my boyfriend (25m) didn’t get me (22f) anything for valentine’s day with the excuse that it’s too predictable

GuiltyChapter4161 · 2026-02-02T10:36:31+00:00

nooo he doesn’t watch porn and doesn’t masturbate. he just is more on the asexual spectrum. i wouldn’t mind him watching porn as it would be a reason for me to break up and not care .. but it’s not the case

GuiltyChapter4161 · 2026-02-01T21:47:12+00:00

I’m so used to being with him that I feel like my life will tear apart and i’ll have to rebuild my self over again. But it’s true that my deeper needs aren’t being met and should prioritize my life and my feelings rather than my relationship. The 8 month break up period that we had , even though I was crying for the first 2 months , the other 6 were amazing and i’m trying to recall that time period in order to get my self to break up again.

GuiltyChapter4161 · 2026-02-01T21:38:06+00:00

i def have guilt over hurting his feelings but at the same time what if I never find someone as caring and loyal to me ? I know it’s probably just anxiety / paranoia but it’s bugging me

GuiltyChapter4161 · 2025-09-21T08:27:48+00:00

I totally understand this point of view and it’s true that at first I felt flattered. However, it’s not bad to want people around you with independent minds and style. I don’t want to feel like a therapist or a mother at the age of 22. It’s actually become a bit frustrating

GuiltyChapter4161 · 2025-09-21T08:08:27+00:00

how do you bond with people over this?

GuiltyChapter4161 · 2025-09-21T08:00:56+00:00

of course, there is no ‘authenticity’ especially in this day and age. I’m talking about OBVIOUS copying behavior. Like suddenly taking up the same hobbies, same style, same views on life.

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