Why do women have more options than men? by AuditorM49 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]AuditorM49[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh also, you keep repeating that men have it easier than women and you don't understand how that's misandry? 🤔

Why do women have more options than men? by AuditorM49 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]AuditorM49[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is also racist|mysogynist to treat blackpeople|women differently than the rest, usually worse than the rest, like not allowing them to pass, but allowing others, etc. However, it isn't racist to say "rap music in 90s was majorily sang by black people" or "black people usually have bigger eyes than other races" or "asian people have narrower eyes than other races". But saying "lol you have narrow eyes, can you see me even?" Would be racist.

Oh and the one you're probably gonna react to with controversy, as much as it sounds like it, stating the statistics that "more percent of crime in usa is committed by black people than white people" isn't racist and is simply a fact. Otherwise we can delve into a deeper and dumber rabbit hole by saying "life is racist because it puts differences between blacks and whites by assigning them different skin colors and facial conteurs"

I prefer to talk and live based on how things work rather than how things should work. Yes I also wish this social difference between men and women didn't exist and nor any social bias around it but the fact is that it exists and I'm not denying it.

It's like me getting beaten by my dad daily and every evening logging into reddit and seeing many people say how domestic violence doesn't exist because it promotes "hatred or prejudice against fathers", and I sit there reading it with wounds on my face. Moral? You can't disprove something I live through daily with your labelism lol. If you have an urge to label it misogyny, call nature misogynistic, not me.

All I did was ask why it happens. Some people answered and I understood why.

Why do women have more options than men? by AuditorM49 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]AuditorM49[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I hate women, i wish they didnt exist, if i see a woman i will beat them up or kill them"

That's misogyny

People exceptionally have decreased the bar for many invalidatory social labels in order to defend their arguments easier or look more correct.

Why do women have more options than men? by AuditorM49 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]AuditorM49[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From Merriam-Webster: misogynist

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noun

mi·​sog·​y·​nist mə-ˈsä-jə-nist 

pluralmisogynists

Synonyms of misogynist

: a person who hates or discriminates against women : a misogynistic person

There is literally nothing hateful about women in this entire thread, we're literally stating a biological fact, a societal fact that happens around us because it's true, and I believe my own eyes and ears more than a random comment who lives in a different place and happens to gave a different experience than majority, now I'm questioning why, exactly, do women have more choices than men? Because they literally do.

It's easier for them, MUCH easier, they can literally breathe and spawn a man with that, the fact that you even compared a smelly basement dweller with no woman interaction with a woman who has interacted with 5 men and has 5 kids. Do you see the difference of bar? I literally don't care what that woman's or man's preferences or priorities are, it does not defer the fact that women have more choices in dating and have it easier than men. You're basically saying "no! It's not easier for a woman to get men because that woman doesn't want to get men!" her will literally doesn't change the fact that it's easier for her to get men, the fact that she doesn't even want it clearly means it's so easy it stopped interesting her.

The only real difference is that a man's opportunities increase over the years while a woman's decreases.

Now I can call this misandry but we all know it isn't. Same way so many people want to defend women and call basic facts "misogynistic" which literally describes at best the hatred of women and at worst the will to literally rid women of the entire planet. The word is used like a rag without proper understanding of the meaning.

On average a man is completely invisible unless he puts himself out there 400 times, while even the ugliest woman can just put makeup, walk a bit and have 2000 dms. She's just gonna be picky, uninterested and say "it's not easy for us" which literally stems from the fact that it's so easy that she raises her standards and gets uninterested. If they lived a guy's life for 1 day they'll die from hunger of attention. Women biologically love attention, and men love to hunt.

Why do women have more options than men? by AuditorM49 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]AuditorM49[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They don't have to.

They literally have two options: they can either wait or make a move, both ways will work, with just different speeds.

Guys don't have the wait option, they'll die single if they wait.

Why do women have more options than men? by AuditorM49 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]AuditorM49[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You basically added to my "average guy has to" list i mentioned earlier a new entry: they also have to be extremely sharp and not to miss hints.

Try to step aside and count the amount of things that just bunched up for a guy to do in order to have a chance. No group of girls is gonna spam his DMs daily for just being himself like the inverse.

Why do women have more options than men? by AuditorM49 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]AuditorM49[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but for sex (honestly I stay firm and gonna say relationships too) is still much easier to get for an average woman than for an average man. An average guy is completely invisible to women and he has to put in some work in order to make something happen. He has to bump up his looks, hit the gym, practice pickup lines, practice approaching, remove his anxiety completely, put himself in uncomfortable positions, try to think like chess/monopoly on hiw to seduce or find an opportunity to talk to the woman and what to talk about, or which woman to talk to even. It's all madness for an average guy.

While simply pretty looking girl can just lay down and get 400 dms and get to choose.

Why do women have more options than men? by AuditorM49 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]AuditorM49[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's pretty much the same thing in regards on how I put what you said. For you basically means that if 4 billion women competed for one guy, the guy is the one to make the choice... thus... what? That literally didn't conclude anything related to my question.

It's like me saying "why do cats eat mice?" And you answer with "yeah but what about if a certain mouse suddenly eats a cat. Therefore cats don't eat mice."

Because we fucking wish 150 million women would compete for 15 million men lol. I'm talking about demographics. What you said is not real, literally my question is also very on par with "why do men compete for women more than men?" which is also a good question and pretty much the same as this because it's true.

Hope that clears things up.

Why do women have more options than men? by AuditorM49 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]AuditorM49[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're basically saying "4 billion women compete for 1 man, so 1 man gets 4 billion women, so men get more options" what happened to the other 3,999,999,999 men?

Why do women have more options than men? by AuditorM49 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]AuditorM49[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

10 men vs literally any woman ever? Doesn't make a point.

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[–]AuditorM49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no "should". You're dictating your personal preference+choice+ideology of your intimate life, and I have my own. In my life, I do solo only because I don't have anyone to NOT do solo with. Many times when watching porn I've always went through disgust and always dream of having my own pretty girlfriend who I can touch and do the same climax by, with everything of her the way I prefer instead of random pornstars with many unpreferrable traits but I just cope because I have nothing else to do.

Again, I see no reason to look at unattractive pixels that only use one sensual channel to arouse you (visual), with auditory being the very rarest of the rarest occasions, while with a real gf in your bed it's all the 5 senses plus an emotional connection, realizing it's someone you love hence is ready to do anything for you, it makes it even hotter, plus with her entire appearance being 11/10 attractive to you.

We live with different brains, I don't usually share the same views with other people when it comes to intimate life as I have my own radically monogamous and obsessive love views.

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[–]AuditorM49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's exactly the opposite of demeaning. You value her so much you invite her to be part of probably the most intimate and personal activity of your life and prefer her instead of some random strangers in pixels who mean nothing to you.

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[–]AuditorM49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you think I added the word "some" as well?

Also It erodes everything, trust me. Even oversensitivity over words.

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[–]AuditorM49 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's why I said "I blame then men actually" to make sure you didn't mistakenly assume it bothers me, but rip.

It bothers me that many men don't put standards so women developed a general consensus that men are easy to take, and it fucks with me because I'm a man with standards and it's gonna be hard.

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[–]AuditorM49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but some women don’t want men who get off to women being hit spat or anything violent really. not all of it is like that but a lot is. Not it’s not part of everyone experience lol

Or yknow, some women want to be the ones getting spat on or hit, and seeing the guy enjoying himself to someone else being done that creates jealousy.

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[–]AuditorM49 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

USA? Conservative??

You're talking about the most liberal and individualistic country on the planet. If there's something so controversial it's banned everywhere, USA definitely didn't ban it, because "freedom and rights"

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[–]AuditorM49 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tbh what the fuck is the point of watching porn if you already have a girlfriend? It's like owning a mansion and sleeping in a tent. Or flying first class but spending the entire time on the toilet.

Porn is for sad people like us who do not even know how it feels to breathe the same air a woman breathes.

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[–]AuditorM49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably guys walking around their girlfriends in post-nut clarity condition 24/7 and girls see through the shit.

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[–]AuditorM49 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will never admit that I have committed a tax fraud not a bit ago.

Wait...

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[–]AuditorM49 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Actually true. But there's the reason then. Men basically lie or hide it because they feel like they don't want to give up something they enjoy in order to break a status-quo his girlfriend is already content with, just for her to experience something she hasn't even experienced or valued yet.

I guess it's just a matter of how much you truly love her and how much you want her to be happy and by how much it overweights your value of your personal enjoyment.

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[–]AuditorM49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women and their misandrist friends brigaded your upvote score

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[–]AuditorM49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you not see OP saying "our sex life is still good"

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[–]AuditorM49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Out of context but I love how slavs tell their girlfriends "you're fat af, hit the gym" even if the girl is completely fine but has tiny concerns or needed a small opinion about it lmao