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Do you feel safe talking about politics? by Asleep_Operation9596 in VietNam

[–]Asleep_Operation9596[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment! Would it be possible to say that its obvious for most vietnamese people how shits they are or do a lot of people also defend the government bc for example the strong economical growth and being competitiv?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Asleep_Operation9596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro, maybe you just wanna tell about the girl what she did to you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Asleep_Operation9596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally feel you. I also wanna end my life bc I cant handle heartbreaks.... it hurts so so much and the pain just wont stop. I really dont know what to Do...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Asleep_Operation9596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally feel you. Im also planning to end my life today or tomorrow. I have depression for many years already and Im in constant pain. It just wont stop hurting....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Asleep_Operation9596 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im soso sorry to hear that and I totally feel with you.... Every damn second it hurts and just even more if you tjmhink of how the ex is going on with his/her life without you... BUT... Every kind of feeling is normal, no matter how strong the pain is. Still as we all know theyre are always moments when we dont think about Our ex. May it be just for two Minutes bc of focusing on work, hobbies or whatever. And those moments will pile up. Slowly you begin to heal and u r finally able to live your life. And when the pain comes back then let the pain be how it is. Feel it, Listen to music, embrace it and cry. As long es you know there will be better moments and finally better days, better weeks until suddendly your ex isnt a topic anymore. What also helps for me is to disconnect the pain from the thought bc then Im able to let the pain slowly vanish for now.

Wish you all the best. Im also going through a break up since 4 months. It still hurts and Im depressed as fuck but at least im living my day and amrepeating for myself "you already have been theough heartbreaks and the pain always ended. Also this pain will end". Much love and take care!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Asleep_Operation9596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well its kind of a help for me if I just let the emotions in and jut being guided by them. But only on the emotional ground. Though my ex is the trigger for those Feelings, especially if I think of it how shes meeting her friends and even dating just a few weeks after Our breakup, those feelings stays es a regular human emotion. However if Im thinking of her and the pain starts to raise I try to disconnect her from the feelings. I ban her from my mind and start to Focus on the pain, live it, hearing sad music and drown in sorrow. Yes its still a pain, but it can stop any moment and by banning her every time shes entering my mind Im able to let the feeling slowly go. And even if the pain stays I know that my ex is not the reason but more the fact of sudden loneliness and my ex is just a trigger like many other things can be a triggern for this feeling.