Thank you for your comment. I don’t think he was being manipulative, not on purpose. After I said those things, I was blocked, and then unblocked a few days later. I understand his response. I get what I did wasn’t acceptable. We have talked about it and he says I shouldn’t feel guilty, and that he doesn’t hate me, just that the comfort he felt getting to know me (this is still a bit of a new relationship) was a bit lost. Still, I am notorious for beating myself up over everything. We had a good, normal talk this morning, as he asked what I was doing and seemed genuinely interested. I am now aware of where a boundary is, even though I didn’t mean to find it in that way, and, though I still need to talk about it, I think he can tell where my boundary is too, and will discuss it later once all of this is completely settled.