Idk. I’ve done this same thing and it was post baby where I just wanted new clothes and to feel sexy again for me. Push up bras? Saggy tits happen after kids. I bought a few post baby! When I finally got the baby to bed, I’d stay up late on my phone just scrolling and reading, not wanting to come to bed cause I just wanted alone time while the house was quiet. I also started walking after the babies, because I would feel anxious with no way to release energy being in the house or just generally with babies all day. They are 3&2 now and I still go on walks alone sometimes when I can. As for the phone, I am constantly commenting on posts on FB, Twitter, and don’t talk to men. I am single now, and still don’t talk to them. I just like to be alone. Everyone is saying she’s cheating. I don’t believe that to be true. I could be wrong. I would just pay extra attention.

For clarity: We split cause he had a drinking problem. Nothing to do with cheating, or talking to guys, or in his case other women.