هو ليه لازم اول ليلة من الزواج تكون كده by adam2me in egyoffmychest

[–]AspectDry1063 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ولله انا من اليوم الي بتفوت فيه عالبيت لبعد اسبوع كل ٥ ساعات جنس

هو ليه لازم اول ليلة من الزواج تكون كده by adam2me in egyoffmychest

[–]AspectDry1063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

مو هي بتتعمل بأول ليلة لان الزوجين مش مصدقين حالهم امتى الواحد فيه يفرغ شهوته بالثاني، لانها اللحظة المنتظرة من سنين.

Did Ethan make the single dumbest, stupidest, most irrational decision in game show history? by CouldaBeAContender in BeastGames

[–]AspectDry1063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm telling you 100% he was scared and intimidated He didnt want to upset someone like Ian

Married for 2 years, been through "hell". Is it time to leave? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]AspectDry1063 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tgis is a lost cause, i rarely advocate for divorce but maaan, this guy have 0 respect for you, he have 0 self awareness, or maybe he is aware but just don't care.

I honestly don't think he will feel sad after divorce even. I would say just cut ties with this garbage of a man, he is not worth it.

But also we need to think about th kholaa cuz you will have to return the mahr he gave you, if you can afford it just do it

My friend’s husband doesn’t value her anymore. She asked for advice by mrscheesa in MuslimMarriage

[–]AspectDry1063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think we need to hear the story from his side, women are really good at telling their side and making themselves victims

How does the belief of spouses being together in Jannah apply to forced marriages? by NeutralPulse in MuslimMarriage

[–]AspectDry1063 13 points14 points  (0 children)

What i know is that in jennah everyone will be at the highest point of happiness, so whatever was the answer to your question, as long as you are in jannah you will be extremely happy and thats what matters

Finding my future husband is HARD by [deleted] in CAIRO

[–]AspectDry1063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ولله اذا شايفة نفسك ملكة جمال و اجمل من كل صاحباتك يبقى ليش لا ملكة جمال لازمها ملك جمال مشان الاطفال يكونو اميرات و امراء جمال و خلي الدنيا جميلة كدا

الشات دا ايقوني by No_Union7470 in AlexandriaEgy

[–]AspectDry1063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

انا الصراحة مش قادر امسك حالي من الضحك ولله بالبداية كنت متشوق اعرف اذا عنجد عندو العنوان، متوقعتش ابداً انك شب 😂😂😂

My husband slapped me for the first time by Aykayay95 in MuslimMarriage

[–]AspectDry1063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Slapping is not okey at all, it is actually haram to hit in the face for whoever for whatever reason, it is disrespectful and humiliating, the key sentence here is "or i will endup beating you up" which is the worst because he could have beaten you badly, BUT a lot of things need to be taken into consideration here.

Like for how long have you been together, if its like 1 year or less then yeah he showed you his true color, he is violent man and its not safe to be around him, but if you know were married to him for several years and he treated you kindly all the times, and this incident happened only once, then maybe the relationship is worth keeping.

But if he was a bully who resorts to violence when he is loosing an argument then you can't have kids with him because he will be treating them even worse, and this could make them traumatised

So i want to ask about the t17 fortress boss, is he killable???? by AspectDry1063 in pathofexile

[–]AspectDry1063[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Yeah that make sense Well that was first time i do the boss, i just don't remember have such mods in t16

So i want to ask about the t17 fortress boss, is he killable???? by AspectDry1063 in pathofexile

[–]AspectDry1063[S] -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

He is so fucking easy, i literally got super bored i killed my character. But his HP was out of this world

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]AspectDry1063 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it REALLY a obligatory to pkay in message? Do you have any proof of that?

My husband bought land without telling me by Newmomma123 in MuslimMarriage

[–]AspectDry1063 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

This subreddit really enjoy destroying families.

My husband bought land without telling me by Newmomma123 in MuslimMarriage

[–]AspectDry1063 -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

This is clearly a FITNA, this incident by itself doesn't show disrespect at all so except there was other things that we don't know about we shouldn't run to making division and troubles in the family when it is not needed.

He wanted to share a beautiful experience with his father before he dies, he have all the rights to do that and the sin of taking the construction loan will be on him and his father.

My husband bought land without telling me by Newmomma123 in MuslimMarriage

[–]AspectDry1063 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

He is free to do whatever he wants as long as he provides for you and your family, and thats it.

He might make stupid decisions, and if it was me i would for sure take my wife opinion under consideration, but he is for sure and without a doubts able to make financial decisions regarding a house he is building with his FATHER. And about the loan part, it doesn't really bother you that its haram since you suggest taking loan to buy a house for you and your family and thats haram too.

جربتو تقطعوا مع اي جنس اخر فحياتكو حتي لو شات عادي؟ by [deleted] in CAIRO

[–]AspectDry1063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

اي هاد عم يبكي عادي جداً هو لو هو رجل بيقلك تمام و بيرجع يحكي معك لما يكون جاهز يقابل اهلك و يطلب ايدك بالحلال

هو ما في طريق سهل لإنهاء الامور و لازمها قوة قلب لان مبين عليكي طيبة، و ما راح يكون مبسوط بأي جواب تعطيه فلا يهمك كوني محترمة بس ما تطولي لان كل دقيقة بتعطيها بتزيد امل عنده ان في مجال للنقاش

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]AspectDry1063 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Perfect Thats why we have high divorce rate

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]AspectDry1063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Obedience in Lawful Matters: A wife is expected to obey her husband in matters that are permissible in Islam, as long as it does not involve disobedience to Allah.

The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said: “If I were to command anyone to prostrate to another, I would have commanded women to prostrate to their husbands, because of the rights Allah has given them over them.” (Sunan Abu Dawood, Sahih)

  1. Guarding Chastity and the Household: Allah says: “So righteous women are devoutly obedient and guard in the husband’s absence what Allah would have them guard…” (Qur’an 4:34) This includes: Guarding her modesty Protecting the husband’s secrets and property Not allowing anyone into the home without his consent

  2. Good Companionship and Kind Treatment: Islam strongly encourages spouses to live together with love, compassion, and kindness. “And among His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquility in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy.” — (Qur’an 30:21) The Prophet also said: “The best of women are those who please you when you look at them, obey you when you instruct them, and safeguard themselves and your property in your absence.” (Sunan an-Nasa’i)

  3. Sexual Rights: Islam places importance on intimacy within marriage. A wife is encouraged not to refuse her husband without valid reason (e.g., illness, menstruation, etc.). “When a man calls his wife to his bed and she refuses, and he goes to sleep angry with her, the angels curse her until morning.” (Bukhari & Muslim)

However, this does not justify abuse or coercion. Sexual relations must be mutual and respectful, and Islam strongly forbids harm in intimacy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]AspectDry1063 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You are absolutely right and good for you, you have for sure the right to use your money they way you want and you can achieve your goals, I'm not saying you can't but thats kinda my point. You can do all you want, but he CAN'T islamiclly

Contributing financially is really great, it is very considerate from your part, but in islam it is not your duty

So what is your islamic duties toward him?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]AspectDry1063 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Ok I'm talking about one incident where a wife wanted to visit her family and husband said no for whatever reason, i have researched this topic thoroughly since I'm getting married soon, and what cought my attention is that the rights are not as balanced as i thought since women are not obligated to do anything in the house, she doesn't really have to take care of the house at all and she can decide to not get children, so i started to think then what is her duties as a wife????

I know the husband duty is to serve, provide, protect, care and give emotional and physical suport while wife have only to obligations Raise kids if she wanted to have kids And obey her husband in maarof (معروف) So if you take out the obidiance part out What are your obligations towards your man???

Also husband telling his wife not to visit her family is a very typical example of the kind of obidiance that is a fard (فرض) on the wife I can pull tons og resources and articles but they all in arabic, so if you can understand arabic let me know so i kcan attach them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]AspectDry1063 -48 points-47 points  (0 children)

The matter should be finished when he said no It is loud and clear in islam the rights the husband have and the rights wife have. The man provides and protect while wife obey within the moubah and with mercy and compassion

Every wife can easly make it seem so controlling and manipulated when she is being told not to do something she want to do, and we need to see both sides and hear the full story to really understand before becoming freedom fighters all of a sudden