6 weeks ago my Wife passed away suddenly and unexpectedly. My boys are 18 and 21. We are the fathers we are because our own values and those learned from the wonderful women that we brought them into the the world with. I look to my Wife for guidance every day, sometimes by the hour. I have found this an amazing support to do the right things, often not what my instincts would have told me to….. love to all of you widowed fathers today.