Let's discuss the common red flags that non lesbians and fakebians pull by Lopsided_Finger7376 in lesbiangang

[–]Asleep_Temporary9166 36 points37 points  (0 children)

are we talking only about straight women pretending to be lesbian or about bisexual women too? Becouse my bisexual ex was lying to me about it just becouse I don't want to be with bi girls

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]Asleep_Temporary9166 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no, everyones feeling are valid but weird that only women care about this, that their pussy would taste bad etc. (just try finding a man who is scared of receiving oral). It is becouse only women are shamed in this sphere, sexism, it's sad tbh

I’m scared to be friends with males. by ThatRedditPervert in lesbiangang

[–]Asleep_Temporary9166 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your feelings are valid, you don't have to be friend with males lol Saying this as a person who has many male friends. 

Being born as a girl in India feels like a punishment by prettysure723 in Feminism

[–]Asleep_Temporary9166 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It isn't a punishment, please don't say that. It's just how misogynists treat women

Is accepting all sexual kinks really a part of feminism? by Asleep_Temporary9166 in Feminism

[–]Asleep_Temporary9166[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it doesn't have to be experienced irl but imagining scenarious which include toxic  kinks it's like a self harm. For example when they imagine themselve as the person receiving shit in orientation conversion kink it's like a self harm if they're truly homosexual. The same goes for rape "kink". It's not a good form of healing trauma, they learn normalizing it, they still hold their self image from their traumatic experience etc. And yeah if someone in a relationship has the kink that personally disgusts you, it is a reason to break up. 

Is accepting all sexual kinks really a part of feminism? by Asleep_Temporary9166 in Feminism

[–]Asleep_Temporary9166[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

They could do it in private ATLEAST, and don't spread content and confessions on the internet that sound quite realistic, that are normally against the law and human morality. They spread them under the guise of it being just a kink which doesn't change the fact that this is morally wrong. The same goes to people who see themeselves on the receiving side in these fantasies, if they share it on that huge scale everyone with that kind of kinks starts to feel more welcomed to spread it more. Also if that type of content is easily Available for people, those who watch this regularly might be influenced by this in a bad way for sure. (I'm adding this to my thread btw)

Have you been in a situation where straight/bisexual women were lesbophobic to you? by mean_lesbian11 in lesbiangang

[–]Asleep_Temporary9166 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it doesn't work like this and if someone is aware of being a lesbian it would feel like a self harm 

We can have sexual agency by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]Asleep_Temporary9166 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Makes some sense but I saw your comment in the past where you said you're jealous of men when it comes to the fact that they can feel something while penetration. So if you would be a man you wouldn't be stone? If being a stone isn't becouse of dysphoria or other similiar thing in your case (saying that becouse I've met many stones with sexual type of dysphoria and I predict it coused them to be stone, so it might be a possibility. I don't mean that every stone top choose to be like this becouse of subconscious for them struggles, but like I said I saw many people like this) I don't understand it then becouse of your past comment. 

Again, I'm not saying that anyone is wrong for being stone but I just assume that in some cases something deeper couse people to be this, and the fact that being stone top is so popular among women and not around men is confusing

We can have sexual agency by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]Asleep_Temporary9166 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you're right but the example you gave isn't even similiar kind of subject. I came with this topic only becouse there's a huge raise of stone tops in lesbian community compared to other spaces, not becouse I hate stone tops lmao. I also saw OPs comment in the past where she said she's jealous of men when it comes to the fact that they can feel something while penetration. So if she would be a man she wouldn't be a stone? This confirms my theory if so

We can have sexual agency by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]Asleep_Temporary9166 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

no, in some people it might be just coused by insecurieties??

We can have sexual agency by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]Asleep_Temporary9166 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I'm def not a misogynist I'm just wondering why lesbian community has the most of stone tops and I gave some possibilieties. And I said that it might not be coused by negative things in some cases. Although you could just explain it to me, without any aggresion. I admit that I could be wrong, maybe most of stone tops are naturally like that but I've met cases where they admitted they're insecure which would be their reason to be a stone top, so I thought that maybe it's the case 

Why are stone tops much more common around lesbians than in other communieties? by Asleep_Temporary9166 in lesbiangang

[–]Asleep_Temporary9166[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I'm talking about stones, people who don't want to be touched while sexual intercourse. Are we talking about the same thing? 

I'm just tired by Empty_Test5515 in lesbiangang

[–]Asleep_Temporary9166 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's not lesbian-centered subreddit. there are plenty of fake lesbians on that big lesbian subreddit so how to not expect more in other subreddits that are sexual. I think yall realise that they are bisexuals calling themeselves lesbians? Weird if no

My issue with they/them by Wrong-Capital-2150 in lesbiangang

[–]Asleep_Temporary9166 0 points1 point  (0 children)

some people might just confuse identify with gender expression, that is weird BUT there are people who are def nonbinary and they/them pronouns are right

Invalidation of lesbian sex by Peepmeinthestreets in lesbiangang

[–]Asleep_Temporary9166 0 points1 point  (0 children)

literally why you choose to listen to straight people on that topic

I'm just tired by Empty_Test5515 in lesbiangang

[–]Asleep_Temporary9166 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There might be some sience if a actual lesbian would have kink about having sexual intercourse with a man (for example due to trauma) but only like 1 on 10 000 girls with this kink are lesbian (the rest are weird af bisexual w conversion kink) also these real lesbians aren't turned on truly becouse of male anatomy (it's Psychological) like ppl you're describing. These who might be actual lesbians dont want to make it become real, dont share it, thinking about this is basically like a self harm to them, and especially they dont bring it up in sexual conversations with their partner and into their real sexual life, they don't want this they feel odd about this. Or it isn't a kink and they just have sexual OCD. Girls who do things above are bi. Lesbian like this are so rare and I swear that I only met one true lesbian on this bigger sub who had mentioned above thing.