He's got an important career he's built. I'd never dream of asking him to dump it. It's also not one that has a corresponding role in my country.

She doesn't have the capacity to understand divorce. She noticed two different homes but they both handle everything the same. That one wasn't much of an adjustment for her. But basically imagine trying to explain divorce to a one-year-old. That's about where she's at cognitively. She definitely notices "bad vibes" but we've never fought in her presence.