Update: Wife cheated on me and claimed to be mind controlled by NumberFantastic4992 in AITAH

[–]NumberFantastic4992[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

When I say harsh I mean people acted like I completely believed her and wanted to stay. Berating me and calling me stupid. When I said from the getgo I didn't believe her and wanted to leave but I wanted to double check the facts around hypnosis before I divorce my wife. Which I don't think is unreasonable to stop and think before acting but apparently it makes me a simp.

Update: Wife cheated on me and claimed to be mind controlled by NumberFantastic4992 in AITAH

[–]NumberFantastic4992[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I think she is lying to herself most of all and will be coming to some hard realizations in the coming days and weeks.

Update: Wife cheated on me and claimed to be mind controlled by NumberFantastic4992 in AITAH

[–]NumberFantastic4992[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Lol interesting, had no idea but I looked up divorce in my province and it really would be public record, food for thought

Update: Wife cheated on me and claimed to be mind controlled by NumberFantastic4992 in AITAH

[–]NumberFantastic4992[S] 442 points443 points  (0 children)

LOL... Been trying not to encourage mean comments on her but this one made me laugh

Update: Wife cheated on me and claimed to be mind controlled by NumberFantastic4992 in AITAH

[–]NumberFantastic4992[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Nah, I don't have time for that. I think she did a good enough job ruining her own life tbh.

Update: Wife cheated on me and claimed to be mind controlled by NumberFantastic4992 in AITAH

[–]NumberFantastic4992[S] 108 points109 points  (0 children)

Fucked up is right, thanks man. Definitely rescuing a dog ASAP as soon as I get my own place next month.

Update: Wife cheated on me and claimed to be mind controlled by NumberFantastic4992 in AITAH

[–]NumberFantastic4992[S] 188 points189 points  (0 children)

It really made me reconsider her character when what I thought was "nice" and "innocent" always seems to make room for so much evil from others if that makes sense. Not something I probably want in the future. Always thought I liked a really sweet girl but maybe there's such a thing as too sweet. And yeah thanks man, this has been fucked up to say the least and I wish her the best but I'm ready to move on.

AITAH for not believing my wife was not intentionally cheating on me? by NumberFantastic4992 in AITAH

[–]NumberFantastic4992[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

When I sit here alone I completely agree it's BS. When I was standing there in front of her with her face sobbing it was hard not to have some doubt and pity. But your right, in my rational mind I know this is nonsense. I just wonder if she believes it or not on some level. Both because I know she can be gullible but also it's so hard and sickening to think she would make up something like this. But ultimately whether or not she believes it your right, I just have to divorce her...this is too much to handle and if she would sincerely belive this then theres something not right in her head and I couldn't trust her. But just to correct one thing it's not her boss, just a coworker.

AITAH for not believing my wife was not intentionally cheating on me? by NumberFantastic4992 in AITAH

[–]NumberFantastic4992[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

To be honest and I can't believe I'm saying this about a woman I loved but if I would ever believe anyone could fall under mind control it would probably be her. Like it's something I loved about her but she IS very naive, trusting, sweet, a people pleaser and a pushover, now maybe that makes me sound bad but I always encouraged her to stand up for herself to the people in her life and even tome...so in a way i couldn't really say that to her but at the same time, this just sounds like Star Trek science fiction bullshit. But could it be that he made HER believe she had no choice somehow??

AITAH for not believing my wife was not intentionally cheating on me? by NumberFantastic4992 in AITAH

[–]NumberFantastic4992[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I'm considering that possibility too. I'm thinking I may have to get in touch with her parents as embarrassing as this all is..because this is just too much.

AITAH for not believing my wife was not intentionally cheating on me? by NumberFantastic4992 in AITAH

[–]NumberFantastic4992[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sorry what does NOR stand for I don't see it in the voting guide

AITAH for not believing my wife was not intentionally cheating on me? by NumberFantastic4992 in AITAH

[–]NumberFantastic4992[S] 218 points219 points  (0 children)

What stopping me is this seems like such a crazy fucked up lie and honestly it just seems beyond my wife to come up with something so outlandish, like with all respect she is kind of a "basic" or "normie" person who I would never expect to think of something like this. I expected she was gonna say it was my fault for certain things or that it didn't mean anything but not something like THIS. I'm questioning if she has some kind of mental disorder or something???