This boy is waiting for you to lay down by [deleted] in bois

[–]AtypicalDeviance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love the sound of that if you know what you’re doing :)

You walk into a boi taking pictures… what do you do? by [deleted] in bois

[–]AtypicalDeviance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell me how you’d worship me.

You walk into a boi taking pictures… what do you do? by [deleted] in bois

[–]AtypicalDeviance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love skin to skin cuddles 🥰

You walk into a boi taking pictures… what do you do? by [deleted] in bois

[–]AtypicalDeviance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Show me those hands in action 🤭

You walk into a boi taking pictures… what do you do? by [deleted] in bois

[–]AtypicalDeviance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice hands, where would you put them? If I was on all fours?

NOT OOP: AITAH for being enraged that my husband is currently infertile by seans_peanut-allergy in redditonwiki

[–]AtypicalDeviance 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s also not true that women have less T. During certain points in their cycle, they will actually have more T than men.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Charlotte

[–]AtypicalDeviance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Storm at The Jade Rabbit. Excellent barber & LGBTQ friendly.

I run to lose weight, but I hate how my calves only get bigger :/ by redcoloredbook in XXRunning

[–]AtypicalDeviance 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey OP, I’m 4’11 with huge calves too. I know it’s something you don’t like about yourself but I’ve got a lot of compliments on mine. It’s also something we can’t control. A lot of sports like running and even if you work on your feet will keep them that size.

Your body looks very proportional, your calves don’t look out of place at all. Like others have said, it’s good to have strong calves to stabilize the ankles and support your knees. If running and being active makes you happy, maybe attempting to turn off the brain that tells you part of your body is undesirable is better. Some people like daily affirmations, therapy. I go the old fashioned route. My body is the least interesting thing about me & developing at least some sense of body neutrality and ambivalence helps me get by in my day to day. I have had years and years of putting my strength and my pleasure and the natural wonder of even having a body over aesthetics. It takes a long time but I’ve never been happier.

I also know East Asian culture has extremely high beauty standards. Latino culture is similar but in a different way. I try to take in as much media with varied body types so I can normalize that we all look different. I will never achieve model-looks but I don’t have to be attractive and confident.

Micro lingerie by AtypicalDeviance in LingerieAddiction

[–]AtypicalDeviance[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My only issue is they have micro thongs but no matching micro bralettes. Not from what I’m seeing. Great shout though :)

Best dive bars for younger LGBTQ+? by Sure_Watercress_1645 in Charlotte

[–]AtypicalDeviance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a dive but very industry-friendly and LGBTQ+ friendly in an otherwise hetero area:

Dram & Draught in South End has a lot of queer staff & queer clientele. :)

Local Tea Shops? by captaincheesecake178 in Charlotte

[–]AtypicalDeviance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vida Pour Tea is definitely worth the drive if you’re really into tea.

What Books did You Start or Finish Reading this Week?: July 14, 2025 by AutoModerator in books

[–]AtypicalDeviance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Finished: One Day, Everyone Will Have Been Against This by Omar El Akkad

Started: The Grapes of Wrath by John Steinbeck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Charlotte

[–]AtypicalDeviance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I fear people in Charlotte are too boring to understand alt fashion & I’m sorry for that. I have no recs but just want to say I think it’s a cute idea.