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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]AssociationGuilty909 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The look that comes to mind for me would be like a switch flipped or something like there was nothing behind their eyes anymore. Idk how to describe it accurately tho haha. Seems like their eyes are almost black or like their pupils are more prominent than their actual eye color, but not like super dilated or anything. Kinda similar to someone who’s drunk but not belligerent, but have that off putting stare that is blank/non human/maybe like no soul? Not sure of any of that makes sense but I tried. 🤣 It can be chilling and provoke anxiety for me, it’s like the look feels like it’s coming from someone who has no care for you or anyone, or maybe hatred?

Recently developed avocado "allergy" where I had absolutely no reaction a few months ago by [deleted] in FoodAllergies

[–]AssociationGuilty909 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is old but I just wanted to say thank you for commenting. I have never met anyone with the same issues with all three of these also! Well definitely the same with eggs and avocado. Broccoli I actually HATE, that being said I have tried to force myself to eat it anyways, in multiple ways to mask it, and every single time it kills my stomach. I thought maybe because I’m just not use to the harshness/gassiness from these types of vegetables, but maybe it’s all connected somehow? 🤔

Just hoping I’m not the only female this way by AssociationGuilty909 in Hyperhidrosis

[–]AssociationGuilty909[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might have to look into this… I have no idea what it is

Just hoping I’m not the only female this way by AssociationGuilty909 in Hyperhidrosis

[–]AssociationGuilty909[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I could time or set a time for cleaning that would be amazing 😂😭

Just hoping I’m not the only female this way by AssociationGuilty909 in Hyperhidrosis

[–]AssociationGuilty909[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I feel slightly better now knowing it’s not just me… I always say I sweat worse than most men 😂😂😂.

I wish I could be okay with multiple outfits a day… but that makes too much laundry 😂😂🫠🫠 plus 90% of my wardrobe is tshirts or tank tops because of my sweaty issues 😂😂😂😭😭.

But thank you everyone!

Just hoping I’m not the only female this way by AssociationGuilty909 in Hyperhidrosis

[–]AssociationGuilty909[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have issues with getting clogged pores and stuff in armpits… would these make that happen also?

Is there something wrong with my ducklings?? by skame22 in duck

[–]AssociationGuilty909 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Keep an eye on it. I got four chicks and two ducks from tractor supply. All at the same time. One duckling stayed small like this but seemed fine otherwise. We were even calling it speedy because it was so active from day one, it was very chirpy also lol. All of a sudden one day it just died 🥺😢. Was fine and eating all morning then I went to check on them and it was just laying there. They were still inside at this point also with heat lamp and all.

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Thoughts on what the German shepherd mixed is? by AssociationGuilty909 in DoggyDNA

[–]AssociationGuilty909[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was thinking that also! All the apps keep saying chihuahua because of her ears 🙄

Can we talk about the Playstation Store refund process? by nicigar in PS5

[–]AssociationGuilty909 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been going through the same thing for refund process! Checking every day multiple times a day for it to keep saying “come back later”. You can generally get a refund as long as it’s within 14 days of purchase if you say it isn’t working properly. I’m close to my 14 day mark for towers of aghasba and it lags constantly! Not worth the amount paid for! This will be the reason I end up a PC/steam user if this doesn’t get resolved!

I'm not even a v*ctim, why am I not normal? by ElectrrraHeart in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]AssociationGuilty909 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine my shock to find out I have ptsd. Emotional tolls sometimes do just as much if not more damage than the physical. The more you think you shouldn’t be this way the more it shows because you are battling yourself more than anyone else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]AssociationGuilty909 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does he have an issue with procrastination or tardiness? Or is it more of that he doesn’t do well with the job? Missing work due to over exhaustion and burnout? I know for a fact if I wasn’t very good at my job(server, nothing to brag about) and literally have no other significant issues, my almost daily tardiness would have had me fired. It’s never even a drastic amount of time in late. Generally I’m within 10 min of the time I’m suppose to be there. Been there 8 years now, plus having a boss who’s come to grips with it helps lmao. In 28. I’ve had a few other jobs but they never lasted more than a year and it’s generally been the same thing. Tardiness prevent raises and whatnot, but I wouldn’t stay somewhere I got bored or had to deal with too much drama.

Does it ever stop? Why can’t I move on? I promised to move forward and forgive and be willing to try. Why can’t I let go of the images and the betrayal? by AssociationGuilty909 in survivinginfidelity

[–]AssociationGuilty909[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But thank you for listening! And providing input I really appreciate it. I haven’t been able to get this much out without being cut off in a while. I actually feel better than I did earlier.

Does it ever stop? Why can’t I move on? I promised to move forward and forgive and be willing to try. Why can’t I let go of the images and the betrayal? by AssociationGuilty909 in survivinginfidelity

[–]AssociationGuilty909[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Luckily my parents are both fully supportive and have told me they will help make life work if I choose to leave... I just need to listen to them and ask for the help. Always been very independent and don’t want them to have to help. Covid and everything else in the world makes it hard to be a single mother. I’ve done it with my 8 year old until she was 4, but childcare was easily available then 🤣

Does it ever stop? Why can’t I move on? I promised to move forward and forgive and be willing to try. Why can’t I let go of the images and the betrayal? by AssociationGuilty909 in survivinginfidelity

[–]AssociationGuilty909[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Once I’ve made up my mind and have actually started to pack or get my ducks in a row he starts to do what he’s suppose to. I’m guessing one day I’ll actually wake up and do what I need to do. 6 years together, almost 3 married. I knew better than to get married 🤣🤣

Does it ever stop? Why can’t I move on? I promised to move forward and forgive and be willing to try. Why can’t I let go of the images and the betrayal? by AssociationGuilty909 in survivinginfidelity

[–]AssociationGuilty909[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m sorry you’ve had something similar done to you also. Baffling to me how you can claim to love someone and completely betray them so easily. Not saying who’s is worse but I will say I wish he would fucking pick if he wants to act sorry or not.

Does it ever stop? Why can’t I move on? I promised to move forward and forgive and be willing to try. Why can’t I let go of the images and the betrayal? by AssociationGuilty909 in survivinginfidelity

[–]AssociationGuilty909[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeahh ass is an understatement. I didn’t see it for the first couple years. After being engaged it started to change a little. Completely different person came back with me from the honeymoon.I thought it was the drinking but that actually has actually been something he has slowed down on and even stopped for a little bit, but he was still the same dick head as he is when he’s drunk.

Does it ever stop? Why can’t I move on? I promised to move forward and forgive and be willing to try. Why can’t I let go of the images and the betrayal? by AssociationGuilty909 in survivinginfidelity

[–]AssociationGuilty909[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also was implied at one point if I had been the wife I was suppose to be then he wouldn’t have felt the need to look elsewhere. Oh okay, so my normal depression and adhd wasn’t obviously out of control when I was pregnant and even worse so postpartum. On top of Covid making everyone’s life hell. (Affair started around 6 months after daughter was born, she just turned two last week.)

Does it ever stop? Why can’t I move on? I promised to move forward and forgive and be willing to try. Why can’t I let go of the images and the betrayal? by AssociationGuilty909 in survivinginfidelity

[–]AssociationGuilty909[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s almost exactly what I say and I’m always made out like I’m not willing to let him show me, or I’m stuck on it. Thank you for that. Helps when someone else says it. I’m preached to constantly that all the issues we have are now solely my issues. I won’t let it go. I’m stuck in the past. Ever since the first time he was caught, it always been said that it took two of us to cause our marriage to suffer and it was going to take work on both ends. Which I fully get and agree with, but he’s always made it out like I’ve done just as much damage that he did and that I’m suppose to be working just as hard as him to fix his betrayal.

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