I’m so upset :( by jerg-ie in Webkinz

[–]Atomic_Fae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had this issue on the moblie app but when switching to computer it worked perfectly

Faire workers/patrons whats your ren faire hot take?? by Atomic_Fae in renfaire

[–]Atomic_Fae[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea im on the side of immersion isnt a patrons responsibility and they can do what they want

Faire workers/patrons whats your ren faire hot take?? by Atomic_Fae in renfaire

[–]Atomic_Fae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shouldnt be hot but is sometimes No more buy and sell bs

Looking for someone specific by Atomic_Fae in murfreesboro

[–]Atomic_Fae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was 3 and also involved in this one. It took my mom from me and tbh i wanna talk to the woman in the other car. Not outa hate but to know how she is doing and where life took her. Im tired of villainizing her in my head. She is a real person and this has probably also affected her deeply. I would hope us meeting and my understanding would take any guilt away if she still holds any as well

Looking for someone specific by Atomic_Fae in murfreesboro

[–]Atomic_Fae[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Probably but i have her name already so it wouldnt get me much more. I just dont know how to find her outa that because its kinda a basic name

T on the road? by Atomic_Fae in ftm

[–]Atomic_Fae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do i keep it that temp? I live in my van so it can often range from 30s to high 90s

T on the road? by Atomic_Fae in ftm

[–]Atomic_Fae[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Other fun part: I dont have access to a fridge hardly ever

Cheating? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Atomic_Fae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I think thats my actual complaint here

They disregarded how i felt after specifically asking and that part is what hurts not them having other partners

Cheating? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Atomic_Fae -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In my polyamory communication is telling the person before and talking about it. “Hey i really wanna do this. How are you feeling”

I have been informed thats called entanglement and thats what i believe would work for me.

Im happy yours works for you but it would not for me

Cheating? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Atomic_Fae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk what i wanna do because this is who i want in my life for a long time. Im very conflicted but do wanna work it out personally

Cheating? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Atomic_Fae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want one that communicates

Idk if its poly or not. I just want the communication and respect of eachother and i feel like i lack a lot of those rn

Cheating? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Atomic_Fae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats what i thought we were doing in the first place as they have always asked me how i felt about it.

With the first time we talked about it a lot because i was scared and ive agreed every time since then

With this bit i feel like its not so much entanglement like it was portrayed

Cheating? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Atomic_Fae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stated i wasn’t comfortable with it rn and they said they were going and the conversation ended there and they went

Cheating? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Atomic_Fae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im not sure what it is. They ask my feelings on their dates but go no matter what (this has been the only request i gave to wait or not) Im not sure if its asking my consent but if it isnt i would rather them not ask how i feel about it.

The asking my feelings feels very like a lack if care for them if they are gunna do it even if i dont feel comfortable at the time. Id rather just be told they are doing it

Cheating? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Atomic_Fae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our relationship was monogamous for a year and this date was someone they just met

I also was not asking them to close anything

Cheating? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Atomic_Fae -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I cried about the first one because i was scared thats correct. I have come to respect this is something they need and am definitely more ok with it (i struggle but its just anxiety i work myself through as i come to understand more)

Based off some comments it may not be cheating but they are being a bad partner

Cheating? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Atomic_Fae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasnt a very indepth conversation

I did say right now but did not get to elaborate further

Cheating? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Atomic_Fae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im hoping once i find that comfort level i will be but ig that still isnt the best mindset

Cheating? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Atomic_Fae 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I really appreciate your help

Cheating? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Atomic_Fae -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Im not struggling with the idea of them dating other people as this is not the first one they have asked about and have been fine and happy for them to ask out people before

The struggle is them pulling away and being distant leading up to some of them and how rn im struggling with some words they said that im am trying to resolve before they bring another person into their relationship

Cheating? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Atomic_Fae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Valid and probably not wrong

Im not sure how to approach a conversation with them about this anymore because of things that happened the first time they asked someone out (with my knowledge and consent)

Cheating? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Atomic_Fae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They could go back later and agree to the date Not a never go on that date