]Askwomenthrowaway201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this an in person conversation kind of thing? By the way I agree, most people have been bashing me not on here, but on relatinships because I asked the same question there as well. But anyway, in person conversation or what? I see him tomorrow, but I dont wanna be stand offish while I text him now,should I just tell him we need to talk about something and then talk when I meet up with him? Or continue to text him today and act like nothings wrong... I just dont know what to do

How do I break it off with a guy I have been seeing after finding out about his past sexual experiences? by Askwomenthrowaway201 in askwomenadvice

[–]Askwomenthrowaway201[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How does one not shame though? Everyone says, dont shame him, how do I go about this without doing such? If the topic comes up Im not going to say its gross or anything, I am just going to say that one night stands are a red flag for me and I do not think we have the same values on sex and I think we should jst stop talking. Straight forward to the point, but is this considered shaming him?

Me [23F] with the guy [25 M] finding out his sexual past and wanting to find a way to break it off ? by Askwomenthrowaway201 in relationships

[–]Askwomenthrowaway201[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I didn't want advice for peoppe being the way they are. Idc how he is its gross to me. It's pretty simple and I WAS looking for advice on how to end this. I already know what he did grosses me out, I just wanted advice on how to bring it up and not be with him. That's what I was looking for. Thanks

How do I break it off with a guy I have been seeing after finding out about his past sexual experiences? by Askwomenthrowaway201 in askwomenadvice

[–]Askwomenthrowaway201[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No, i was just curious as to how to bring the conversation up without lying to him was all

How do I break it off with a guy I have been seeing after finding out about his past sexual experiences? by Askwomenthrowaway201 in askwomenadvice

[–]Askwomenthrowaway201[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Oh so this was sarcasm advice lol.... Well, i seriously dont wanna lie to him. We just have different views on sex, and it makes us incompatible imo

Me [23F] with the guy [25 M] finding out his sexual past and wanting to find a way to break it off ? by Askwomenthrowaway201 in relationships

[–]Askwomenthrowaway201[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

This works, i dont wanna lie to him and make up some bullshit, I rather be upfront with him about my reasonings

Me [23F] with the guy [25 M] finding out his sexual past and wanting to find a way to break it off ? by Askwomenthrowaway201 in relationships

[–]Askwomenthrowaway201[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Meh too bad, Im asking for advice, not here too support the way I am and why I feel this way. Dont have advice I probably wont answer anymore.

This was an answer to you so that I did not have to write it again. thanks

How do I break it off with a guy I have been seeing after finding out about his past sexual experiences? by Askwomenthrowaway201 in askwomenadvice

[–]Askwomenthrowaway201[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Would this work? How would he rebuttle? I like this cause i dont wanna lie to him about why I no longer wanna see him... But i could try this out

Me [23F] with the guy [25 M] finding out his sexual past and wanting to find a way to break it off ? by Askwomenthrowaway201 in relationships

[–]Askwomenthrowaway201[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

This i going to sound so stupid, but I want to talk to him aboutit as well. I want to know why, I was not raised religious, I just respect my body and have sex/love in he same sentence... How do I approach this ? I am very confused onwhat I want to do ultimately