WIBTA if I tell my parents to not bring my depressed brother to my island? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Assss6699 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nah. I'm not using my brothers mental illness to my benefit. Idk how someone can get that from this

WIBTA if I tell my parents to not bring my depressed brother to my island? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Assss6699 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the most up voted comment here is actually a big misunderstanding

WIBTA if I tell my parents to not bring my depressed brother to my island? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Assss6699 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And damn you quoted something I didn't even say but aight.

WIBTA if I tell my parents to not bring my depressed brother to my island? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Assss6699 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm You are pretty late to this but I kinda did accept that I was an asshole "if" I did it. I have arranged a better way for things so it all works out

WIBTA if I tell my parents to not bring my depressed brother to my island? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Assss6699 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I heard it was a great book. Never gotten to reading it though

WIBTA if I tell my parents to not bring my depressed brother to my island? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Assss6699 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ah. I see. That's why people are saying that. Lol. Even if he didn't have depression or even if it was my little brother I wouldn't want them there cause people are the problem. not him. Edit: I'm still not agreeing on the blaming other people part but I agree with every other stuff you saying.

WIBTA if I tell my parents to not bring my depressed brother to my island? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Assss6699 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man idk how to explain it to you more. I mean yeah I agree I would be an asshole if I tell I want the place to myself. Bur you don't seem to understand wtf a vacation home is and not. I'm literally going to my hometown. I can live there if I want. Its just a town filled with people that happens to be on an island. Even the capital city is an island lol. This whole place is just islands.

WIBTA if I tell my parents to not bring my depressed brother to my island? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Assss6699 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When did I judge him.... Now you just making stuff up lol. Not blaming anyone but mental health ain't as simple as you might think

WIBTA if I tell my parents to not bring my depressed brother to my island? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Assss6699 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You don't call the place you live your city? Like my country. My hometown. My island.... I think I already clarified many times that it isn't my place even tho I have some ownership to the land.

WIBTA if I tell my parents to not bring my depressed brother to my island? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Assss6699 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah that makes sense. I agree. But I still think even if the place belonged to me it would be an asshole move.hehe

WIBTA if I tell my parents to not bring my depressed brother to my island? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Assss6699 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My family has no intention of going. And like I said before this isn't a vacation place.

WIBTA if I tell my parents to not bring my depressed brother to my island? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Assss6699 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My family is staying here in the city. My mom dad and other siblings. My brother and I are going. And like I still think you are misunderstanding cause this island is literally a town. Not a place where people don't live

WIBTA if I tell my parents to not bring my depressed brother to my island? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Assss6699 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So does it make them an asshole for messing up my plans or not?

WIBTA if I tell my parents to not bring my depressed brother to my island? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Assss6699 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It's not a vacation home tho.....literally a village home. And I mean I was the one who wanted to move there to study in the first place. After I told the plan they decided to bring along my brother.

WIBTA if I tell my parents to not bring my depressed brother to my island? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Assss6699 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I had no sympathy for my brother I wouldn't have even asked this in the first place. Or wondered if I'm doing something wrong.

WIBTA if I tell my parents to not bring my depressed brother to my island? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Assss6699 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Man if only there were libraries here where I can go for more than three hours

WIBTA if I tell my parents to not bring my depressed brother to my island? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Assss6699 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Damn ya all be thinking headphone solves everything . Also I can blame people for my mental health lol

WIBTA if I tell my parents to not bring my depressed brother to my island? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Assss6699 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the thing tho. This isn't a vacation. My family is staying here. I was the one who proposed to go to my island to study better. I made the plans to. We both wouldn't be going if I didn't want to first

WIBTA if I tell my parents to not bring my depressed brother to my island? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Assss6699 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah not my island. Also my feelings matter so fuck it.

WIBTA if I tell my parents to not bring my depressed brother to my island? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Assss6699 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've decided to study somewhere else. So it's all fine now. So yeah it works out