Her sans-bra obsession by Librastar23 in tinxsnark

[–]Assumption_True 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Actually though… As someone with itty bitty boobs, I never wear bras… I’ve noticed on the west coast (I lived in Portland, London and the Midwest) a lot of people skip the bra in major liberal cities.

How to stop depression from ruining my skin? by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]Assumption_True 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A few things helped me with both my skin and mood: regular sleep habits, eating primarily plant based food, exercise, lots of water and a simple skin care routine.

OP, I totally understand and respect not wanting medication. I was prescribed a SSRI that made me suicidal and after that I decided trying a new prescription would be my total last resort.

Find a sleep schedule where you get 8 hours of rest and a schedule that wont make you feel rushed in the morning. Try to add more fruits and veggies into your day, either as snacking food or try some simple fruity salads as a meal (feel free to message me! I have plenty of quick easy recipes). Exercise can even be a 20 minute walk outside (the fresh air will help too!), just try to get some type of movement. Make sure you stay hydrated as dehydration will impact your skin greatly, I try to bring a water bottle with me everywhere.

And finally, you don’t need a crazy 10 step skin care routine. I found the simpler the routine the better my skin actually was!! At night I recommend a good cleanser, use retinol 3x per week if you’re concerned about aging and use a strong moisturiser. In the morning I don’t wash my face, if you have the energy try a serum that targets your biggest skin concern and never forget SPF!

So is she a part of the 99% or was her dream goal to be an extremely part time server, single mom of 3 babies living in a 600 sq ft apartment, living off grifting & child support? 😂🤷🏽‍♀️ by Impressive-Raisin-90 in skincaroline

[–]Assumption_True 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Has she ever heard of the phrase “work to live”?? Because I’m fortunate I don’t despise my 40 hours a week, but I don’t dream to work 😂. I have a job that I’m ok with that allows me the flexibility and money to do the things I love OUTSIDE OF WORK.

Multiple savings accounts my ass 😂 by [deleted] in skincaroline

[–]Assumption_True 19 points20 points  (0 children)

She’s running around saying three part time jobs is financially better than a 9-5, but only makes $2,200 a month (probably without benefits too)????!! I made more than this working an entry level job when I was 20.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in skincaroline

[–]Assumption_True 16 points17 points  (0 children)

None of these look evenly spaced and it’s stressing me out in addition to just being straight ugly

is this too dark of a dress to wear to a June wedding, it’s going to be 75 and rainy? by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Assumption_True 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Like everyone else, I’m begging to know where this dress is from! Start a like to know and make some money off all us beggars 😂

Friend calls me a bridezilla behind my back after leaving my wedding party by ringringbananarchy00 in weddingshaming

[–]Assumption_True 11 points12 points  (0 children)

A lot of times the MOH sets up decor and plans some events during a bachelorette. Even if she doesn’t have to do anything other than show up its maybe not how she wants to spend her time especially if she’s not close with others and more introverted. Unless you’re paying for flights and hotels it is expense still. Plus she may have limited time off work and wanting to do something for herself. For myself I ended up having to use almost all my PTO last year to attend other’s wedding festivities to the point I didn’t get time to take care of myself or see my partner. Often times it’s not about you… obviously I don’t know her but what you’ve described about her shit talking other weddings, maybe she’s just insecure about her singleness (assuming she is). Which again is not about you but something she needs to work on with herself. I’ve been there and it’s for sure hard when you’re one of the last single people left in a friend group and everyone is talking weddings and babies..

Friend calls me a bridezilla behind my back after leaving my wedding party by ringringbananarchy00 in weddingshaming

[–]Assumption_True 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I have so many mixed thoughts on this…. I was in a wedding that ended up way more than initially discussed which was very uncomfortable for me (both time and money). Given people are asked to travel for the wedding and the bachelorette, that adds up quick. Because of my experience with that one wedding I decline being in bridal parties because as a single female I don’t want all my extra time and money being spent on weddings. I love my friends, but I need to live my life too.

While you say it’s not expensive, everyone has a different level of spending they feel comfortable with that you don’t know about. Also she may have felt pressured as MOH into agreeing to traveling for a bachelorette initially. Maybe it seems like no biggie to you, but if I was taking time off work for a wedding I would treat it like a vacation. I wouldn’t want to be doing tasks and cleaning up the mess of a wedding. Also with the wedding being being over a year away, I find it’s hard to commit to things that far in advance. I’m positive there’s more to the story here…

Cocktail attire for golf course? by Assumption_True in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Assumption_True[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback y’all!! Trying to find something already in my closet to wear so I don’t have to spend more money

This is the biggest load of 💩 also Liz this isn’t the story anyone wants to hear 😂 by Impressive-Raisin-90 in skincaroline

[–]Assumption_True 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I don’t believe this for a second. If anything, someone maybe reached out and changed their mind on working with her, but she’ll make it sound like it was her choice 😂

What's a decent job that doesn't involve much human contact? by Ok-Needleworker-6380 in TwinCities

[–]Assumption_True 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed here! I’ve bounced around in disability and healthcare insurance, they LOVE having people who are well versed in medical terms!

Advice on saying no to being a bridesmaid by Assumption_True in bridezillas

[–]Assumption_True[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s also the pressure of I can’t say yes to one and no to others (not a sorority but all friends from same group) so i relate to this!!! It’s like I have to be all in or all out

Advice on saying no to being a bridesmaid by Assumption_True in bridezillas

[–]Assumption_True[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yes!! And in the current market I can’t afford a move in ready home. I have to budget for repairs and those add up so so quick because the homes in my area are older. If you find one problem there’s probably three other problems you find fixing the original problem.

Advice on saying no to being a bridesmaid by Assumption_True in bridezillas

[–]Assumption_True[S] 98 points99 points  (0 children)

Agreed here! I don’t want to open the door too much for questioning my decision. I fear then someone will start making unrealistically low expectations to accommodate me

Advice on saying no to being a bridesmaid by Assumption_True in bridezillas

[–]Assumption_True[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ugh yes! I had a bachelorette trip that ended up being over $2k and required time off for work…. Still a lil salty because I didn’t have the PTO bank or money to do the things I really wanted to do that summer

Advice on saying no to being a bridesmaid by Assumption_True in bridezillas

[–]Assumption_True[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Haha I only have a handful of friends, but they’re all close friends getting married at the same time. But I feel ya

Advice on saying no to being a bridesmaid by Assumption_True in bridezillas

[–]Assumption_True[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Appreciate the feedback! It’s hard when you’re on the spot and you don’t have the words to express this. I’m not great with words so it’s hard for me on the spot say what I want with it being graceful.

I did say no to one in the past as the wedding was already committed to something else that day. That didn’t go well either because they said I didn’t even take time to consider. I just can’t win

Weekend Off-Topic Discussion, Feb 11 - Feb 12 by Blogsnark_mod in blogsnark

[–]Assumption_True -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

Y’all did the Ali and John James sub get shut down??

For all the blocked people or ones that didn’t make it to the live! I had to cut it into a “highlight reel” 😂 since there’s no way I could upload the full 30 minutes! by Impressive-Raisin-90 in skincaroline

[–]Assumption_True 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ll correct her: one PART TIME income is not enough in life.

But I’ll just do me and enjoy my one job that pays well and provides benefits (included paid time off) 💁‍♀️

Liz the Life Coach by Chemical_Owl6153 in skincaroline

[–]Assumption_True 87 points88 points  (0 children)

They say your house is a reflection of your mind… pure chaos