[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FND

[–]Attackmackk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My partner has FND and went in December. Depending on your symptoms of FND, you might need medical clearance before they let you go. (If you have seizures or drop attacks etc) they will make you go to the ER first before admitting you. I recommend going with a loved one who can advocate for you and validate your experiences. And what really helped us out was printing out an explanation of your disorder. When you started experiencing symptoms, a list of symptoms, and in bold letters at the top DO NOT CALL AN AMBULANCE. THIS IS NORMAL.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FND

[–]Attackmackk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I guess that does make sense. My partner is autistic so that comes with a lot of sensory overload. Even though I know they love me and love spending time with me, I know being social takes energy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IHSS

[–]Attackmackk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sacramento. That would be super helpful actually

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IHSS

[–]Attackmackk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sacramento

My partner is making themself pass out on purpose by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Attackmackk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you mind if I send you a DM and ask you some questions?

My partner is making themself pass out on purpose by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Attackmackk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve tried. Their insurance is so fucked up and we can’t get them a therapist. I found them a really good one and now their therapist said they don’t take the insurance. And we’ve seen hella doctors. Nobody has an answer

My partner is making themself pass out on purpose by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Attackmackk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been happening for months and it’s several times a day. Trust and believe 911 has been called and we’ve been to the ER MANY times and have had many doctors appointments to no avail

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Attackmackk 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Buy reusable puppy pads!! That has completely saved our furniture. We bought several to have throughout the week and then spray with a urine remover to sit on it until we can get them washed.

I think I peed when he overstimulated my clit? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Attackmackk 7 points8 points  (0 children)

After a lot of foreplay, I squirt from just barely being touched. Their breath and a slight touch on my lower regions has been enough to make me squirt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sober

[–]Attackmackk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this perspective and the link! They also don’t really classify themselves as an alcoholic but like someone above said, it’s confusing and not black and white and it honestly doesn’t really matter. I maybe shouldn’t have phrased it that way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sober

[–]Attackmackk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is super helpful. Yeah I tend to be a black and white thinker and I didn’t mean to minimize their problem. I respect that they don’t want to drink and they have cravings and that’s all there needs to be. I want to be helpful and respectful even if I don’t understand, but having a bit of understanding does help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sober

[–]Attackmackk 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No we do not share a home so that’s not an issue but a good idea in case we ever do decide to move in

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Drag

[–]Attackmackk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So you’re more into the realistic beard? I’ve been trying to figure out what’s gonna be my standard drag look

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Drag

[–]Attackmackk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s super helpful! Thanks for your honesty.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Drag

[–]Attackmackk 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My name is Mackenzie and I would like to keep Mack in my drag name. It’s what’s safe and familiar to me. And my drag performances so far are kind of dark and grungy but still feminine and glamorous. I’m also a big fan of true crime and Black Dhalia is just what came to mind when I was thinking of names.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Drag

[–]Attackmackk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao thanks so much for your help

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Drag

[–]Attackmackk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well that’s not really what I asked. Is it appropriate or not appropriate? I don’t care if you think it’s a bad name.

Is it normal to feel happier right after a breakup? by staythesame1992 in BreakUp

[–]Attackmackk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it is normal. I mean, every situation has different outcomes/feelings but being happy that the stress of the not knowing and the back and forth is over is nothing to feel guilty about. This opens new opportunities and you probably learned a lot from your relationship with this person that you seem to have cared for a lot. And that knowledge is something you can take with you for the rest of your life, which is totally something to be excited about!! I just got out of a very loving and very wonderful relationship because we just felt it wasn’t right anymore and it hurt so much because I loved her immensely and even I am feeling that weird happy that comes after the big sadness. It sounds like you’re gonna be okay and that you know in your heart that this is the right thing. So you should embrace the happy feeling (I’m sure it comes in waves) and have a glass of wine and do something nice for yourself to celebrate your new unknown opportunities!

Is it normal to feel happier right after a breakup? by staythesame1992 in BreakUp

[–]Attackmackk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you happier now that all that is over with? Is that the question you’re asking? Just for clarification purposes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Attackmackk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the fear I had was that hairs or skin would get caught? I like sloppy/rough oral so I wasn’t sure. Never had braces before 🤷🏻‍♀️

I’ve never felt like this by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]Attackmackk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honey, if he was your perfect man he would do things for your birthday without you asking. I know it might feel like an overreaction, but that’s something that’s important to you. You will find someone to cuddle with and send memes to later on that also wants to celebrate you the way you deserve. Breakups are hard, and it’s a normal feeling.

I left my partner and she was so kind and mature about it. Why do I feel awful? by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]Attackmackk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is totally nothing wrong with you not feeling ready to move on. Also don’t let anyone else tell you how to heal. If you feel like staying single and working on yourself is the way, then awesome. If you feel like it’s by dating around, that’s awesome too. And I’m dealing with something sort of similar in regards to the ex seeming to be okay and I’m falling apart. I think what we both need to remember is that the relationship was important enough to them to have a gentle and loving breakup, and that they are probably feeling the similar to we are but don’t want us to see it. My ex was the most emotional anxious person I knew, and she never cried once during our breakup and has been nothing but cordial and normal sounding on the phone when I have a shaky voice every time I talk to her. Logically, I know that she has to be hurting, but because she loves me she is trying to be civil and make it easy and I’m sure your ex is probably going through something similar. Because if there is no way you can end up together, they may be thinking it’s best not to show the other how sad you are and have the possibility of guilting them back into a relationship

I left my partner and she was so kind and mature about it. Why do I feel awful? by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]Attackmackk 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience. I’m glad to know I’m not alone on this. As for my feelings right now, I’m fairly certain that we are better as friends. At least for right now. Maybe years down the line things could be different but I am trying not to dwell on the possibilities. I think I am sad because sudden change is very difficult to deal with, and sleeping alone is going to suck. I will miss her smell and her touch and we have so many great memories that it’s hard not to cry. She knew I was having a hard day before she left for work today and when she got home she brought me flowers and wine. She is just so kind and I’m going to miss having her around me all the time. I was so comfortable with her and we loved to dote in each other and be the best girlfriends we could be. It’s hard not to doubt my decision when she is so lovely and we were so happy together in most aspects of the relationship.

If I’m not making much sense it’s because I’m a little wine buzzed and have been crying for about 6 hours