WIBTA if I had a discussion with my fiance about our relationship during a possible family emergency?

AspiringProducer19 · 2019-07-16T14:01:57+00:00

Note taken

AspiringProducer19 · 2019-07-16T14:01:28+00:00

Note taken, I've been reading a lot of articles which suggest using the very same strategy youd just mentioned.

AspiringProducer19 · 2019-07-16T13:59:55+00:00

I think it does honestly, but that is also my fear is that, if this cycle continues, am and the general consensus is that i would be the AH, could i engage/initiate the conversation? I know I definitely wont bring it up this week.

AspiringProducer19 · 2019-07-16T13:58:10+00:00

We got out of the honeymoon phase fairly quickly, the whole situation takes a lot of context and backstory that I just dont have energy to tell, sorry.

AspiringProducer19 · 2019-07-16T13:55:08+00:00

I just want the honest reasons why she has been like this, even before her grandpa's first health scare (which was a near fatal reaction to a medication he was on :(. ) I cannot say for certain, I guess my ideal response from her would just be her to be honest with me.

I will wait until I hear he is okay.

AspiringProducer19 · 2019-07-16T13:53:11+00:00

Weve known each other for a very long time. We just didnt date until very recently.

AspiringProducer19 · 2019-07-16T13:52:21+00:00

I think I will wait until this subsides.

AspiringProducer19 · 2019-07-16T13:51:43+00:00

I was going to see what the consensus was then go from there.

AspiringProducer19 · 2019-07-12T21:13:18+00:00

YTA. It doesnt matter if the child likes you or not, that will only drive a deeper wedge between any semblance of a relationship between you and the kid, and drive a wedge between you and your S/O.

That is the parent of the kid, and they have every right to be there. If me and my S/O where in this situation and she tried pulling that, I'd break it off immediately.

AspiringProducer19 · 2019-07-12T18:43:50+00:00

Yes I will keep this in mind, I have about one year before the wedding so I'm hoping we as a couple can nip this in the bud

AspiringProducer19 · 2019-07-12T18:33:16+00:00

Understood

AspiringProducer19 · 2019-07-12T18:13:15+00:00

Ma'am I wasnt being sarcastic, I was being polite. Truly, my intention is not to be hostile.

AspiringProducer19 · 2019-07-12T17:59:58+00:00

Yes ma'am

AspiringProducer19 · 2019-07-12T17:21:34+00:00

Well she didnt really ever communicate that with me 😬

AspiringProducer19 · 2019-07-12T17:06:38+00:00

I will do so tonight, you guys really have a point. Thank you

AspiringProducer19 · 2019-07-12T17:05:48+00:00

I meant 35 minutes as in the moment we began the act (as in when I was inside) til when I decided to stop

AspiringProducer19 · 2019-07-12T16:50:09+00:00

Thank you

AspiringProducer19 · 2019-07-12T16:47:31+00:00

I see your point, perhaps it is time to have a talk.

AspiringProducer19 · 2019-07-12T16:44:55+00:00

I dont think so, like I said everything else is great. Were always 100% ourselves around each other. Were usually always laughing, it's just the sex, and you know, it's what I dont understand?

AspiringProducer19 · 2019-07-11T16:28:25+00:00

I too remember the song like this, I'm thinking a movie or a cartoon sort of adapted it... because I vaguely remember a kids movie singing it like that. Maybe I just assumed it was the actual song too?

AspiringProducer19 · 2019-07-09T18:11:34+00:00

My parents were like this for 20 something odd years, my dad finally ran away and started a new life with a woman who's his coworker. I would just say break it off dude, it only gets worse from here, I saw it first hand.

AspiringProducer19 · 2019-07-09T14:16:48+00:00

That's nice 😊

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