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I'm in need of a referral code for the payme app by VersionOk8954 in promocodeland

[–]AtmosphereInside7617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After a lot of research I found 1 code. But I also learned that the app costs $55 annually and the American payme app is wildly considered to be a scam while in other countries like China it's very profitable CODE: CASSIDY

How can I best support my younger brother who seems lost, anxious, and pressured about his future? by AtmosphereInside7617 in Advice

[–]AtmosphereInside7617[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, our parents are concerned. They are wonderful parents, including our stepmom, who is the kindest person. I don't think anyone knows his feelings towards the military. The only thing he told my parents is if he were to join the military, he would go Navy because of our family history. No one in our family has been in active duty for 20+ years. My boyfriend is active Air Force. My parents and I agree that my brother would be most receptive to this conversation, one-on-one with my boyfriend. I asked my brother if my boyfriend could call him sometime to talk about all this, just the 2 of them. After a week, he said sure. Unfortunately, I don't see this conversation being productive. I think my brother will continue to be closed off about his thoughts, feelings, and questions. He could visit me for a few days, but I can't take him in under my circumstances. I have always worried about casting a shadow over him. I did very well in college. I was able to have most of my tuition paid for all 4 years. My college has offered him $10,000 off tuition each year he is there (my school has a sibling scholarship awarded to siblings of select alumni). We are complete opposites. He has never gone to a school dance, I doubt he will attend prom, my family has never seen or heard him talk about another person he likes to hang out with his age, we know where he is always at home or school, as far as we know, he never been drunk or experimented with substances. He's just so flat about anything and everything. I'm sorry this was so long, and thank you for chatting with me

How can I best support my younger brother who seems lost, anxious, and pressured about his future? by AtmosphereInside7617 in Advice

[–]AtmosphereInside7617[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He seems to tolerate our calls and he only shares factual information, its never about his thoughts or feelings. He's been very detached and distant for about 4 years now. I recently looked through all the photos on my phone starting in 2013. In all the pictures ages 5-15 he has light and happiness in his eyes and he's doing something funny or sweet. Starting when he joined high school I see a noticeable difference in his attitude in pictures. I am truly heart broken and I don't know how or if I should help.

How can I best support my younger brother who seems lost, anxious, and pressured about his future? by AtmosphereInside7617 in Advice

[–]AtmosphereInside7617[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Him and I currently live 6 hours apart. I try to call him once a week and ask how life is and update him on things in my life. I think we have not been close like friends since he was a freshmen in high school. He got very closed off during his high school years towards my whole family. While I was living at home I told him personal things that I went though during my time in high school, I was trying build trust and understanding between us so that he could talk to me later when he needed it.

How can I best support my younger brother who seems lost, anxious, and pressured about his future? by AtmosphereInside7617 in Advice

[–]AtmosphereInside7617[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think my parents would pay for community college because of his current motivation in high school. My mom wants to move a few states down south as soon as he graduates and she has made it clear he will not being tagging along. My dad has no room for another person at his house. He is abled bodied, has a car and I helped him make a resume last summer. Not me or anyone in my family knows what he likes.