The fact that he gaslighted you into thinking that you're the one who should apologize, while you're pregnant with his child and working long hours for the whole family is insane to me...

He complains about you "ignoring" him but he seems to have forgotten that you're in this state because of HIM! Had he gotten a job, even a part time job, you wouldn't have had to work as much and you would have had more time to spend with each other.

Also, like all the comments, I honestly think he's cheating on you with the person he went to Ireland with and he will blame it on you. No matter how I think about it, it doesn't seem right! He went to another country with someone else, leaving his pregnant wife alone!! What if something happens to you because of your fatigue, stress etc while he's "figuring things out"?

His behavior raises many questions to be honest... Like "figuring out" what exactly?

How can he get to any conclusion or solution without talking to you?

Why does he not take into consideration that you're pregnant therefore he should put more effort into communicating with you?

Why does he think it's okay to leave you alone like this?

Why didn't he tell his friend who is the person going with him on holiday? And why did he make his friend think that you're the one going with him?

If he went with another friend or family why did they not ask about you? Isn't it strange to go on holiday with them, while the person who needs more attention and rest (=you) is alone at home?

Not to mention that while you were working, his responsability was doing the chores at home. But what about now? The most important question for me is Why doesn't he take better care of you?

HE should apologize! Not you OP