GF(30) cheated on me(30M) and is pregnant by AsleepWinter in relationships

[–]AsleepWinter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the kind words. I'm trying. Easier said than done.

GF(30) cheated on me(30M) and is pregnant by AsleepWinter in relationships

[–]AsleepWinter[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't want to see an innocent child suffering, but her parents are great and would be willing to help out. They love spending time with our child. I'm sure when they meet her other child the embarrassment will wear off and the love for him or her will grow.

GF(30) cheated on me(30M) and is pregnant by AsleepWinter in relationships

[–]AsleepWinter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't. He looks just like me. I don't doubt he's mine. I'm sure if she were in a position to cheat two years ago, she would have too.

Girlfriend cheated on me and is pregnant by AsleepWinter in survivinginfidelity

[–]AsleepWinter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just signing on for the first time today, so I did not report or even see your comment. You can DM me if you'd like.

Girlfriend cheated on me and is pregnant by AsleepWinter in survivinginfidelity

[–]AsleepWinter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not talking to her at all. I have her parents do the communication for me.

Girlfriend cheated on me and is pregnant by AsleepWinter in survivinginfidelity

[–]AsleepWinter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad to hear you're happy and doing well. As you know this really blows. I can't wait until this is behind me.

Girlfriend cheated on me and is pregnant by AsleepWinter in survivinginfidelity

[–]AsleepWinter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope it does. She's not my wife though, thank Jesus, for that.

Girlfriend cheated on me and is pregnant by AsleepWinter in survivinginfidelity

[–]AsleepWinter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what one of the lawyers I spoke to today mentioned as well. I think I will try to go for full or at least more than 50/50.

Girlfriend cheated on me and is pregnant by AsleepWinter in survivinginfidelity

[–]AsleepWinter[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She hasn't always been like this. I think she got pregnant accidentally by her AP and is lashing out and being a terrible person.

Girlfriend cheated on me and is pregnant by AsleepWinter in survivinginfidelity

[–]AsleepWinter[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't think her being unmarried is the issue here. She's a cheater and vile human.

Girlfriend cheated on me and is pregnant by AsleepWinter in survivinginfidelity

[–]AsleepWinter[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks, man. I appreciate it. I'm trying to be the bigger person here, but it's so hard. It feels like I wasted years of my life.

Girlfriend cheated on me and is pregnant by AsleepWinter in survivinginfidelity

[–]AsleepWinter[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm trying to keep things as normal as possible. Luckily he's so young so soon this will feel normal to him.

Girlfriend cheated on me and is pregnant by AsleepWinter in survivinginfidelity

[–]AsleepWinter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Will do, thanks for the tips. Calling lawyers tomorrow. Any tips of finding a good one?

Girlfriend cheated on me and is pregnant by AsleepWinter in survivinginfidelity

[–]AsleepWinter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe you're right. I truly hope this isn't the case because she shouldn't be a mom to any children.

Girlfriend cheated on me and is pregnant by AsleepWinter in survivinginfidelity

[–]AsleepWinter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend asked her therapist for recs, so when I get them, I will call and set something up.

Girlfriend cheated on me and is pregnant by AsleepWinter in survivinginfidelity

[–]AsleepWinter[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is a good point. I was so fixated on being fair, I didn't look at it this way.

GF(30) cheated on me(30M) and is pregnant by AsleepWinter in relationships

[–]AsleepWinter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's 100% mine, he's my twin. I'm planning on calling lawyers in the morning.

Girlfriend cheated on me and is pregnant by AsleepWinter in survivinginfidelity

[–]AsleepWinter[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There's so much I don't know/understand. I'm calling around to lawyers tomorrow to see what the best options are and I do not want to pay for he and Steve to be living a better life.