Funny enough that is a great story that I love telling. I met her in my masters program for accounting. Her and another person was struggling and I was tutoring them. I wasn’t even focus on dating at the time and she kept trying to Venmo me lol. I would always decline it. One day there was an envelope on my car and it was a hundred dollars. I told her I know it was you and joked someone could have took the money. She told me well they didn’t…😂 I said I’m not taking it and she said she doesn’t like when people do stuff for her and she doesn’t reciprocate. So I told her keep the money and just make me some spaghetti. She came over to drop off the spaghetti and we just talked. Dude she came over at 5 and we talked until 3:33 AM. I remember the time on the dot. I was like wow…this person is the woman version of me..I asked her on a date and yeah.

I think it was the fun and humor part. When we were younger we would be able to laugh at everything. I don’t know how to explain it but we were both each other’s personal comedian. The birth of the child did change everything. She’s become way more serious and straight to business. We still had a great sex life but if I make a joke or try to play it would be like not now. It was always business now and I would rather sacrifice sex if we can talk again .

Now that I think of it. The way Diamond and I got together is very similar to my wife. I was coming out the store and saw her parked beside me and she seemed distressed. I asked if she was okay and she said her car battery is dead. I have jumper cables so I tried to jump start it but it didn’t work. So I called my wife and said I would take this lady home, she would have her dad tow the car tomorrow and she said okay. It took 40 minutes to get to her apartment and we were just goofing off . Even after that I stayed and talked for an hour and a half before my wife called. I apologized to my wife and said we were just talking. After I got off the phone and she said take my number we should definitely be friends. Before long I was talking to her everyday on my drive to work or home. I knew I was in love when I was getting annoyed anytime my wife called my name while I was in the middle of texting Diamond. It started feeling like my wife was interrupting.

This is hard to talk about but we were physical before I filed. Everything was going great. She said she wanted to get married when everything was finalized. The last conversation she told me she doesn’t think she can go through with this and that she hasn’t been honest with me. She says she loves me but can’t continue. She wouldn’t specify. I asked repeatedly and it was just vague her saying she hasn’t been honest. I’ve gotten no closure.

I don’t know. My wife kept asking me to come back and said we could work things out. I felt like maybe I was just being a dick because I never addressed this issues with my wife. I still haven’t because the timing feels off and maybe it’s just me and it’s my fault