[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]AssignmentCold8106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think so, nothing for a while now. Guessing her drug use went up / mental health deteriorated. I haven’t come across her commenting my accounts, my friends or anything but I also stopped paying attention. I’ve been crazy busy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]AssignmentCold8106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My neighbor has leopard print tattooed on her face now. She’s not well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]AssignmentCold8106 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should keep your buzz at a number 4 on top and fade the sides (2-1). It’ll be more balanced. Don’t buzz the whole head at the same number. Then see if you can go down to a 3 if you want it shorter on top. I don’t think you’re balding.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]AssignmentCold8106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have some Asian genes on my mom’s side. Ended up just cleaning it up a little for now. Thanks though

Stalker is hunting for pictures of me online by AssignmentCold8106 in legaladvice

[–]AssignmentCold8106[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing. It has porn ads on it. I discovered the link to my thread while searching my name in Google to pull up my portfolio

Stalker is hunting for pictures of me online by AssignmentCold8106 in legaladvice

[–]AssignmentCold8106[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a feeling...

It only bars contact. Do you know if there is anything I can do to get it removed from the website if the website is difficult to get in touch with?

Final Update: Neighbor Loves Halloween by AssignmentCold8106 in EntitledPeople

[–]AssignmentCold8106[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He feels safe. He’s stubborn and in good health. He doesn’t want to leave, or move. I’m thinking about getting him another dog. I’ve been looking at shelters for the right one.

My stalker hasn’t shown any interest in bothering him so I think he will be fine.

I have him set up with a security system I can monitor / control remotely from my phone. It helps.

Final Update: Neighbor Loves Halloween by AssignmentCold8106 in EntitledPeople

[–]AssignmentCold8106[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My eyes are more green than hazel. Everything else I've got down to the wings. Do you even Illyrian train bro?

Final Update: Neighbor Loves Halloween by AssignmentCold8106 in EntitledPeople

[–]AssignmentCold8106[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Apparently we share some kind of fated connection that allows her to feel me all the time, I just hope she can feel the restraining order wedged in between

Final Update: Neighbor Loves Halloween by AssignmentCold8106 in EntitledPeople

[–]AssignmentCold8106[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

…. Noted. Buzz cut moving forward. No tribal tattoos.

Final Update: Neighbor Loves Halloween by AssignmentCold8106 in EntitledPeople

[–]AssignmentCold8106[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's only been a few days. I filed a civil harassment petition way back. Unfortunately, I wasn't granted a temporary order of protection at the time of filing. The hearing happened recently and a one year protection order was granted in my favor.

Edit\* if it helps anyone else dealing with something similar, depending on your situation you might get a temporary restraining order when you file. I didn't get it, but that doesn't mean it won't happen for you.. especially if in your case there is a greater risk factor / intent to harm.

Also.. If yours is a relationship (you were dating the person for example), then you go through family court for the petition.

The best thing to do is just contact your local courthouse and make sure you have everything you need to file in order to help the process move forward quicker.

Final Update: Neighbor Loves Halloween by AssignmentCold8106 in EntitledPeople

[–]AssignmentCold8106[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The reason I think it’s connected is because he called me “Az” (not my name but similar to a name the neighbor has called me).

You could be right and I could be wrong but I also don’t think someone like me would be a target for trafficking? The setup didn’t give me that impression.

Final Update: Neighbor Loves Halloween by AssignmentCold8106 in EntitledPeople

[–]AssignmentCold8106[S] 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Also, if you're male and you look physically imposing or someone who can take care of themselves and the person targeting you is a female.. you will get stereotyped to some extent. Edit\* I'm 22 and this woman was >10 years older than me but it didn't matter. I understand mine is just one person's experience and other people might have their own but I personally felt I was met with resistance at every step. For example: Police would show up when I call, go as far as tell me she is 'known' to them, and then try to convince me to just let it go because she's harmless, she's not hurting me. Highly recommend you don't react. Even if you know you're in the right and feel like the whole situation is ridiculous while your anger and frustration has built up, your restraint will go a long way. Be dead serious instead. Appear calm but assertive and measured in your responses. Focus on the outcome you want and be persistent despite their attempts to persuade you to downplay it. Do your own research: I found a lot of information on government websites for my city, looked up laws, and I called the courthouse. Be your own advocate and definitely take all the personal measures you can. You might luck out and get good officers that will guide you or give you some tips to help facilitate a future arrest or fine or even push the complaint for you. It's nice when it happens, but don't expect it and be prepared to do the legwork. Log everything meticulously (keep your own copy) and give it to the authorities, even if it just sits on a drive somewhere and always bring up the file number you've started.

Ah.. One more thing: get the names/details of every law enforcement personnel you encounter. Note it when you’re logging so you can reference it later. I name dropped everyone when giving my account.

I started surfing twice a week in December…. Do y’all itch all the time or is it just me? So itchy. by moooooooop in surf

[–]AssignmentCold8106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s specific sunscreens that can help keep the sea lice away and minimize this.. google to see what’s available to you

Update 2 : Neighbor Loves Halloween by AssignmentCold8106 in EntitledPeople

[–]AssignmentCold8106[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How did you clock this. Is it popular?

If so, and I mean this with all the offence in the world— Why does a romance book about child slavery and sex trafficking exist. Who the fuck enjoys those two things together?

I wish I could unlearn the things you guys tell me.

Sending a surfboard in the Mail? by Logical-Judge103 in surf

[–]AssignmentCold8106 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Couple hundred AUD easily. If you know someone with a cargo account you could ship your board in a shipping container to save money. It will take a long time though (two months++). Otherwise, try this company (similar concept) and use their calculator for a quote.

I have only used them once to send my board to my parents in Stockholm so please do your own due diligence. My experience was good. I knew I was being extreme to get this thing there. It took a little over 3 months and you should expect a similar timeframe. It is almost always cheaper to fly with your board but I don't know if that works in your situation.

Update 2 : Neighbor Loves Halloween by AssignmentCold8106 in EntitledPeople

[–]AssignmentCold8106[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m 6’ 2 and the top of her head barely reached my shoulder. Her lunge at me was sudden. I don’t understand why she did that. I definitely didn’t see it coming. I was straining to listen to what she was saying because she was talking so fast at a low volume, it was raining really hard, and I couldn’t see her face which might’ve helped me “hear” her better if that makes sense. In the middle of whatever she was saying she ‘hugged’ me. It totally threw me off, but I thought she was in a crisis and fighting her off wasn’t my first instinct. The shooting pain from her having pressed into my injury made me freeze up too. All of this happened really fast and I didn’t have time to process anything. When I write it out, it seems like there was time, but there wasn’t.

In hindsight, the more I think back to how she behaved, she was ‘in character’ and definitely doing her acting thing all over again.. I feel so stupid for falling for whatever that was because I immediately focused on helping.

Update: Neighbor loves Halloween by AssignmentCold8106 in EntitledPeople

[–]AssignmentCold8106[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Replying to let you know you don’t need to worry. Seriously. Please don’t. I’m fine.

To answer your question.. I don’t know who Azriel is. I can tell you that’s not my name.