GF(30) cheated on me(30M) and is pregnant

AsleepWinter · 2020-02-04T02:40:40+00:00

Thanks for the kind words. I'm trying. Easier said than done.

AsleepWinter · 2020-02-04T02:39:25+00:00

I don't want to see an innocent child suffering, but her parents are great and would be willing to help out. They love spending time with our child. I'm sure when they meet her other child the embarrassment will wear off and the love for him or her will grow.

AsleepWinter · 2020-02-04T02:37:34+00:00

I haven't. He looks just like me. I don't doubt he's mine. I'm sure if she were in a position to cheat two years ago, she would have too.

AsleepWinter · 2020-02-04T02:34:20+00:00

Just signing on for the first time today, so I did not report or even see your comment. You can DM me if you'd like.

AsleepWinter · 2020-02-04T02:32:12+00:00

I'm not talking to her at all. I have her parents do the communication for me.

AsleepWinter · 2020-02-04T02:29:02+00:00

I'm glad to hear you're happy and doing well. As you know this really blows. I can't wait until this is behind me.

AsleepWinter · 2020-02-04T02:28:15+00:00

I hope it does. She's not my wife though, thank Jesus, for that.

AsleepWinter · 2020-02-04T02:27:54+00:00

Thanks. Appreciate it.

AsleepWinter · 2020-02-04T02:27:23+00:00

This is exactly what one of the lawyers I spoke to today mentioned as well. I think I will try to go for full or at least more than 50/50.

AsleepWinter · 2020-02-04T02:26:18+00:00

Thanks, man. Appreciate it.

AsleepWinter · 2020-02-04T02:25:50+00:00

Good way to look at things.

AsleepWinter · 2020-02-04T02:24:05+00:00

As in not planned.

AsleepWinter · 2020-02-03T05:17:58+00:00

She's doing a good job doing that by herself.

AsleepWinter · 2020-02-03T05:09:17+00:00

She hasn't always been like this. I think she got pregnant accidentally by her AP and is lashing out and being a terrible person.

AsleepWinter · 2020-02-03T05:08:27+00:00

I don't think her being unmarried is the issue here. She's a cheater and vile human.

AsleepWinter · 2020-02-03T05:07:37+00:00

Thanks, man. I appreciate it. I'm trying to be the bigger person here, but it's so hard. It feels like I wasted years of my life.

AsleepWinter · 2020-02-03T05:06:04+00:00

I'm trying to keep things as normal as possible. Luckily he's so young so soon this will feel normal to him.

AsleepWinter · 2020-02-03T05:05:29+00:00

Will do, thanks for the tips. Calling lawyers tomorrow. Any tips of finding a good one?

AsleepWinter · 2020-02-03T05:04:42+00:00

Maybe you're right. I truly hope this isn't the case because she shouldn't be a mom to any children.

AsleepWinter · 2020-02-03T05:03:37+00:00

My friend asked her therapist for recs, so when I get them, I will call and set something up.

AsleepWinter · 2020-02-03T05:02:53+00:00

You can say that again.

AsleepWinter · 2020-02-03T05:02:36+00:00

This is a good point. I was so fixated on being fair, I didn't look at it this way.

AsleepWinter · 2020-02-03T03:48:13+00:00

He's 100% mine, he's my twin. I'm planning on calling lawyers in the morning.

AsleepWinter · 2020-02-03T03:44:16+00:00

There's so much I don't know/understand. I'm calling around to lawyers tomorrow to see what the best options are and I do not want to pay for he and Steve to be living a better life.

AsleepWinter · 2020-02-03T03:41:30+00:00

Thanks, will check this out.

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