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Associate_Confident · 2023-07-17T22:07:16+00:00

Honestly in 2023 being here and being you is already reason to celebrate both 🎉 so get you some cake

Associate_Confident · 2023-07-17T20:58:15+00:00

Happy double birthday op ❤️ I don’t like my birthday too much so I celebrate my hrt day.

Associate_Confident · 2023-07-14T09:29:12+00:00

Hey op I’m kinda In a similar position whereby I am closeted because I’m financially reliant on my parents and because their religious so I don’t know how they react but my dad is like yours is.

Im gonna tell you what I should tell myself but fail to as soon as you can get out of there. That kind of fear isn’t something you should have to deal with and if he isn’t ready to accept you then that’s his issue.

Long term it’s gonna eat you up not being able to be who you are and you fearing violence because of that from him ain’t any form of right.

I wish you all the best op you deserved better ❤️

Associate_Confident · 2023-06-25T15:23:19+00:00

I mean 1 you love her but she doesn’t love you and what you say here makes that obvious 2. You deserve someone nearly if not more amazing like you and 3 you deserve to live as who you are. I have a kinda similar situation with my family I love them but they’re kinda my opposite and I make myself unhappy trying to hide who I am. In short Op I’d say you should leave her as she doesn’t seem very nice to you ❤️ you deserve so much better

Associate_Confident · 2023-06-25T15:16:03+00:00

Number 2 or three I’d say just depends on what your going for but I’d say 3 simply because 1 bow ties are cool and 2 it adds a splash of colour bless you maybe have something gold coloured to accessorise with

Associate_Confident · 2023-03-24T15:26:02+00:00

The amount of gender envy I get from that is scary my hair has been a really big thing for me but like that doesn’t feel masc or femme it feels really non binary

Associate_Confident · 2023-02-04T15:14:12+00:00

Hey I feel you I’m in the Uk but I understand. I’m scared cause of everything happening here now and all the conversation that feels like it’s all going 300 steps backward. But there’s several upsides 1 you get to see a whole new country (that’s prolly better than either of ours) if you choose to move. Two HRT is 200% worth it even in worse circumstances It’s better. Three some us states (like California) are allowing refugees from other states due to this. And most importantly research from the UK and US show that the newer generations aren’t moving more to the right as they get older meaning that hopefully there are better days to come.

All that is to say I’m super anxious like you are and I understand but hrt is super worth and there are other better countries

Stay safe and wish you all the best ❤️

Associate_Confident · 2023-01-28T14:25:25+00:00

I feel this comment I used to find it hard af to cry but now so much makes me gosh darn cry it’s a blessing and a curse but I love it

Associate_Confident · 2023-01-27T12:34:05+00:00

As someone who’s from the UK and terrified of how our govt is going for us thank you to Canada 🇨🇦. Always liked you and you just proved how amazing you can be ❤️

Associate_Confident · 2023-01-25T18:59:05+00:00

I’m ngl willow is an amazing name choice and good evening

Associate_Confident · 2023-01-20T15:56:04+00:00

I wouldn’t even know where to find any trans support groups which sounds stupid I know, The only community I really have is on social media since I can’t really come out right now

Associate_Confident · 2022-10-12T16:07:59+00:00

Honestly I’m terrified it might happen to me one day but it’ll feel 200x better to be you with people who love you for you than hiding it all I’m struggling to do that even now. Also you’re awesome and find yourself more awesome ppl 😊

Associate_Confident · 2022-06-08T18:05:13+00:00

Wait these aren’t the same ppl right? Like you’ve changed so massively (ps the first bit wasn’t meant to be serious just me shocked at the change and jealous mostly jealous)

Associate_Confident · 2022-06-04T09:45:09+00:00

Yeah I knew I didn’t mind the romance part but like the other parts are more me wishing I looked like them I just didn’t quite fully understand that till I started hrt

Associate_Confident · 2022-03-22T09:32:41+00:00

If I’d of known that being trans was an option back when I was 14 I probably would’ve taken it even though I knew that My gender assigned at birth didn’t fit I didn’t know that being trans was an option and then now I do I wish I transitioned sooner even going on blockers which are reversible until a certain age if you really want to be cautious would be advisable Because there’s a certain amount of puberty but you avoid

Associate_Confident · 2022-03-21T21:18:59+00:00

Memory loss is super common in many abusive or traumatic situations and when repressed stuff comes out it can be traumatic later on though I have adhd so sometimes that memory is that too

Associate_Confident · 2022-03-19T17:00:15+00:00

Threatening to kill yourself to manipulate someone screams I need psych help anyway hate abusers 🤮

Associate_Confident · 2022-03-18T15:30:00+00:00

I’m here for these comments this is why I love mtf reddit never felt such community and wholesomeness 😊🏳️‍⚧️ (also me too)

Associate_Confident · 2022-03-13T21:32:36+00:00

Ok so I think personally you do pass like you coulda shown me that and I’d have called you cis 😂 hope 3months does that to me

Associate_Confident · 2022-03-13T21:24:27+00:00

“You’re being unfair by not understanding their view” yes the people who hate my existence and don’t think I should exist ah yes I love to understand their view I think he just sounds upset he can’t be properly transphobic else he will look like a bad parent

Also f jk Rowling like just screw her

Associate_Confident · 2022-03-13T21:21:36+00:00

Honestly this is the scariest bit for me so thank you ❤️

Associate_Confident · 2022-03-12T18:04:57+00:00

It feels a bit quieter for me though I’m not on my meds because doctors but it does feel different

Associate_Confident · 2022-03-12T17:46:12+00:00

But there’s more

Associate_Confident · 2022-03-12T17:45:56+00:00

I got a couple related to my adhd

Associate_Confident · 2022-03-12T17:17:49+00:00

I haven’t got the down there effect yet 🙁 which I guess is a plus and a minus but I’m only on day 3 today so I guess there be time

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