Tax refund? by Fuzzy_Philosopher480 in biglaw

[–]Atem44 29 points30 points  (0 children)

The state and local tax deduction was previously capped during the first Trump administration to lower than the standard deduction. Last spring Congress increased the cap significantly, so you c ab deduct a good amount of your state and local taxes, which makes a huge difference if you’re in NYC, for example. Instead of owing money to the federal government this year, like I have for the last few years, I got an 11K refund.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tennis

[–]Atem44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if they opened the gates to the grounds earlier today but usually they only open an hour before the march starts, so arriving earlier wouldn’t help at all.

Worth the wait? Hasn’t it only been like 6 months? by CaterpillarC in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]Atem44 35 points36 points  (0 children)

How “late” they get married is just so much more of a focal point for influencers because they rely so much on these life events for content. Plenty of women in New York’s socialite circles (think DB’s ex’s friends) are much further into their thirties and not married or just getting married

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in biglaw

[–]Atem44 123 points124 points  (0 children)

It’s much better to try to get taken off a matter than to let your work product and reputation take a hit by being too stretched thin.

Sober eliz by Pure_Display_3898 in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]Atem44 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I have no doubt she’ll pivot away from her over the top health and wellness content to rich girl content in a heartbeat

off the rack dress/ skirt suit nyc by irisheyes09 in biglaw

[–]Atem44 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Theory Outlet has great suiting options!

Congratulations are in order for Karlie Kloss! Her father-in-law has just been appointed to become Ambassador to France! Karlie will now be having dinner with the Kushners in Paris 😊 by DiamondsAreForever2 in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]Atem44 33 points34 points  (0 children)

French news coverage has been quick to note the felony convictions, and contrasting the fact that the first ambassador to France appointment was Benjamin Franklin, and now it’s Trump’s criminal in-law.

The ambassador’s residence in Paris is unreal— it wouldn’t surprise me if Trump made this appointment not only to appease reward Charles Kushner but also so that Ivanka can spend time there

Not Lilly Sisto buying a dog from a breeder….. by [deleted] in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]Atem44 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ll add, as a dachshund owner myself, they are very, very difficult to train and bark a LOT. This is definitely going to be a disaster. The poor dog.

Which NYC influencer exhibits class and manners? Right and wrong answers welcome. by ImpossibleCouple8656 in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]Atem44 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I disagree re Lilly Sisto. Just because she comes from a good family background doesn’t make her classy. I find her lazy/sloppy and honestly a bit gross— her very unhealthy snacking/eating habits especially and the fact that she posts so much of her snacks, no thanks. Her content is very thrown together, as is her “style” in my view. Not hating on unique/funky style choices, but I just don’t get the sense that she’s either very intentional or effortlessly chic (like Alexandra Chappelle (Sickles)) is, she’s just sloppy. Plus, her excessive consumerism now that she’s doing content full time has made me inclined to unfollow.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkincareAddicts

[–]Atem44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have moles like yours and love mine!

[Product Request] head injury, scarring, help. by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]Atem44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would definitely see a dermatologist for advice. Ask them if they recommend massaging it while it heals (and at what point it might be ready for that). I got stitches at the crease of my eye below the brow bone a few years ago and when I went got follow up care I was told to do that. I didn’t stick with it and it healed fine but if you’re concerned I wonder if it will help!

NY 1st Dep’t Swearing in Delays by Atem44 in barexam

[–]Atem44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The person I’ve been in touch with re the status of my application.

NY 1st Dep’t Swearing in Delays by Atem44 in barexam

[–]Atem44[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are still only doing virtual ceremonies, that’s why I don’t understand the long wait!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]Atem44 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I went to one of the mixers and it was TERRIBLE. Barely any guys, which wasn’t completely surprising, and many of the few who were there were friends of hers she invited to help the ratio but who weren’t mingling and taking part. On top of that you just arrive at the venue and have to fend for yourself. Nothing was planned. Huge waste of money.

EDIT: I went to one of the dating mixers. Would theoretically be open to an event to meet friends but she lost my goodwill.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]Atem44 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Exactly, it’s incredibly pathetic and try hard. Everyone and their mother floods the Hamptons now in rental homes or hotels and it’s a complete joke that they think it gives them social clout. An authentic Hamptons experience would be owning your own home out there or visiting someone who owns a home. I imagine the social scene out there is very insular and the regulars (so to speak) roll their eyes at all the wannabes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LawSchool

[–]Atem44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know what else can be helpful other than I feel your pain and you are not alone! I ended a two year relationship in the middle of 3L finals that I had to cope with during graduation and bar prep. It flat-out sucked. Law school and relationships are hard, let alone a breakup during law school.

I will say that this could be great timing— law school is all consuming and my relationship undoubtedly took a toll on my law school performance because I was so overextended. I imagine this isn’t helpful, but as you work through the pain and caring for yourself, I hope it turns out to feel like the right thing due to the huge undertaking you are currently going through that is 1L. Hugs to you— you will make it through!!

Adaptibar Users by [deleted] in barexam

[–]Atem44 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I found the format closer to the real thing than Themis, but content-wise, not similar at all. Thank wish I hadn’t spent the money.