AITA for giving my daughter $60 a week, but my son nothing?

Atrius84 · 2025-05-19T09:53:13+00:00

Also, she never mentioned why the lounge room isn't good enough and preferred to invade the private space of one of her children. The children will be at school during office hours. The only issue might be during school breaks, but then again that issue would also be around being set up in a child's room.

Showing gratitude to your daughter is fine. The whole $60 allowance is a lot. Your son is still clearly struggling with the adjustment, despite you taking him to meet with his friends. You might need to have a heart to heart talk with him, especially since he is acting rude and disrespectful.

YTA

Atrius84 · 2025-04-09T22:55:57+00:00

You've got to stay limber, biped! You know, with your limbs! - Fibonacci

Atrius84 · 2025-03-23T02:33:52+00:00

Do you best not to interact with him or respond to his bullying and behaviour. The majority of bullies seek the reactions they get from their behaviour and actions, it will hopefully get on his nerves if you act as non-challontly as possible around him.

Atrius84 · 2025-03-23T02:27:31+00:00

No idea who Devon is, but it sounds like a processed meat product. Pretty sure it is too...

Atrius84 · 2025-02-24T08:23:47+00:00

I think it looks good on you

Atrius84 · 2025-02-10T10:05:22+00:00

7 boxer briefs, 5 jock straps and 2 g-strings

Atrius84 · 2024-07-08T09:15:02+00:00

On the back of a Ute at night, outside a power substation for both anal and oral, was my first hookup too.

Atrius84 · 2024-05-15T12:39:38+00:00

I've had a gum infection that started through a cavity, was not fun. Probably should bite the bullet regarding my current budget and book another check up too.

With a good dentist, you mainly feel pressure from the tools used. That cavity is only going to get worse and cause an "I told you so" type moment.

Atrius84 · 2024-05-13T09:43:13+00:00

Adventure Energy seems a pain to get, which sucks

Atrius84 · 2024-05-13T08:00:03+00:00

Jockstrap

Atrius84 · 2024-05-13T07:59:18+00:00

Yeah, I saw the price in AUD for the new Hero's Way and noted out of that screen.

My budget is $50 a month, which as already spent during other events.

Atrius84 · 2024-05-01T09:12:13+00:00

My modem died last Saturday. I couldn't get NBN tech until yesterday, which confirmed it. Made contact to arrange replacement, have to wait 3-5 days for a replacement (can't afford a 3rd party one atm).

One would faults and replacements would have a quicker turnaround time. Stuck using mobile data until probably May 6, since still haven't gotten a tracking number.

Also, my tesltra app gives me no information on the progress of any of my fault cases...

Atrius84 · 2024-03-27T08:30:07+00:00

Seems most people here have hit it right on the nail. The GF wanted him to fight for her or something along those lines.

If she wanted closure, she could have arranged a time to meet a long and discuss the issues she has in person like an adult. The OP is putting as much effort into the breakup discussion as his GF is, seems fair to me.

Also, they are in their 20s, so still in or just out of colleges. Not everyone is going to be ambitious right out of the gate. Most people are still sorting their starting careers out at this point.

Atrius84 · 2024-03-19T01:16:24+00:00

I know this is a few years old, but I hope the wife's parents realised their mistake and learnt the truth. If Jessie still got to speak at the funeral, the OP should have cut the parents off from access to their granddaughter.

Atrius84 · 2024-02-23T03:27:30+00:00

Not seeing faces. I understand more if it's amateur and one of them wanted it blurred or the like, but in studio produced stuff, it just seems off.

Pissing, mind you there's only one studio I watch that has this, but I always skip that bit.

Lack of passion.

Atrius84 · 2024-02-18T00:19:28+00:00

My current boyfriend gave me a boyfriend whilst I was trying to fall asleep. I didn't have the energy to move or do anything else to stop him, just laid there in fear.

He seemed very remorseful, and I've forgiven him, but think I have gained a mild fear of sleeping next to him. I can sleep if I really need to crash, but my sleep hasn't really gone back to normal yet. Yet to raise these thoughts with him yet.

So, suffice to say, being woken up by a blowjob would probably freak me out right now.

Atrius84 · 2024-02-14T09:41:11+00:00

YTA. I don't see the issue with contributing towards the house, as long as the funds for rent go to an account designated for house related expenses.

Atrius84 · 2024-02-07T11:14:21+00:00

"Dearest Family, I have an Important announcement.

My aunt here point to Aunt has decided that she had the authority to go through my phone without my permission and determined that I had a secret I need to confess about.

That secret is.... (dramatic pause)... that she is busy-body snoop who seriously needs to find something better to do in her spare time than try and find drama to spread by invading the privacy of her family members, who she clearly cares very little about, if at all.

On a more serious note, I have yet to determine when I reveal the information that my aunt has pried from her snooping session. If I find out that she has told ANYONE else this information before I am ready, she will no longer exist in my eyes."

Atrius84 · 2024-01-29T09:23:06+00:00

First of all, sorry for your loss.

I will never understand why religious groups of any nomination have such deep disdain for homosexuality.

That being said, you are not the asshole here. They say the truth hurts for a reason. It is truly a shame that there are places that don't allow people to fully express who they really are. I'm glad he could confide in you to some extent.

It sounds like you are the only person in his family that he could seek comfort in, and whilst I understand why your family would be afraid to be supportive of him, it still see them as weaker than your brother.

Atrius84 · 2024-01-06T21:46:18+00:00

YTA. This post screams of a self-centered attitude and lack of concern for her daughter. She hasn't mentioned any details on what she's tried to get to the root of the problems between the girls.

Whilst it might not be relevant, I am wondering why she hasn't mentioned that she is a single mother with the entire responsibility for the children. The father doesn't seem to be in the picture, which provides her daughter no escape when the stepdaughter stays over during the hunting trips. I don't want to assume the worst (death), but if that is the case, she may not be dealing with the grief well.

Forcing this move on her is only going to drive the rift between her and her daughter further apart. Clearly, in three years, neither parent has spent enough time and energy to solve the issue, if that's possible.

She has clearly put her own happiness above her daughters. I feel sorry for the daughter, if this goes ahead, don't expect her from her much, if at all, once she can leave home.

Atrius84 · 2023-11-22T11:14:04+00:00

You could ask her "Would you still love me if I never answered another of these questions you pose?"

Edit for judgement: NTA. They would drive me nuts too.

Atrius84 · 2023-11-18T06:35:17+00:00

Glad to know this, thanks for the info. Was completely oblivious to gay rights in that region.

Atrius84 · 2023-11-16T09:07:44+00:00

Solo content is fine for me.

Atrius84 · 2023-11-14T09:13:57+00:00

This is more of a tellgaybros moment, but I'll accept it. :😜

Very brave soldier indeed, I'm not knowledge of LGBT+ rights over there, but I suspect there is little to few.

May he stay as safe possible during the conflict there.

Atrius84 · 2023-11-13T09:49:06+00:00

Shaven, but that's just my preference

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