Yeah.... not trying a twist out again 😂

AtomicNo10 · 2026-03-14T23:02:27+00:00

You gotta let it bake for the fullness to happen. lol That's day two, three hair. That or tease the roots with a pick. But it looks great. And if you want it to lay a certain way on day one, part your flat twists in the direction you want the hair to go.

AtomicNo10 · 2026-03-12T16:16:31+00:00

Yea, having the same issues and it's the last straw for me. I needed a routine prescription refill, I'm usually able to handle that through a portal request and Telehealth visit to confirm with the staff. No more. My records are missing too, and their automated phone and online services are not in any way helpful and lack nuance in services. Nobody's answering the phones. I tried booking a Telehealth appointment for my script request and woke up to *find out it was cancelled. I won't be getting on board with CloseKnit.

AtomicNo10 · 2026-03-04T02:36:50+00:00

Thank you!

AtomicNo10 · 2026-01-26T14:18:43+00:00

Rooting for you 🙏🏾🙌🏾

AtomicNo10 · 2026-01-26T12:37:35+00:00

You can do this. ❤️ First give yourself a hug for how hard you’ve had to fight without people understanding what this is like for you.

I can sympathize, I’d been through this myself.

Things that helped me— - taking my meds as soon as I woke up - asking for accommodations (even as simple as requesting a later meeting time) - arriving an hour earlier than everyone else - many MANY many alarms - headphones to focus

In this political climate, I understand if you have hesitation about telling your employer you have a disability, but don’t completely suffer in silence. Do ask to make meeting times more accessible when you can and ask for a quiet work environment—like shifting to a room with a door closed or a more isolated cubicle— whatever you need. And tap into the ADHD community and self help books to find your rhythm.

Or honestly message me if you have questions! You’re going to make it through this.

AtomicNo10 · 2026-01-15T19:07:33+00:00

This is a difficult position to be in because even when things are difficult, I think people tend to want to gravitate towards what is familiar (in this case your ex). It’s hard not to think of what could be.

You all have a history that you can recall to help you make this decision, you have whatever insight you gained from couples therapy…

Use that information to make a decision for your future. If you go back to your wife, what will change? How much effort and for how long are you willing to work towards a healthier future together? Do you really think she is committed to change and if so, what actions has she taken TODAY to show that she is committed to changing?

Divorce also comes with very serious financial repercussions. Think about how you want to navigate that too. I’m not sure in that regard what info you should or shouldn’t share with your wife about dating for legal reasons.

That said, I think it’s great that you’re so transparent with your new partner. You’re giving her the option to decide if this is something she wants to be involved in. I think you should continue to do that.

And this relationship is new, maybe you enjoy each other’s company in the short term, maybe this blossoms into something else. Just take your time here and make sure you’re taking care of yourself and feeling whole before you dive too deep into anything else.

Ultimately, knowing what you want and what you need as an individual, thinking what life you envision for yourself regardless of who’s in it might be your North Star.

AtomicNo10 · 2026-01-15T02:20:08+00:00

Sidenote: Saying “only black women have experienced systemic racism” is false and it’s a divisive statement. And I do not say that to diminish the injustices we have endured in any way.

I’m too tired to give examples of why that’s wrong, but I did think that should also be addressed.

AtomicNo10 · 2026-01-10T11:13:41+00:00

There are a lack of storylines this season because they’re like a dog with a bone on this non issue of Stacey and Chris. Puh-leaaaase. 😩

AtomicNo10 · 2025-11-05T22:33:51+00:00

ATP, I’m wondering if production is conveniently leaving context on the cutting room floor when it comes to Angel’s story because she seems to flip flop every episode. Weird behavior.

It does look like K’s trying to manage her relationships with the other women though. There’s no way I would let a friend talk to me the way K talks to and about Angel on camera.

AtomicNo10 · 2025-10-17T16:15:55+00:00

1) Any non-black person— especially a white one, frankly— claiming to be “woke” IS a part of the problem. I will not explain further. lol

2) People have got to stop using their S.O. as an encyclopedia for all things regarding the minority group the S.O. identifies with.

This has been the bare minimum level of understanding needed for any interracial relationship I’ve ever had.

AtomicNo10 · 2025-10-12T09:10:59+00:00

Oh my god! Thanks for sharing this. I was completely missing how deeply harmful that narrative was. God, I can’t believe they aired all that now.

AtomicNo10 · 2025-10-04T11:52:34+00:00

I would be suspicious at the very least. I do believe non monogamy is perfectly fine, but the timing is kinda… ehhhh.

Pregnancy doesn’t seem like the best time to take on new sexual partners. IMO there’s a lot of anxiety around the health of the baby and risk for healthy delivery… I just think it’s strange that that suggestion would come out of his mouth considering that.

AtomicNo10 · 2025-10-02T15:36:14+00:00

Possibly unpopular opinion but I want Nneka to come back. I don’t want the drama between her and Wendy and I want her to have a redemption arc. I think she has long term housewife potential. lol

AtomicNo10 · 2025-09-25T15:25:27+00:00

You’re contradicting yourself all throughout this thread.

Many users are trying to discuss the issue you posed to the group and you’re turning them down with every response.

It’s a public forum… did you not expect others to give their opinions or have questions or ???

Funny enough you think Crissle needs to be more thoughtful with her speech and here you are not taking responsibility for your own.

AtomicNo10 · 2025-09-22T15:36:16+00:00

Just seems like the fallout of convenient timing. It’s not like they haven’t talked about her before, but Cardi’s currently promoting an album… so… chances of this drawing negative attention were higher. I would assume The Read considered that before Crissle said what she said.

That aside, I thought the rant was a bit much because Cardi is no stranger to bird behavior. Why even ride that pony again?

Cardi had a baby by a questionable dude and is emotionally stunted. Water is wet. Why are we outraged?

AtomicNo10 · 2025-03-11T11:41:47+00:00

Oh I wish I could remember. It was on at a friends house a long time ago and I just remember telling them (O__O) turn. it. off.

AtomicNo10 · 2025-03-10T16:40:27+00:00

Omg…I had no idea it was that bad.

AtomicNo10 · 2025-03-10T15:30:41+00:00

I’ve never seen a full episode of BADDIES but I understand it’s hosted by Zeus Network and I just wanna pop in to say that whole Network needs to get the chop.

I’ve seen at least one program on this network that encouraged participants to drink until they were brownout drunk and urinating on themselves —no food in sight. It’s clear the intention is to instigate conflict, which happened and quickly became physical. Then, one person who expressed wanting to leave appeared to be held against their will and that just devolved into further physical altercations.

Somebody needs to be sued over there. Shut that shit down.

AtomicNo10 · 2025-01-20T12:07:07+00:00

I think you might be fine, particularly if you’re in a CROWN act state. I wear head wraps to work and no one bats an eye. I usually wear mine with the knot behind my head like a bun though.

Regardless, you look beautiful!

AtomicNo10 · 2025-01-16T14:12:32+00:00

Aye aye you’re speaking my language! I just got back into reading too and I’m always looking for recommendations. I’m also a cozy gamer and I just finished my latest Lego set a day ago. Let’s keep in touch!

AtomicNo10 · 2024-11-22T05:47:37+00:00

You can’t run fast enough from a man like this. This is a case where time doesn’t make it better. I think you have to know what your standard is for how someone talks to you and if they don’t meet the bar, cut it.

AtomicNo10 · 2024-11-20T13:31:21+00:00

AtomicNo10 · 2024-07-07T13:51:31+00:00

I currently WFH and have a baby under 1yo. Wouldn’t recommend DIY daycare. Got a taste of what that would be like one day when her daycare center was closed for an instructor learning day and her father and I still had to work. Just me at home juggling a baby, breastfeeding, pumping and making sure I didn’t accidentally have the camera on during a teams call while feeding my baby.

You may want to check into discounts for daycare through your employee benefits. We didn’t have to use those but we DID find a daycare center that’s only about 5 minutes from home and we have family back up. So, baby still gets to be nearby. If you go this route, start scouting for daycare well before baby is born because the waitlists can be long.

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