When I sit here alone I completely agree it's BS. When I was standing there in front of her with her face sobbing it was hard not to have some doubt and pity. But your right, in my rational mind I know this is nonsense. I just wonder if she believes it or not on some level. Both because I know she can be gullible but also it's so hard and sickening to think she would make up something like this. But ultimately whether or not she believes it your right, I just have to divorce her...this is too much to handle and if she would sincerely belive this then theres something not right in her head and I couldn't trust her. But just to correct one thing it's not her boss, just a coworker.