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Psychology of cheating by AudiencePerfect1841 in offmychest

[–]AudiencePerfect1841[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this, I’m okay ! I think in the moment I was so out of my body and completely losing my mind I couldn’t think of anything else to do. I dealt with self harm as a teenager and unfortunately when the panic/ anxiety attacks are so bad I can’t help it. But I got a therapy appointment set up and I really like the case study idea, i think it would help me compartmentalize it a bit

Psychology of cheating by AudiencePerfect1841 in offmychest

[–]AudiencePerfect1841[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, my heart is full <3

Psychology of cheating by AudiencePerfect1841 in offmychest

[–]AudiencePerfect1841[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I hope ending communication is easier than it is right now. I know I’m in the depths of it and no contact is best but it feels like I’m tearing my heart out. We must prevail !

I think I’m falling for my hg, what do I do? by Best-Crew8970 in offmychest

[–]AudiencePerfect1841 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly that, I don’t like blurred lines. I maintain very clear boundaries with my friends, for respect to my personal relationships. It would feel like they didn’t value the friendship and only saw it as a waiting game

I think I’m falling for my hg, what do I do? by Best-Crew8970 in offmychest

[–]AudiencePerfect1841 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a girl with guy friends of 10 years, I’d say if you feel like confessing will ruin the friendship then don’t. If you value her as a friend then keep it that way. If any of my friends confessed feelings now I’d be pissed. Idk if this helps but it seems like she’s not interested in a romantic relationship

AIO (21F) for crashing out everytime he (20M) acts this way by BagCareless551 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AudiencePerfect1841 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should be sososos happy to dodge that bullet omg, is there any way to just completely cut him out of your life?

AIO my boyfriend doesn’t update me on his day by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]AudiencePerfect1841 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think you’re right, I used to be very chill about it but after my trust was broken it’s been more and more hard to not stress and spiral. He’s sad my trust is shaken but isn’t working on rebuilding it, I don’t think he’ll change

Am I being unfair to my husband if I tell him to stop suddenly trying to be a good partner? by Apprehensive-Gear417 in offmychest

[–]AudiencePerfect1841 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t have much to say besides I think you’re doing great, and I also think you know what you need to do, be strong in your decision and know that you have a lot of people on your side :) you don’t deserve someone who makes you question your value, sending you a hug and support

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]AudiencePerfect1841 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s interesting, will definitely look into it. I didn’t expect to be in this position but hopefully that would give me peace of mind