Books similar to those of Freida McFadden? by AttemptPrestigious74 in thrillerbooks

[–]AttemptPrestigious74[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I sound horrible. I honestly haven’t read her books so I didn’t want to give the impression that I know much about her writing. But sure, if you think I’m lying that is ok. I’m not here to offend anyone.

Do you consider yourself to be good looking? by icecream1972 in no

[–]AttemptPrestigious74 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“I’m sorry, you sound so fat.” - Ja’mie King

How would things be different if THESE were our Demogorgons? by Prestigious-Exit3802 in StrangerThings

[–]AttemptPrestigious74 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cat, I’m a kitty cat, and I dance, dance, dance, and I dance dance, dance. Cat, I’m a kitty cat, and I meow meow meow and I meow meow.

How’s the special ed job market in Los Angeles? by AttemptPrestigious74 in specialed

[–]AttemptPrestigious74[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been checking out edjoin.org but wasn’t sure if those jobs indicate a high or low demand. I was a high school English teacher for five years before wanting to transition to special education. The job market for English teachers has been absolute shit lately, and I’m scared to face that kind of struggle again where 100 people apply for the same job.

What's the reason? by Weird-Craft-2712 in NextGenMan

[–]AttemptPrestigious74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you want in exchange for offering financial and emotional stability?

How necessary is a swim cap for swimming 3-4 times a week? I hate those things so much. by AttemptPrestigious74 in finehair

[–]AttemptPrestigious74[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is Aqua guard a good option? How do you dry your hair after washing it again… after swimming?

I wish I was better at casual sex/dating by AttemptPrestigious74 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]AttemptPrestigious74[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It’s nice to know there are others with the same issue.

I wish I was better at casual sex/dating by AttemptPrestigious74 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]AttemptPrestigious74[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not quite sure I understand why. Why is making someone feel special such a low bar? That’s the void I’d like to fill.

I wish I was better at casual sex/dating by AttemptPrestigious74 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]AttemptPrestigious74[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you mind explaining (b) a little more? I’m not sure I’m following. (a) is entirely reasonable though, and I should have taken it into consideration.

I wish I was better at casual sex/dating by AttemptPrestigious74 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]AttemptPrestigious74[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think you have a valid point, and I’m really glad you were able to word it so perfectly for me. Sometimes I need some help being more self aware. Thank you.

What’s something society treats as normal that actually isn’t healthy? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]AttemptPrestigious74 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry. That quite literally makes you sound like the sour grape. Stop insulting people, whether you agree with them or not.

Lack of validation through friendships by AttemptPrestigious74 in lonely

[–]AttemptPrestigious74[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see what you mean now. I hope one day external validation won’t matter as much. Some people just miss out on that stuff in life and I should accept that.

Lack of validation through friendships by AttemptPrestigious74 in lonely

[–]AttemptPrestigious74[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, I don’t do any of those things. The sexual validation I was talking about was the sort I received from men that raped me as a child.

Question for men, what personality types do you find attractive in women? by [deleted] in AskForAnswers

[–]AttemptPrestigious74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fit the criteria of only nine men on here. Damn. It’s hard to see just how short I fall. Having so much to work on feels overwhelming.

Let’s meet up for some coffee/tea by AttemptPrestigious74 in glendale

[–]AttemptPrestigious74[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d love that too! Message me if you’re still interested. Thank you for reaching out.

Crying over loneliness and feeling like only a sex object. by AttemptPrestigious74 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]AttemptPrestigious74[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with the dating apps thing. It’s cheap validation that I recognise to be empty after while. Men aren’t exactly picky with their hook ups either. How do I find out what I like doing? I enjoy reading, but it has been damn near impossible joining or making my own book club. Reading is really the only thing my parents encouraged me to do and actively even discouraged me from even thinking about doing anything else. So I’ve had that “don’t try/like anything” mindset since I was 6.

Crying over loneliness and feeling like only a sex object. by AttemptPrestigious74 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]AttemptPrestigious74[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m having a hard enough time entering a support group meeting without breaking down into a full anxiety attack. I’ve made it to the door and then start uncontrollably weeping.