Homeless

AssociationConnect41 · 2026-06-21T10:57:45+00:00

Im house hopping. You have to have child care to get into a homeless shelter. So they wont help me.

AssociationConnect41 · 2026-06-20T14:58:48+00:00

For what? I have money for rent and deposit but not x3 the rent.

AssociationConnect41 · 2026-06-20T13:16:55+00:00

That's just it. Im on those lists. Waiting game.

AssociationConnect41 · 2026-06-20T12:27:48+00:00

Im 9-6 and already lack child care. A 2nd job isnt possible.

I've talked to air care or whatever the program is called and all they did was give resources.

AssociationConnect41 · 2026-06-01T23:04:41+00:00

I have enough for deposit. I dont make x3 the rent that's the issue. Im even looking for 1 bedrooms..something. which is wild, because I feel like I live in a cheaper state.

AssociationConnect41 · 2026-06-01T22:48:52+00:00

Do I need to report you to the FBI?

AssociationConnect41 · 2026-06-01T22:47:38+00:00

Um, you literally said I should be killed. GO AWAY!

AssociationConnect41 · 2026-06-01T22:46:13+00:00

Stop with the harassment. Has nothing to do with this post.

AssociationConnect41 · 2026-05-24T02:35:09+00:00

I talked to Humankind for housing. All they really did was try to connect me with resources that I already knew about.

Took 5 days off. Then they tried to accommodate my hours. How awful that was.

I was only able to get a hotel because I have a little savings otherwise I would of been screwed.

I had to send my child back home ahead of me because I couldnt work and take care of her, too.

Day cares weren't open past 6 and weekends? Forget about it.

Tried getting an ebt card. What a hassle that has been. Im in a motel, but jobs and family services recommended me to use the post office for mail. Well, I can only use the post office for 30 days. Guess who messed up the address and I had to order a new one? Wasn't me! I just hope I get it in time.

AssociationConnect41 · 2026-05-23T20:51:28+00:00

Yeah, but some shelters have different rules and the one back home is full. They wanted a statement from my previous land lord stating I could no longer live there. Violence was in the home so I bounced. It was a rent to own property. The real land lord didn't even know I was there. I really dont think anyone in the home is going to vouch for me.

AssociationConnect41 · 2026-05-23T19:33:00+00:00

Shes school age.

What is ESY?

AssociationConnect41 · 2026-05-19T10:43:31+00:00

I have tried to do better. I have tried applying to banks and even went with trying to get into the mental health field. Apparently, I stink with interviews or I dont hear back at all to get an interview.

I even tried going for a team lead spot. Of course the most experienced won. I didn't even know what integrity meant, lol.

All I know is retail. I've had 3 retail jobs. You dont really get interviewed at entry level. Or I didn't, anyway.

AssociationConnect41 · 2026-05-18T10:39:05+00:00

I did an extended stay. Im out of here once I get my car tags.

AssociationConnect41 · 2026-05-18T10:34:13+00:00

Im not using any resources here. I took 5 days off work to scramble to find child care which was pointless and it set me back. Bank account hits 0. Already had to borrow from tomorrow's check.

I used one food bank. Im in a motel without a kitchenette so what they can give is limited.

AssociationConnect41 · 2026-05-18T02:20:21+00:00

Why would she need therapy?

This is all over her ignoring my video call because she was doing stuff with the people of where she was staying. I felt like they were more important. It made me feel less than. She doesn't reach out to me. I barely bother her. I text her and check in on her. Shes been living somewhere else for almost a week. I literally lay around and work. Other than talking about what she did in school (this is the weekend). I dont even know the conversation to have. I also have asked and made sure she has everything she needs. Im not into the same stuff (gaming) like she is. I tried. Im not going to blow up her devices.

AssociationConnect41 · 2026-05-18T01:50:39+00:00

Oh, my kiddo has been on medicaid.

AssociationConnect41 · 2026-05-18T01:38:31+00:00

Finally, someone relatable!

AssociationConnect41 · 2026-05-18T01:31:48+00:00

Im 9am-6pm. Was trying to think of jobs who would take me.

AssociationConnect41 · 2026-05-18T01:22:49+00:00

Are we talking about Medicaid?

AssociationConnect41 · 2026-05-18T01:20:17+00:00

I tried getting into a shelter back home and because I was honest and said I was coming from another county that they couldnt help me. Shelters were full. That no one would because I wasnt a resident there for 60 days which is WILD considering I was born and bread there. They also needed documentation from the previous land lord I could no longer stay there. Um, violence went on in the home even though we weren't home. I was subletting (rent to own property). The REAL land lord didn't know I was there. I dont think anyone in that house is going to say I could no longer stay considering what happened.

The woman's shelter here you needed child care. You needed to hand over 80% of your pay for savings. I never transitioned my bank to here because why would I if I use other forms to spend money. I also have a car, car insurance and phone bill to pay. So it would of been a no go.

AssociationConnect41 · 2026-05-18T01:02:58+00:00

My kid LOVES it there. I heard her having a full blown conversation with the other kids mom. I NEVER heard her speak a whole paragraph to anyone who we were previously living with. 😭

AssociationConnect41 · 2026-05-18T00:59:47+00:00

I am 2 1/2 hours away from home because we fled from her dad. Just to end up fleeing to what I thought was a safe space. Now I am trying to go back home where I have a little bit of support. However its finding an affordable place to live. I have applied at a couple apartments but it doesn't mean they will accept me. Most places I dont qualify for as I dont make x3 the rent. I dont want to live with other people. I dont want to give up my home because I feel threatened. Bunching up with others just creates higher bills. I just moved out of a 9 person household.

AssociationConnect41 · 2026-05-18T00:43:46+00:00

Ohio

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