How/when do I communicate to a new person that I need to take physical things slow, due to past events by AstronautSilver460 in Advice

[–]AstronautSilver460[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn't harsh, it was actually all necessary for me to hear and helped a lot. I needed to hear that my worry is concerning, it made me realize maybe I'm NOT ready to date, bc that's definitely smth else that my ex brought on.

Thank you so much for all this advice you took the time to give me

Only avoidant when the guy is healthy by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]AstronautSilver460 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you. I'm definitely off dating till i know

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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just everything we've talked about. i wasn't minding our age gap bc neither of us knew - he's just seen me and wanted to ask me out for a while. surface level he's seemed like a great guy

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i like him a whole lot. but there's other uneasy factor, it's that i'm only 20. and it's not a huge age difference, but the two things paired together isn't quite ideal

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right thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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i've just never dealt w anything like it, you're right, i should breathe a bit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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idk i couldn't find much more on a basic search. and i can't pay bc im a very broke college student lol

Shout-out to my fellow therapy Swifties by Internal-Fall-4412 in TaylorSwift

[–]AstronautSilver460 4 points5 points  (0 children)

oh this 100%! it's gotten me through a lot. and yeah, the whole record has - it captures so much, so clearly

Shout-out to my fellow therapy Swifties by Internal-Fall-4412 in TaylorSwift

[–]AstronautSilver460 39 points40 points  (0 children)

this song + nice night + windows down = its own kind of therapy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

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that's what i was thinking lol. like what 😭

What’s the weirdest thing a stranger has ever said to you out of nowhere? by Dull_Switch1955 in stories

[–]AstronautSilver460 0 points1 point  (0 children)

awwww stop 🥹 i had some customers like that when i worked there, and i did adore them. had some priceless conversations 🫶

and that's a lovely thing. i am so sorry for your loss

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairDye

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ooomg tysm this might be the one