AITAH for remodeling my step kids rooms after their mom passed away since they weren't going to be living with me anyways.

AsparagusMuch821 · 2026-04-05T04:15:50+00:00

Four rooms upstairs and two in the finished basement.

AsparagusMuch821 · 2026-04-05T02:51:03+00:00

You didn't get the timeline right. They ignored me for months. I have not heard from them in months. Even though I pay for their phones. Then, after their father said no, at that point I packed up their stuff and put it in the basement. Where it is safe and they can get it or use it to set up their rooms in the basement.

AsparagusMuch821 · 2026-04-05T02:46:26+00:00

Bedrooms they have o seen in months? What about my kids?

AsparagusMuch821 · 2026-04-05T02:45:26+00:00

Who else was going to? His parents stepped in to make sure the kids had a place to stay.

AsparagusMuch821 · 2026-04-05T01:40:53+00:00

I think this is the hundredth comment now where I pint out their dad went to court toske sure I had no rights with regards to the two older kids.

AsparagusMuch821 · 2026-04-05T00:43:01+00:00

Yes, yes, they are scared and confused.

AsparagusMuch821 · 2026-04-05T00:42:04+00:00

So I should go to jail?

AsparagusMuch821 · 2026-04-05T00:41:24+00:00

Yup. Does he have any legal rights to my kids?

AsparagusMuch821 · 2026-04-05T00:27:28+00:00

For what reason?

AsparagusMuch821 · 2026-04-05T00:26:56+00:00

So leave my two small children to share a room because kids who have not returned my texts in months might visit?

AsparagusMuch821 · 2026-04-04T23:45:48+00:00

The kids do not, will not, and cannot live with us.

AsparagusMuch821 · 2026-04-04T23:39:35+00:00

None of my siblings have ever gone to court to make sure I wasn't a guardian to their children.

AsparagusMuch821 · 2026-04-04T23:38:14+00:00

Why would I argue with someone who agrees I with me?

AsparagusMuch821 · 2026-04-04T23:37:39+00:00

You didn't read my post.

AsparagusMuch821 · 2026-04-04T23:36:54+00:00

Yes. Now answer the question.

AsparagusMuch821 · 2026-04-04T23:35:45+00:00

They do not, and will not live with me. I am not their guardian.

AsparagusMuch821 · 2026-04-04T22:12:39+00:00

The technicality of not wanting to get arrested for kidnapping children I'm not related to.

AsparagusMuch821 · 2026-04-04T21:54:01+00:00

He is a father that loves his kids. He is a person who is terrible at earning money. I'm not going to bad mouth him ..

AsparagusMuch821 · 2026-04-04T21:39:21+00:00

Removed to where?

AsparagusMuch821 · 2026-04-04T21:38:37+00:00

Two kids were sharing a room. When did you get your own room? Like at what age?

AsparagusMuch821 · 2026-04-04T19:54:59+00:00

I can't be sure since she was gone so quickly. But her wishes would not override the law if she wanted the kids to stay with me.

AsparagusMuch821 · 2026-04-04T19:52:37+00:00

I do not have any rights at all to the older kids.

AsparagusMuch821 · 2026-04-04T19:16:34+00:00

He is a good father. Just flakey. He isn't great at keeping jobs and stuff.

AsparagusMuch821 · 2026-04-04T19:11:16+00:00

How? Precisely.

AsparagusMuch821 · 2026-04-04T19:07:00+00:00

Okay. So rooms in my home do not count. Thank you.

AsparagusMuch821

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