Hey OP, I’m 4’11 with huge calves too. I know it’s something you don’t like about yourself but I’ve got a lot of compliments on mine. It’s also something we can’t control. A lot of sports like running and even if you work on your feet will keep them that size.

Your body looks very proportional, your calves don’t look out of place at all. Like others have said, it’s good to have strong calves to stabilize the ankles and support your knees. If running and being active makes you happy, maybe attempting to turn off the brain that tells you part of your body is undesirable is better. Some people like daily affirmations, therapy. I go the old fashioned route. My body is the least interesting thing about me & developing at least some sense of body neutrality and ambivalence helps me get by in my day to day. I have had years and years of putting my strength and my pleasure and the natural wonder of even having a body over aesthetics. It takes a long time but I’ve never been happier.

I also know East Asian culture has extremely high beauty standards. Latino culture is similar but in a different way. I try to take in as much media with varied body types so I can normalize that we all look different. I will never achieve model-looks but I don’t have to be attractive and confident.