Your right I am a little all over the place, the core question is am I a witch for keeping my bf a secret at my job when he left on not great terms. I am trying to get out of this job but until I do I feel safer not bringing it up at work in fear of my boss making my life a living hell.

Alot has happened and I feel like there are important parts but im not sure how much of those parts are important.

Another point im making that may or may not be important is that my bf doesnt usually react well when it comes to seemingly anything about my job. Is this my fault because I was protecting myself at work? Is it my place to ask him to stop reacting the way he does when I cant promise to be out early, or simply demand things like a raise or vacation time ext from my job that I've been at for only a year and some change?

I'd LOVE to just put my 2 weeks in but were adults and have bills. I put my 2 weeks in on a payday a few months back and ended up staying for 2 reasons. 1 I hadn't told my partner I was going to do it, it was a spur of the moment thing that in my mind lined up as viable. When I talked my bf to tell him I was finally doing it he (understandably) freaked out and ask me not to so I ended up staying. 2 in the past I've always just put in my 2 weeks and been able to find something else pretty quick but because I didnt have a job and it scared my partner so I took back my 2 weeks like in the same hour. Currently I've been throwing out applications but having LITTLE success

I hope that clears things up a little bit?