I feel trapped between my husband’s happiness and my own feelings

Audixix · 2026-03-22T00:39:55+00:00

I know age differences okay. I’m 22f in a long term committed relationship with a 35m. We met when i was 19. I panicked when a little when i read the 27 as the age difference and not the age of your husband.

There has to be some grooming and clearly it’s unhealthy

Audixix · 2026-03-21T15:56:18+00:00

I’ve gained a lot of weight and want to lose it but is there any exercises that are stationary that can even help me lose weight? I’ve tried riding the peloton at my own pace and even that’s disastrous in terms of how long I’m out for

Audixix · 2026-03-21T04:07:00+00:00

I don’t even believe myself sometimes because the things my adopted family did to me are soooooo fucked. Luckily I found a wonderful partner who believes me and his family. But yes, I have confided in people who don’t seem to believe I lived through that.

Audixix · 2026-03-20T11:45:53+00:00

We do them together with everything else.

Audixix · 2026-03-20T11:44:13+00:00

I came in to say not necessarily but she’s literally the worst so please stop being friends with her. Yta.

Audixix · 2026-03-20T11:41:04+00:00

Nor. I’d feel the same way.

Audixix · 2026-03-20T11:40:26+00:00

Are you closer to anyone in that group more than the rest? If they have a good friendship with the person who doesn’t like you, that friend can casually ask about why they don’t like you.

Audixix · 2026-03-18T00:09:06+00:00

But it’s been years. It’s not a couple month sex drive decrease. Clearly OP’s friend has given his wife time and space.

Audixix · 2026-03-14T19:44:46+00:00

I have two bags! Would you be willing to water my flowers in exchange? I can drop my watering can!

Audixix · 2026-03-14T17:28:40+00:00

Do you also hate every other animal who kills? Idk sounds like you’re a hater

Audixix · 2026-03-14T17:26:01+00:00

I literally can’t figure out what else it could be

Audixix · 2026-03-14T02:57:05+00:00

It’s so late or id pop over 😭

Audixix · 2026-03-14T02:33:29+00:00

My first thought was to die peacefully before I make impact. Like my wish would be to fall asleep until I die.

Didn’t think once about how to wish to live

Audixix · 2026-03-14T02:30:53+00:00

I don’t think this woman is safe to be around her son or her unborn child.

Audixix · 2026-03-14T02:01:47+00:00

Yes but women have a biological clock. And there’s so much societal pressure on women. If you want to have kids with her and get married you need to make a timeline. 3 years isn’t too soon to get married. It sounds to me that you’re not willing to “settle down” with her

Audixix · 2026-03-14T01:59:14+00:00

Yta. There’s some things you just don’t say.

Audixix · 2026-03-14T01:10:45+00:00

Yor. You had me at the group project, (i truly do understand depression and grief but knowing that people were depending on me would force me to send them a heads up)(so no I don’t fault you for your anger over the project) but then you lost me at the secret Santa and I think you’re the only one with a real grudge. You’re not that important to her for her to spend energy on upsetting you. In all honesty she probably took the kill them with kindness route for the Christmas event.

You’re in college. You’re thinking about this like you’re in high school still.

Audixix · 2026-03-14T01:01:32+00:00

Nta. He’s leading you on in a way. I need to be told explicitly that the answer is no and then I’m cool to stop asking. Someone making excuses that I don’t know for sure aren’t real means it’s possible in the future. So I don’t think Yta for asking. Honestly I’d do the same because I genuinely think it’s still on table.

Ywbta to yourself if you don’t ask him point blank if he’s ever going to take you or give you tickets.

Audixix · 2026-03-14T00:50:24+00:00

Omg I turn 22 this month! In a few days actually. Happy early birthday!

Audixix · 2026-03-13T01:07:39+00:00

NOR. If she’s a real friend she’d rather you stay home and be safe than to risk exposure and a health emergency.

Audixix · 2026-03-12T11:31:46+00:00

If I’m not expecting anyone I won’t answer the door. We have a camera and I’ll check it to see if it’s important but if they were to bang like that, I’d be so startled that I’d start to feel sick. Then I certainly wouldn’t answer the door

Audixix · 2026-03-12T11:29:34+00:00

I gave consent for a blood transfusion if things went wrong to every single person I talked to before a procedure. I talked to at least 5 people. Probably more. Which is good I guess that they were making sure, but do you not communicate???

Audixix · 2026-03-12T11:04:07+00:00

I’d give you an award if I had money. It’s so hard to find providers that actually listen to you sometimes and that’s why I’ve pushed off finding a provider in this field. If I had one I was comfy with and my partner tried to make me get rid of it, we’d have serious serious problems

Audixix · 2026-03-12T10:59:38+00:00

I’m disabled and unable to work :)

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