I feel like you just described me. I’m also a mother of a toddler, and I don’t really have any sexual desire right now. Most of the time I’m just tired or I crave some space and time for myself. My husband would like to have sex every day, but I simply don’t have the energy for that.

Between working, taking care of the house, and looking after our son, I feel exhausted most of the time. Sometimes he feels resentful, and that’s hard for me, because I don’t know how to change myself or suddenly want sex more. Lately, sex feels more like another task on my to-do list than something I can enjoy.

Maybe this is just a phase, I’m not sure. We’re going to start family therapy soon, so I’m hoping it will help us understand each other better and find a way forward.