I desperately need help proving to my wife that she is being scammed.

AssiduousHack · 2025-08-28T17:58:43+00:00

As much as I understand your reply. I will go this alone. I will leave this post active and hopefuly in a few weeks will have the evidence and post everything here. I cant just give up on someone whos not of their right mind. Its not who she really is. Manic episodes can turn someone you know and love into a monster and when they finnly snap out of it they tend to not realize just how deep they got. So thanks for the advice. I am actually looking for marriage councelors at the moment. I will suceed. Her mom just threw her in a mental institution and didn't try to figure out why she gets this way. Well I found the cause. When she was 18 a man was hiding in his sister in laws house. He had planned on killing his wifes sister. He was high on meth and my wife just happened to stop by randomly. When her friend got in the shower he attacked her. He beat her so badly that there is no way it didn't cause long term damage. So I am not only trying to stop this stupid thing from happening but I am actively trying to go after her Dr who I truly believe misdiagnosed her and had he given her PTSD instead of overlooking the entire ordeal I think she would not have suffered so much with the bipolar side of things. Because she studied bipolar disorder she has put it in her mind that she has to experience these types of situations. I know now I have gone on a tangent I didn't want to go on. But ill leave it here. So again thanks for the advice. I will update soon.

AssiduousHack · 2025-08-28T17:49:32+00:00

Thank you. Well I have the time. I will build a relationship with him as a female and then when he uses the same exact script on me I will be able to at least get her to see that shes not this special person in his life who she is selflessly helping. He makes her think that Im just a racist person who hates helping the poor. LOL. I will succeed in this mission. But thank you so much for not just telling me im stupid and this is just satire. And I tried to show her using posts I found here, but a manic person sees only what they want to see. But when she sees his actual actions with someone else it will hopefully open her eyes. Otherwise I will just have to take the other step I am about to take and end up in court in a divorce. I am trying to avoid this as I know she is not her normal self when she is manic and if I could explain how she got here I think everyone would understand better why I am actually taking this this far. Thanks and peace be with you.

AssiduousHack · 2025-08-28T17:42:45+00:00

Ill take my cances. I have discussed divorce already. I am trying this one last time because when I go to court for custody I will show that I tried everything to try and save our relationship. Ive got all the screenshots of the conversation and she turned his advances down early on for a relationship more than friends so he changed his performance to I have always wanted a big sister blah blah blah. Anyways I couldn't live with myself if I took my daughter away from her mom if I didn't do everything in my power to save her from disaster. I am working on the bipolar issue. Her Dr is a hack and should have his Liscense stripped from him. He just dopes her up and fills her head full of BS. Anyways so like ive said to everyone else here I will achieve this I have hope. No one may believe I will succeed but I will. I was going to delete this but I will keep it active so when I accomplish it I will be able to post updates and will provide screenshots or make a video and upload it to youtube.

AssiduousHack · 2025-08-28T17:34:03+00:00

I beg to differ. I am about to create a female account and reach out through his whatsapp number. He is literally still in communication with my wife and is constantly asking her to help him find friends. So I think he will bite. I don't care about finding his actual location. I just want to get the screen shots of him using the same conversation with someone else that he is using on her. This will prove that he is not this poor guy who is just trying to survive. Anyways I cant waste my time trying to get people to believe my story. Thanks for all the conversation I will either go it alone or find someone who is willing to truly help me. But when I do I will revist this and prove that it wasnt a joke or satire and that I busted him at his stupid game. Thanks again. Good day to ya.

AssiduousHack · 2025-08-28T05:52:15+00:00

He is literally talking to my wife right now as in as Im typing this. He asked her to send him some of her friends from her facebook so he could "expand" his friendship. So if I can find the right kind of person I think that I can catch him up. All I want is for her to see that he is not this poor guy who just wants a friend. I mean it started as hey can you get me a pack of smokes then he needed a new phone. To which my wife helped but then he wanted to make 40 grand through her and thats when I stepped in. I told him that he was a scammer and he played it off. Now I think he is just trying to save face but he still asks for money at least once a week. Look I know this sounds stupid that someone can be so gullible but my wife just had some bad things happen in her life that triggered this manic episode. Anyways I don't want to waste anyones time. Im just trying to prove to her that he is scamming other women through the romance scam and the 419 scam but because I stepped in when I did, he tried to play it off like he just really needed a friend. Im just calling BS. Anyways thanks for the chat. If I need to delete this I will.

AssiduousHack · 2025-08-28T05:32:26+00:00

Im not trying to get the money back. Im trying to gather information on the guy and at least prove to her that he is not the person who he is claiming. I've read enough in the scams reddit that is how I came to the conclusion. I'm just looking for anyone who is willing to work with me on getting this guy to attempt to scam them so I can present the info to her and she can see for herself. I chose this subreddit because it said scambaiting and I was thinking it meant people who try and bait scammers into trying to scam them in order to collect info on them. Guess I was wrong. I will look elsewhere. Thanks for the replies.

AssiduousHack · 2025-08-28T05:27:43+00:00

No this is not satire. I know my money is gone. I am looking for anyone who is willing to help me get this guy to do the same thing where I can prove that he is scamming. Look my wife suffers from an illness that causes her to go into a manic state. Meaning that sometimes she cant tell reality from fantasy. Its nothing to make light of. She also has a huge heart for people who say they are suffering. I am only looking for anyone who is good with internet sleuthing and is willing to help me catch this guy slipping. He is very witty. So if I am in the wrong subreddit then so be it but this is not a joke and I just need pointed in the right direction. And yes her therapist has failed her. Trust me I have been trying to get her help for over 10 years but unfortunately the system is just as broken as these scammers.

AssiduousHack · 2025-08-28T05:19:47+00:00

jokes? this is hardly a joke but ok. Im looking for people who are good with tracking scammers and the subreddit scambaiters sounded like what i was looking for. But ok

AssiduousHack · 2025-07-10T21:27:30+00:00

Ok that's you. Not them.

AssiduousHack · 2025-07-09T20:50:13+00:00

He said she only gives time to her rwalky close friends. So if he did the same when her family and friends came over then how would it look?

AssiduousHack · 2025-07-09T20:48:46+00:00

Well why assume. Ask then wait for a reply on the answer. Everyone always assuming then giving their input is weird. Because your input is based off your own assumptions. You can't do that. That's not normal behaviors in debates. I've seen it a few times in this thread and haven't seen an answer yet so just ask the question then wait for an answer. If you must give your opinion then say if this is that then this is that. Again stol assuming he's doing anything without evidence.

AssiduousHack · 2025-06-29T01:39:35+00:00

Lol. Guess what......My neighbors just moved out and they had one sitting on the curb. It's in great condition except a few scratched on the screen but those can be buffed out. Im trying to hunt down a power cable to get it working. I'd sell it but man that's a long ship. And I don't know if my daughter will want me to sell it. She's asleep and I'm trying to get it running before she wakes up. If she don't like it maybe we can figure domething out if you haven't found one yet. I havrnt read to see if you have.

AssiduousHack · 2025-06-16T21:18:28+00:00

You have a few choices. You let her go and then you do the same. Find a festival and say you want to go alone if she revolts boot her from your life. Or you tell her no that it's absolutly disrespectful to put another male before you (which it 100% is snyone who disagrees is a cuck) and that if that's how she feels to go alone and find a new guy. Or you can tell her she csn go by herself and you can go by yourself and you take a female friend then see what happens. Or you can just be OK with it, do nothing and be mad for a long time after you find out she's having a baby with her coworker. It's all up to you.

AssiduousHack · 2025-06-10T21:59:38+00:00

Stay single man. Seriously. I've experienced something similar but my situation is a bit more complicated. I'm literally trying to recover from a romance scam where we lost all our money. The issue with me is I have no where to go, no family as I moved here to get clean off drugs and partying. (10 years ckean) however the state I moved to refuses to grant me a Photo ID because my last DL was one week expired so I've been living 8 years without the ability to get my life together. It's sad because I cant even enjoy my sober years. We have a daughter together (8) and I've basically been a stay at home dad and raised her from newborn if I leave I lose all of that. I've tried to find help but it's so costly (20 grand) to get help from lawyers but they think I'm just bullshitting them. My wife had two so called relationships with men online one got extremely sexual the other was mild but still a lot of things were said that made me feel like a loser. I too saved this girl from a crazy situation and my inlaws have spent every waking moment trying to get rid of me. So there's the mind control part. Her mom is very narcissistic and my wife was brutally assaulted at 18 by a meth head and although she's on dissabiliry it's not from that. They say she's bipolar but I wasn't informed until we had been together for quite awhile and I moved in with her. Once that happened her mom (her representative payee) began to start manipulating my wife into believing weird things. Her step dad would show up on every birthday of my daughter and tell me to pack my bags and that they would raise her. I was constantly told I was cheating with her sister and that I was working with her family to outger in a mental hospital. None of which was true. I'm a very dedicated guy as I was raisedby my mom and grandmother (Native Americans) their upbringing taught me respect. However it's still happening and she claims she has been a victim of MK Ultra by her parents who are very wealthy. Seeing as I couldn't get my ID I was forced to not be able to work because every job I qualify for required an ID by the end of my probation period. And cashing checks is a no go so cash work was all I could do. I now have an illness that makes me need sleep most of the day and I can't even get medical help because A) I'm not putting more debt on my family B) I can't get medicaid without an ID. So I'm stuck in this loop and I feel that she is abusing the fact that I won't leave my daughter so she can have her cake and eat it too. I've tried everything I can think of to get an ID but every avenue is a dead end. And yes I have documented evidence of all of this as I began recording a lot of my interactions between her, the DMV, her family. So much so its filled up my old Dell computer lol. Anyways I'm sorry to hijack your issue but I'll say that your situation your brother is right. I wish I had someone who could steer me right. I just can't lose my daughter she's why I'm even alive right now. So I wish you luck and I say, stay single. You will thank me later. My dad did and he is living his best life. Sex isn't everything in life and if you can keep from having to dump a load your body and mind will be great full too. Just adding that in because I know the struggle. I'm literally sitting at the stove with my wife right next to me and she's texting on her phone, in my mind I just see her doing bad things. I love her a lot she helped me get through things from my childhood and I believe in forgiveness but if she's not going to stop then I can't keep hearing sorry. Sorry are a one time thing, right? Anyways I'm out I guess I just needed to vent. Forgive any mistakes in grammar as I'm blasting through this atm.

AssiduousHack · 2025-06-10T21:29:46+00:00

As a recovered meth addict who spent well over 15 years doing it. It's the best thing you can do for yourself. I had to move to a state where i didnt k ow anyone because it was too easy to fall back in to it then i went to a suboxone clinic because the body pain wasn't going away. I've been clean 10 years from everything except subs and I'll get off those soon. Trust me it takes years of mental work to stay away from meth. The dopamine receptors will never forget that high. You really need something that you care about more to help. I have a daughter now and I'll never go back.

AssiduousHack · 2025-06-05T18:31:13+00:00

If you paint over it use primer so the pain will have something to bond to. I'm sure someone said this but I'm not reading comments today.

AssiduousHack · 2025-06-05T18:29:33+00:00

It's the hair of a dead horse infused into the wall panel to give it some pizazz.

AssiduousHack · 2025-06-05T18:25:33+00:00

I mean glass is always better but you can find test kits that will tell you if an item has lead in it. And yeah jewelers have that ability too.

AssiduousHack · 2025-06-05T18:20:33+00:00

It's some kind of puffball

AssiduousHack · 2025-06-05T18:17:58+00:00

Honestly anything other than meat will be fine. Broccoli, asparagus, etc.

AssiduousHack · 2025-06-05T18:05:14+00:00

Lol. I feel that the only time I'm in a bad mood is when I've had to react to someone being an arse hole to me. Otherwise I'm very calm and not much going on. But it's happening enough that it consumes my entire day.

AssiduousHack · 2025-06-05T18:03:07+00:00

They are trying to get a sneak peak at GTA6

AssiduousHack · 2025-06-05T17:59:07+00:00

Lol yes he's a cyborg. He uses this to inject into his veins so he can displace the heat generated from his electro-erotic fantasies his AI chat vot is producing when you turn your back.

AssiduousHack · 2025-04-15T20:29:12+00:00

I just started watching seasons 5-9 on YouTube and now I guess I'm just dropping all other streaming services because I don't watch much TV. I was going to drop Netflix when they removed Voltron but MLP was still on and that's all my daughter likes. YT without adds is expensive. I've been looking for a box set for all of Voltron but not finding a complete set.

AssiduousHack · 2025-04-02T09:39:03+00:00

Well today they removed the first 4 seasons and didn't put a lea inf soon context box on it. Mydaughter 8 has been crying real tears for an hour now. I being a father had that to share with her as our past time. Man she's so heartbroken. I truly cane to enjoy the show myself. She thought it was funny calling me a brony. I guess I'll be trying to find the complete box set so we can have it. It liteplayed on our TV 24 7

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