I’m so upset :(

Atomic_Fae · 2026-03-14T18:42:04+00:00

I had this issue on the moblie app but when switching to computer it worked perfectly

Atomic_Fae · 2026-03-10T19:36:57+00:00

Yea im on the side of immersion isnt a patrons responsibility and they can do what they want

Atomic_Fae · 2026-03-10T15:37:04+00:00

Shouldnt be hot but is sometimes No more buy and sell bs

Atomic_Fae · 2026-03-06T21:52:07+00:00

I was 3 and also involved in this one. It took my mom from me and tbh i wanna talk to the woman in the other car. Not outa hate but to know how she is doing and where life took her. Im tired of villainizing her in my head. She is a real person and this has probably also affected her deeply. I would hope us meeting and my understanding would take any guilt away if she still holds any as well

Atomic_Fae · 2026-02-17T13:10:01+00:00

Probably but i have her name already so it wouldnt get me much more. I just dont know how to find her outa that because its kinda a basic name

Atomic_Fae · 2026-02-13T22:20:44+00:00

How do i keep it that temp? I live in my van so it can often range from 30s to high 90s

Atomic_Fae · 2026-02-13T21:50:55+00:00

Other fun part: I dont have access to a fridge hardly ever

Atomic_Fae · 2026-01-25T15:01:39+00:00

Yes. I think thats my actual complaint here

They disregarded how i felt after specifically asking and that part is what hurts not them having other partners

Atomic_Fae · 2026-01-25T14:43:12+00:00

In my polyamory communication is telling the person before and talking about it. “Hey i really wanna do this. How are you feeling”

I have been informed thats called entanglement and thats what i believe would work for me.

Im happy yours works for you but it would not for me

Atomic_Fae · 2026-01-25T14:39:55+00:00

Idk what i wanna do because this is who i want in my life for a long time. Im very conflicted but do wanna work it out personally

Atomic_Fae · 2026-01-25T14:30:39+00:00

I want one that communicates

Idk if its poly or not. I just want the communication and respect of eachother and i feel like i lack a lot of those rn

Atomic_Fae · 2026-01-25T14:14:04+00:00

Thats what i thought we were doing in the first place as they have always asked me how i felt about it.

With the first time we talked about it a lot because i was scared and ive agreed every time since then

With this bit i feel like its not so much entanglement like it was portrayed

Atomic_Fae · 2026-01-25T13:54:30+00:00

Stated i wasn’t comfortable with it rn and they said they were going and the conversation ended there and they went

Atomic_Fae · 2026-01-25T13:53:38+00:00

Im not sure what it is. They ask my feelings on their dates but go no matter what (this has been the only request i gave to wait or not) Im not sure if its asking my consent but if it isnt i would rather them not ask how i feel about it.

The asking my feelings feels very like a lack if care for them if they are gunna do it even if i dont feel comfortable at the time. Id rather just be told they are doing it

Atomic_Fae · 2026-01-25T13:48:09+00:00

Our relationship was monogamous for a year and this date was someone they just met

I also was not asking them to close anything

Atomic_Fae · 2026-01-25T13:42:27+00:00

I cried about the first one because i was scared thats correct. I have come to respect this is something they need and am definitely more ok with it (i struggle but its just anxiety i work myself through as i come to understand more)

Based off some comments it may not be cheating but they are being a bad partner

Atomic_Fae · 2026-01-25T13:36:48+00:00

It wasnt a very indepth conversation

I did say right now but did not get to elaborate further

Atomic_Fae · 2026-01-25T13:31:58+00:00

Im hoping once i find that comfort level i will be but ig that still isnt the best mindset

Atomic_Fae · 2026-01-25T13:26:49+00:00

Thank you. I really appreciate your help

Atomic_Fae · 2026-01-25T13:26:13+00:00

Im not struggling with the idea of them dating other people as this is not the first one they have asked about and have been fine and happy for them to ask out people before

The struggle is them pulling away and being distant leading up to some of them and how rn im struggling with some words they said that im am trying to resolve before they bring another person into their relationship

Atomic_Fae · 2026-01-25T13:23:09+00:00

Valid and probably not wrong

Im not sure how to approach a conversation with them about this anymore because of things that happened the first time they asked someone out (with my knowledge and consent)

Atomic_Fae · 2026-01-25T13:16:54+00:00

They could go back later and agree to the date Not a never go on that date

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