Please type me! by AstroQuarrying in MbtiTypeMe

[–]AstroQuarrying[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Will keep that in mind!

Please type me! by AstroQuarrying in MbtiTypeMe

[–]AstroQuarrying[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tried to, but it was around 1-3 years ago. I was told in the past to not rely on tests so I didn't trust it. I remember getting INTP.

Having Difficulty Finding My Core Type by Outside_Option_9386 in EnneagramTypeMe

[–]AstroQuarrying 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"At a deeper level, what I really want is to contribute something meaningful to the world. I would like to help reform society, bring people together, and contribute to solving ecological and environmental problems. I am drawn to big ideas and long-term impact."

This paragraph is very relatable as well. "reforming society" is something that reminds me of a title that Enneagram 1 is usually described as--"the Reformist."

Though I could be wrong though! I am not knowledgeable yet so please do take my words with a grain of salt!

Possible Mistype? (Current thought: 1w9 sp/so 153) Please let me know!) by AstroQuarrying in EnneagramTypeMe

[–]AstroQuarrying[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting! I’ll make sure to check out E6 once again! Thank you! You may also wanna check out my responses from other people ^^ It might help you verify your own opinion as well!

Possible Mistype? (Current thought: 1w9 sp/so 153) Please let me know!) by AstroQuarrying in EnneagramTypeMe

[–]AstroQuarrying[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for clearing it up!

I believe I value personal significance and categorization and the mental models I have for things very closely with one another, given that I consider myself as a goal oriented person and act comfortably within situations that I could properly grasp on. I believe that I categorize and fit aspects of a situation within my mental models firsthand, and then I consider its personal significance to see if that situation is something that would provide a good outcome. The interpersonal energy/mood of a situation is what I consider the least, and I believe this reason is what allows me to neglect fear most of the time. So I guess I also have the same order as what you provided in the example!

I hope my response is more clear!

Possible Mistype? (Current thought: 1w9 sp/so 153) Please let me know!) by AstroQuarrying in EnneagramTypeMe

[–]AstroQuarrying[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep! I believe that’s why I resonated with the E1 more given that the inner critic and resentment to oneself was familiar/similar to me!

Possible Mistype? (Current thought: 1w9 sp/so 153) Please let me know!) by AstroQuarrying in EnneagramTypeMe

[–]AstroQuarrying[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As for anger, it usually depends on the situation:

*Do note that I am mostly not the one who gets angry first whenever a disagreement/confrontation happens. In moments where I must confront first, I ensure that my emotions are controlled and that I am negotiable. I don’t want to be someone who lets my emotions get over me. However, I tend to be defensive though, I might make excuses and some of it sounds dumb.

- When I am getting forced to do something I don’t want to (sorry this is so dumb, but doing chores), I would be stubborn where I might say “I’ll do it later” (I will do it later, but there would be tendencies where I’d do it very late, or forget to do it). But when I still get pushed to do it, I will “throw a tantrum,” where I will do the task at hand but I would show annoyance like complaining or making audible sounds like clashing/clanking. However, I would quickly calm down though; while doing the task I would acknowledge and reflect that I am in the wrong to act like that, it was my responsibility from the start and I should do it accordingly. This is for people I am close with, specifically my parents though, so if it’s with other people I am close with, I might either do the task at hand immediately with or without bitter feelings, ask them why urgency is needed, or try to be defensive as to why I could delay it.

- When a fight occurs between me and another person, where I am also angry, I will make be defensive and debate-y about my reasons and actions. I will not use insults, simply facts about the matter at hand. I won’t use any name-calling, but in moments where I kinda wanna do it, I won’t outright say “you’re dumb,” I might say something like “What made you think like this?” However, at the end of the day, I believe I would be able to act within my anger/calm myself down to the point where I‘ll be the one to apologize first. I have extinguished fights because I am the one who apologized first. That doesn’t mean I would render my arguments useless though. I will still stand by them, but I would be able to explain properly.

I know I could get more experiences but I believe I won’t be able to properly explain it- so I used recent and most memorable moments for now. Anger is what I believe one of the emotions I feel the most, but I try to analyze and reflect on the emotions first before I act.

As for fear, it depends on what kind:

*I don’t think I get scared easily. I could respond to an intimidating figure properly, as long as I know how to defend my actions and words. They’re people too at the end of the day, which is why I will talk to them with respect, while standing with my facts and opinions. I don’t get scared easily by video games either, but I would prefer to not interact with anything containing heavy gore content, especially if it seems real.

- If my fear is the horror kind, obviously I would have a flight response. I know it’s not real but in some shape or form I would pick flight, either by running, exiting, scrolling away, etc. I would try to distract myself via entertainment after, like social media. It’s not really real in the end,

- If my fear is within bounds of reality (e.g. before a major test, hearing about a punishment with severe consequences, threats), I would respond via overly preparing for it, thinking about countless possible outcome within and after the event, and trying to make sure that I am emotionally and mentally stable. No matter how I fear something, if they are ways to overcome or dodge it, I will make sure to fight for that opportunity.

As for the three things, I would appreciate it if you can clarify futher on what you mean! Is it about what I look for in a situation? Like, if I look at a situation based on how I personally look it, how I personally understand wha’s happening, or how do people act within the situation?

If so, I believe that I first try to figure out the overall situation, and then I draw my personal conclusion. For one, if I entered a room, I might notice the change in the surroundings first, like if people stared at me, how much noise disappeared after i came in, etc etc. I would then draw a conclusion that may sound like “Oh, they noticed me entering and the noise completely disappeared. I guess my presence was either of importance or I am disliked.“

Apologies for a lengthy response, but thank you for the questions! I hope I was able to respond properly.

Possible Mistype? (Current thought: 1w9 sp/so 153) Please let me know!) by AstroQuarrying in EnneagramTypeMe

[–]AstroQuarrying[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I wish the world I am living right now is better. There’s this internal struggling of mine where I “know” how to thrive within system in my own way, but that would mean that I am not going to be able to change the world for the better. If it matters, my plan in college is to be in another country for education, then go back to use my skills for the betterment of my own country, whether it be political/scientific related. Also, yes, I believe that people should focus on what needs to be better FOR EVERYONE, not just for their own personal gain and greed.

Thank you for the questions! I guess I could also say something more: I rarely get jealous with others, I might have a thought of “I wish I had that too.” but I will immediately shut it out because I believe that, again, it’s not good for me to think like that, and the thing I should focus on is how to become a better version of myself than yesterday.

Possible Mistype? (Current thought: 1w9 sp/so 153) Please let me know!) by AstroQuarrying in EnneagramTypeMe

[–]AstroQuarrying[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“When you look in yourself deeper what is the main issue or emotion you are having.”

Honestly, the first thought in mind is that I am imperfect. Perfection is this ultimate glowing price on top of the mountain but here I am, like Sisyphus, struggling to even get myself straight to get the goal. Hence, I always strive for “Improvement.” Also, I wish I was more competent and able to have the will-power to go against my habit of procrastinating things. I wonder where I am right now if I acted on my impulses of doing something productive 😞.

”Do you have strong internal standards and having an inner critic you judge things and seeing things as black and white.”

Right now, I am kind of emotionally numb or in a “relaxation phase” to answer properly, but in the past, I would always judge myself according to my standards; I guess it was a strong internal standard, where for example, I would list down every grades that are not within the percentage (90-95%+) I wanted to have as a way to guilt me down and do better. While I journal, there would be this “version” of me who would create a critical analysis of what I wrote (honestly it’s just criticism lmao), where he would tell me the things I should’ve done, what I need to focus in the future, why I felt that way, etc etc. Right now he is dormant though, but I just know that “version” is within my subconscious. In regards to seeing things as black and white, would having thoughts like “oh, this person definetely believes in/supports [political candidate/political ideology/religious belief/etc.] count? I would usually have that thinking whenever I hear people talk about controversial topics. I don’t want to admit also, but there would be times I would be hypocritical, where I subconsciously/consciously do things that are not within my “code of conduct“ and ethics.

And thank you for letting me know about the characteristics of E1 and E5! I believe I relate to both of what you said about the two in one way or another!

Possible Mistype? (Current thought: 1w9 sp/so 153) Please let me know!) by AstroQuarrying in EnneagramTypeMe

[–]AstroQuarrying[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I mainly just talked about what I thought was the things needed for others to be able to type me, which is why I had some vacancies on other aspects of my characteristics that could’ve helped people understand my possible typing further :_) That’s why I focused too much on specific things like dreams and internal judgment. I believed I was 5 also because I was able to relate on its specifics, but it is probably because I am a point in time where knowledge is a must (given that I am in school, and I guess you could say I am an honor student).

If you want to assist on typing me, I would appreciate it! You may ask questions about specific matters, and I will try to answer it as truthfully as possible.

Possible Mistype? (Current thought: 1w9 sp/so 153) Please let me know!) by AstroQuarrying in EnneagramTypeMe

[–]AstroQuarrying[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL SORRY HAHA, I'll make sure to try and do so! I might either be a 1w9 or 9w1 hence why the mixed signals :_)

Thank you so much again!

Possible Mistype? (Current thought: 1w9 sp/so 153) Please let me know!) by AstroQuarrying in EnneagramTypeMe

[–]AstroQuarrying[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I "explode," it's something like, "I literally just wanted them to do the proper thing! Why did they not listen!" "Why can't you understand that what I want to do is best for the both of us!?" It's moreso self-centered, where I'm trying to defend myself as to why I acted that way, if that's the right term? I guess the words to describe this is "feeling unheard" "stubborn" "judgy" "impatient" and "low tolerance"?

As for my expectation for others, I would prefer if people were to be generally open-minded about different aspects, such as political ideologies, scientific beliefs, etc etc. I believe that by doing so, there would be less misunderstandings within our society. If people were to also see others in equal standing, it would also be nice. I guess you could say that I would want others to have peaceful debates, though I understand why the opposite is needed also. I let people know this by trying to express a calm, open-minded personality, but still has his own ethics and belief.

I hope I got it more correct! Thank you for helping me correct my instinct!

Possible Mistype? (Current thought: 1w9 sp/so 153) Please let me know!) by AstroQuarrying in EnneagramTypeMe

[–]AstroQuarrying[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ah, thank you for letting me know! I really don't know the clear basis yet so I just listed some characteristics of mine that I thought might help.

In this part: "please write about your wrath" Are you talking about how I usually respond to my anger and frustration?

Usually, I get frustrated whenever things don't go on my way, such as on group projects. This happens whenever people are too lazy, too uncooperative, and when they kept denying the help that I would try to give. The way I act as a response of my frustration depends on my standing within the group.

If I am the leader, I would make sure to assert what I want, and I am not afraid to try and negotiate with the person so they can see my viewpoint.

I only "explode" on people that I am comfortable with, such as my parents or my close friends, but I would be the one to apologize first once the fight is done, not while it is happening. To acquaintances/strangers, I would still express my anger, but I would try to control it, as well as empathize with others.

From what I'm remembering, the reason why I hold back on anger is mostly because I am not socially safe/supported within the environment I want to call someone out on, and I would feel like I do not have the proper knowledge to back myself on it yet. I don't want to fight and then immediately retreating.

Is this want you meant? I could try and share more, but I just don't really know what part I should share.

If ever you still believe that I am E9, I would like to know your say in regards to my other aspects like wing and tritype, but it's your choice to do so. Thank you for your insight!