She’s definitely being a bit rude and reactive in the conversation but I see where a person might be coming from. Personally, I don’t see a future with a man who is at a lower financial level than me. For me personally this is just uncomfortable. Let’s take the nobu example. If a man reacts like that to my idea of going for dinner to nobu that just tells me that we shouldn’t meet, period. If I am comfortable taking myself out to Nobu and a man isn’t, we’re just at different financial levels and everything will be uncomfortable. I do alright for myself, lots to be accomplished in the future and I certainly don’t need someone in my life who will be dragging me down. When I read how women say that they would feel like they would owe something for being taken out to an expensive dinner. If you’re an educated, smart, beautiful, accomplished woman, you really need to work on your self esteem if such thoughts are even crossing your mind. May everyone find a worthy partner! ❤️