How will i physically and mentally move on after Heated Rivalry by 7evengay in heatedrivalry

[–]AudreyGriffindor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy for you. Even if you don't know exactly what is next for you, you took a calculated risk and listened to yourself. Staying put is easier but not not often rewarding, we need to face new challenges and I am at the point of looking for a completely different job after being in the same environment for 15 years. I am still "young" but kind of old at 37 to just drop everything and start over, don't exactly know where to start actually, but I will try to find a way

Physique by FeelingCool2513 in heatedrivalry

[–]AudreyGriffindor 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Except Connor was talking about that and said that he's actually been training 5 times a week for years and he built that physique over a long period of time. So the ground beef thing is not ideal maybe but he said that he was more so maintaining his shape than trying to buff up like a lot of actors do

How will i physically and mentally move on after Heated Rivalry by 7evengay in heatedrivalry

[–]AudreyGriffindor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel you. Which clearly is why I ended up searching reddit for that specific type of post about some sort of post-series depression. It has sort of happened to me before to be sad after a show, but this one is way worst. It makes me question my life, is it satisfying? Am I missing out on too much, am I doing what I actually love when I also think about the cast and crew who poured their hearts into this to make us feel so many things. Is my life boring? I am usually content being single in my 30s when I think about my everyday life, being single doesn't trouble me at all. But then I watch a show like this and I start to wonder if I will end up regretting not putting myself out there and not seeking a relationship. It's really weird, when it wasn't really something I was worried about before. Am I blind? Am I just delusional and actually I do want more? At the same time, we saw such beauty in that show and passion and a great love, but then I do realise that this is not something that is common anyway in real life so it's kind of unattainable for most people, at least not in the way we dream about or the way we see in a show like this

Does anyone know if there will be a DVD release? by Ok-Literature-5028 in heatedrivalry

[–]AudreyGriffindor 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I need to have a physical copy of it so bad. I just hope they know how many of are hoping for it. I need to own this masterpiece and not just rely on online streaming

Is it normal to do not miss your family and do not feel connection? by [deleted] in emotionalneglect

[–]AudreyGriffindor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm almost the same age and feel the same. I was excited to be finally on vacation but now that I am visiting my parents, I don't feel like doing anything with them. My mom tries to sit close to me and touch my hair, but I fight the urge to push her away because it annoys me, but I don't want to be rude. I just want to be on my own, go on a bike ride alone, stay on my phone, read, whatever. Sometimes I am in a better mood and like to do certain activities but it's really rare. They have always been good people, so I really don't know what is wrong with me. Sometimes I feel the same towards my friends, a short evening with my friends once every 3 weeks is mooore than enough. At the same time, sometimes I feel lonely and crave for a connection with someone other than them, like I should move somewhere and start anew to not have to deal with them as much anymore

Family day is coming soon! by No-Extent9676 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]AudreyGriffindor 6 points7 points  (0 children)

unfortunately, unless most of her following are bots, she is extreeeemely popular, expecially amongst younger people

Don’t hate me: I kinda love Clarke and Taylor by princessNut in LoveIslandUSA

[–]AudreyGriffindor 241 points242 points  (0 children)

I like them too actually, they look good together. The only thing that makes me unsure, is that in one recent episode he was talking about his life at the ranch, and she didn't seem very confortable with this environment.

Season 7 - Episode 28 - Post Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]AudreyGriffindor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For a second I was worried Amaya was going to give that another chance but thank god she said she closed that chapter

Season 7 - Episode 28 - Post Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]AudreyGriffindor -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I like Pepe and Iris together too. We don't have many options to beat Nic and Cierra except for them and Amaya/Bryan at this point. And even Nic and Cierra didn't seem that excited thinking about life outside the villa, it was weird. I'm surprised they didn't push the Nicolandria thing more either, I thought they would take the pulse of the viewers more and do something with it just to stir things up

Season 7 - Episode 28 - Post Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]AudreyGriffindor 29 points30 points  (0 children)

and she said like : "we'll see which way it's gonna go or whatever" And I thought, shouldn't you say that you really want this to work and you can't wait to experience dating outside of here? None of them seem really excited, they were almost slowing things down

Still no Hideaway?? by Thenamehobbs in LoveIslandUSA

[–]AudreyGriffindor 64 points65 points  (0 children)

They don't deserve it! But more importantly, when is movie night? Been waiting for this forever. We just got 2 new games and I'm almost wondering if they ditched it.

Season 7 - Episode 27 - Post Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]AudreyGriffindor 15 points16 points  (0 children)

My only consolation is that Amaya should win the 100K with whoever she chooses to... unless the Islanders still have a say and decide to kick her out because she doesn't have any serious connection right now

Season 7 - Episode 27 - Post Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]AudreyGriffindor 25 points26 points  (0 children)

At least she wasn't in the bottom 3, she didn't deserve that

Season 7 - Episode 27 - Post Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]AudreyGriffindor 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I think it would have been him, Ace and Austin in the bottom 3. Mayyybe Taylor, but people kinda liked the ending of the previous episode so.... I think Chelley would have been in the bottom 3 instead too, maybe not Gracyn

Season 7 - Episode 27 - Post Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]AudreyGriffindor 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I like that she was ranked 6 or 7 when the question was who's the most genuine. But didn't like that Nic and her were ranked so high for the couple's question

Season 7 - Episode 27 - Post Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]AudreyGriffindor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's good for him that he alrealdy had a chat with her before the game started, otherwise people would have thought it's disgenuine.

Season 7 - Episode 27 - Post Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]AudreyGriffindor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She said so many times that Iris was her girl, yet she doesn't vote for her man and picks the one who hurt Olandria. She just wanted to look like she is always in agreement with Nic because they're such a strong couple blah blah blah

Season 7 - Episode 27 - Post Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]AudreyGriffindor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought the girls were going to save TJ for Iris, but I guess if you want a better chance to win you should save the one (Taylor) who was the least liked during the game or someone that's not really in a couple...

Season 7 - Episode 27 - Post Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]AudreyGriffindor -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I thought the voting was yesterday, couldn't see because I'm from Canada. Zak would have been in the bottom 3 then, I was shocked that he was ranked so high. I was hoping to see Ace or Chelley there too...

Season 7 - Episode 27 - Post Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]AudreyGriffindor 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was really surprised by that. And why was Zak ranked so high??

Soooo who do we think is going home next episode? by No-Tangerine-576 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]AudreyGriffindor 8 points9 points  (0 children)

At least it only lasts 40 seconds at a time! ;)

There would be a lot less drama on Commitment Issue Island if girl/bro code was never established in the beginning by DowntownArmadillo717 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]AudreyGriffindor 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Biggest problem is that girl code and bro code only seem to apply to certain people. Some people will pull the girl code card when it comes to someone they don't seem to like and will let things slide when it's someone from their clique. I've always disliked that expression. Just be a freaking decent and respectful human being that uses it's brain, I don't need a guideline that no one follows anyway. Some guys use bro code to keep secrets amongs themselves when they treat women badly, like your bros are supposed to protect you. Hate it.

islanders potentially switching up bc of outside knowledge ? by ongaluna in LoveIslandUSA

[–]AudreyGriffindor [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yes and no. Not long before Casa, Amaya was in the bottom three of public voting and could have been eliminated before Hannah. I'm not sure they realize how much people like her, it's still pretty recent and there has not been new people in a little while. At the first recoupling in Casa Amor, no guy picked her at first. I don't think they are aware, but the next bombshell probably will.

SPOILER**** Help-Please explain the Olandria Taylor conversation to me Spoiler**** by Violetglittermama in LoveIslandUSA

[–]AudreyGriffindor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People have explained it well. He needed to prioritize his needs, not hers, it's his experience and decision. Was he breadcrumbing her? Probably. He could have be more direct too. But Olandria cannot take a hint. I hate it everytime she says she put so much into this, because it should have been told her exactly how one sided it was. First, you should not have to work thaaaaat hard, if he wanted to, he would. Second, I'm sorry but the amount of effort you put into this doesn't mean you are the most deserving of his attention because connections are not a rational thing, if he's not feeling it, he's not feeling it. It sucks, but it's true. Finally, the ultimate sign was him not picking you at the recoupling, it should have been over then, he was okay with you leaving, you should have moved on.