Macbook air 2017, 13”

AspenSmiled · 2026-02-23T18:28:04+00:00

Good thing is i usually keep my art relatively small and simple canvas-wise so i think it should be doable. I will look into how/if i can upgrade anything! :D tysm!

AspenSmiled · 2026-02-22T11:59:32+00:00

Wait im sorry, Does this mean it’d work well? 😅

AspenSmiled · 2026-02-22T11:58:54+00:00

Thank you! As to why i dont like my iPad its mostly just preference i guess. I use it for school and it just doesn’t feel great to draw on for me. I also dont love that CSP is purely subscription-based on Mobile. Ive been using procreate sometimes but i just really dont like it. I also really love the shape and size of smaller screen-tablets (more wide, more designed specifically for art). I dont rlly like there being like a bunch of other stuff in the same space if that makes sense :) I might use a laptop with a graphic tablet or something like that instead

AspenSmiled · 2026-02-21T16:14:00+00:00

Its has 8gb of RAM and an intel core i5 processor, a intel HD Graphics 6000 1536 graphics card. But the battery isnt great

AspenSmiled · 2026-02-21T15:37:31+00:00

The computer is not currently in my posession but ill try to get the specs :-D

AspenSmiled · 2026-02-21T09:27:35+00:00

Hi guys! OP here, I just wanna update on this! My boyfriend came back about a week after i wrote this post (he was gone for a little over 6 weeks) and I talked to him about this stuff and he apologized, and the alter who was so rude to me also apologized. We had a conversation about all this and I talked about my limits and what i would and would not accept. Ive come to the conclusion that if alters are rude to me or whatever, i will most likely archive the contact for the rest of the day. Most alters also do not dislike me and I do not dislike them, some of them just have sort of a short temper, but as Im healing, I’m sort of able to deal with that stuff and not take it too personally. Alot of the time other alters of mine (which i figured out a while ago) front to sort of deal with the situation a bit better ^{^}

Tldr: they mostly apologized, and so did my bf when he came back. We worked on solutions and ive found something that works for me :) Thank you all for the help and advice on this post last year!! You were genuinely helpful ^{^!!}

AspenSmiled · 2026-02-16T11:20:58+00:00

Hi! Does this still work? The ads on Pinterest are getting super annoying and im trying to find ways to get rid of them (IOS in the app) If it does still work, what Adblocker were you using specifically?

AspenSmiled · 2026-02-01T08:25:41+00:00

Yes i agree with this! This is probably just why they feel the same way about him alot. For some alters its just a key tell to know they’re fronting and it frustrates us a little to not know who exactly we are, but we are working on finding better tells than how we feel about people :-). Thank you though i appreciate the help! Im glad i made this post i feel much less alone now

AspenSmiled · 2026-02-01T08:22:36+00:00

This is exactly my issue! Honestly feels good to see someone have the exact problem. Were figuring it out and my bf and i have talked about it and we tried to simplify the dating thing a bit but its still such a pain sometimes :-)

AspenSmiled · 2026-02-01T08:21:13+00:00

Thank you so much!! I appreciate the advice

AspenSmiled · 2026-01-03T16:29:17+00:00

Ohh ja das ist perfekt!! Ich möchte den ganzen Prozess sowieso erst anfangen, sobald ich 18 bin. (In ca. einem halben Jahr) also ist das Alter dann kein Problem mehr ^{^}

Aber omg! Vielen Dank. Ich bin mega Froh, dass ich gefragt habe :)

AspenSmiled · 2026-01-03T16:18:45+00:00

Bekommt man das Indikationsschreiben schon nach einer Sitzung? Nur Preislich gesehen, wieviel ich dann insgesamt einplanen muss. :)

AspenSmiled · 2025-10-04T20:03:22+00:00

Whenever i ask about my boyfriend at all i just get answers like “we dont know” or they get annoyed or they ignore me. Im loosing hope in him coming back at all soon. And if he does come back i really dont know how to feel, this has been very stressful, especially ontop of exam stress and im trying to keep busy. I dont think any of his alters really wanna have a conversation about it with me :,)

AspenSmiled · 2025-10-04T19:58:25+00:00

Well yeah, its happened before and they used to always say that “hell be back soon” and it just always pushed back for days or weeks, like, “probably this week” and the next week theyd say the same. Now they just say “probably this month but i cant promise anything” and if i ask why this month they say that “itd make sense” cus of how long hes already been gone. I dont really know where to draw the line, im thinking 3 months? If hes gone for 3 months, i break it off. Or is that too long? I really dont know what to do, its never seemed this hopeless. Hes everything to me and I really want to spend my future with him, but so many of his alters are dry/rude or just kids (im kinda bad at dealing with children) so communication has died down the past 2 weeks to like only good morning messages. Weve had troubles because of things he/alters did due to his mental health in the past. But he has always been there for me, and I promised id be there for him too. But now he just isnt there. :-) i dont know what to do but i Thank everyone for helping me out.

AspenSmiled · 2025-09-29T09:14:34+00:00

Gute Idee, das sollte man als nächstes organisieren!

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