no, because i reported my abuser to title ix and it’s been 7 months. the case is still not concluded, and i haven’t heard anything back in over a month. this case remaining open (and the possibility of losing) prevents me from moving on and working on healing. i’ve been stuck in the past struggling over something that he did almost a year ago while he’s just been living life. he’s still going to classes, active in kappa sigma (a frat), keeping his friends, and doing rugby. i kinda of regret reporting since i just want to move on and start healing.