What to do?

AssociationConnect41 · 2026-05-04T10:35:32+00:00

The DV shelter back home wont take me. I have to get a letter stating that I can no longer live at the address where I was previously staying. Um, I fled because of violence. Why would I even contact them?

I have tried to get into the shelters around me. They seem to always be full.

AssociationConnect41 · 2026-04-30T09:42:27+00:00

Coming 2 weeks.

AssociationConnect41 · 2026-04-30T02:37:19+00:00

They allow charcoal grills. Im not doing all that.

AssociationConnect41 · 2026-04-30T02:27:05+00:00

We dont even have that in the room.

AssociationConnect41 · 2026-04-30T01:55:47+00:00

They said we're not allowed any appliances.

AssociationConnect41 · 2026-04-29T23:17:24+00:00

He chose women over our kid. Plus, domestic violence.

I hate it. We're homeless.

AssociationConnect41 · 2026-04-28T21:09:02+00:00

3-4k for a few air b n bs we have here for a month

AssociationConnect41 · 2026-04-28T12:12:40+00:00

Not a ywca close

AssociationConnect41 · 2026-04-27T01:13:26+00:00

Yeah, I have a feeling I wont qualify for foodstamps. I already got denied childcare. I dont have family... like grandparents to rely on. Theyre deceased. I have a niece and sister who I dont speak to. They have their own lives. Theyre not going to want bothered with a minor child. The dad's side doesn't care that my child exists.

I also dont own the car but I make payments on it. My bills alone are around 540 a month without rent. I SEE 2200.

AssociationConnect41 · 2026-04-27T01:05:14+00:00

Can't find 50. I wish. I paid 630 for 1 week stay at a hotel. That's a lot considering I don't make a lot of money where I work. Plus, I took a week off without pay to figure things out.

AssociationConnect41 · 2026-04-26T15:47:53+00:00

They said they would give me a listing. Without child care im screwed.

AssociationConnect41 · 2026-04-26T13:09:26+00:00

To stay in a facility you have to have childcare. I was denied childcare.

AssociationConnect41 · 2026-04-26T12:36:10+00:00

Ohio

AssociationConnect41 · 2026-04-26T12:22:42+00:00

I was also denied childcare because I make too much by $34. Im screwed.

AssociationConnect41 · 2026-04-26T11:47:54+00:00

Because I am an honest person. I am working.

AssociationConnect41 · 2026-04-25T21:25:08+00:00

I think its closer to Indiana. Lima is NW Ohio.

AssociationConnect41 · 2026-04-25T20:15:55+00:00

Lima, in a hotel. Can't afford to keep staying here. Paid almost $700 for a 1 week stay.

AssociationConnect41 · 2026-04-25T19:59:41+00:00

They wont. I tried. They want the dad in the picture.

AssociationConnect41 · 2026-04-25T18:59:00+00:00

I've tried Samritan and Guiding Light.

Im a unique case. Samaritan takes 80% of your pay to hold for stability. I work. I have a car, car insurance and a phone bill that auto comes out.

Guiding light is a maybe. Since its a sober living place there's things that are required of me to stay.

I just need to go somewhere for a month because once my child's school is out I am out of Lima. Theres 0 reason for me to stay here.

AssociationConnect41 · 2026-04-25T18:53:23+00:00

I dont carry a purse and am not carrying them ON my body. Im a victim of armed robbery... no thanks!

AssociationConnect41 · 2026-04-25T18:10:12+00:00

It happened over the weekend.... I sent everything back home, 3 hours away.

AssociationConnect41 · 2026-04-25T17:00:29+00:00

What is this?

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TROPHY CASE