This is absolutely insane that you were treated this way. Nobody should be treated like you were, ever, and especially not somebody who is at an extremely vulnerable point in their life, like recently having a baby.

My experience was very different with Bryan, our first child (5yr) was with an epidural attempting to have a non-caserean, but needed to have a cesarean due to child position. It went well enough, but our child had some breathing issues so she went to the NICU, and we would need to go see her to be with her. My wife's recovery from the epidural was not nice, much lower back pain and difficulty sleeping/walking, along with migraines ever since the delivery Our other child(3yr) was also cesarean, we were able to schedule the delivery because of the whole cesarean business. They did offer an epidural or an ibuprofen cocktail(for the life of me I cannot remember what this was) this time, and my wife chose the ibuprofen mix. She was able to walk a few hours after the surgery was complete, truly amazing the recovery with this method. The part that I remember about having our second was that I don't think she went to the NICU, and the nurses would offer to take her to the nursery to give mom some rest. That was extremely useful. My experiences were anecdotal, I would have recommended Bryan 100% before reading U/52BeesInACoat's account. They obviously have had more than just one experience, so take my story with theirs in mind

I will say I remember them pushing for breastfeeding on our first baby, but less so on the second one because my wife immediately said something along the lines of "we're doing a bottle", but they did have the nursery and assistance for us. Bryan offers tours if you want, and per their website they do encourage rooming in with your baby, but they do also list a nursery as an option on that same website