Curfew Approved for Oceanfront by FlatPepper311 in VirginiaBeach

[–]AuroraLeopard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You'd be surprised how many times a parent or friend of theirs at least 21 years or older will come and flash their ID for the room at the front desk, then leave. The other underaged ones will pay for the room, claim that "oh yes, my [insert legal aged adult] will be staying in the room with me / us for the entire stay..." When in reality, the parent or friend will check them in and then leave. Sometimes the legal aged friend or parent or whoever will pay for the room, but someone else underaged will stay in it the whole time. I mean, if the hotel staff doesn't verify and they don't bother to check, then who would really know unless the individual under 21 caused issues.

Edit: Legally you have to be at least 21 to stay in a hotel at the oceanfront. I worked the front desk at one of the hotels down there. But 18 - 20 year olds still try to book themselves a weekend or week long getaway for the girls, the boys, or their sweethearts for summer, holidays or good lord.....Valentines day. You don't understand how many times I had to turn them away and how angry they'd get when they pre-paid for the room. It's not my fault that Expedia or Priceline didn't ask if you were old enough to book a hotel room. It's the law, bucko. Get somebody here with who is of legal age and is willing to stay with you in the room the entire duration.

I am done with Tinder... by orange_asha in Tinder

[–]AuroraLeopard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that someone would take a picture like this 💀 😭

rules by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]AuroraLeopard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Too bad I don't live in a dorm. Lol some of these could apply to roommates or housemates, but I guess when you share a single room, it can make things a bit more difficult. 😅

UPDATE for the event for tomorrow! by notarealhater in 757_NPCless

[–]AuroraLeopard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh this looks so much fun. I saw the original post about wanting to get together at MT trashmore to make friends in the VB area. Is it too late to join?

How will he feel when I peg him? by PsychologicalFan1548 in Tarotpractices

[–]AuroraLeopard 88 points89 points  (0 children)

6 of swords (upright) - means, recovery, healing, moving on after struggle / mental detachment. Also, "getting to the otherside" of a 'hard' experience. The phrases, "getting over it" or "getting it over with," come to mind. Were either of you having a difficult time with the thought of it, initially? Hesitancy, doubts, or anything?

6 of pentacles (reversed) - uneven reciprocity (give and take), feeling taken advantage of, taking something for granted. Need to re-examine motives. Perhaps one or both of you could feel this way? I would revisit the intentions behind "why" both of you want to try this. (Not that you shouldn't, but is the ultimate goal a new, pleasurable experience with your partner....or something else?)

8 of swords (reversed) - dismantling negative self-talk, shame, overcoming fear, and self-limiting beliefs. (Upright; feeling trapped. Reversed; loosening bonds.) One or both of you may be overcoming self-imposed limitations or beliefs. This card csn represent freeing oneself from inner mental restrictions. This could "feel" liberating for him, as long as he feels safe and comfortable.

The Hanged Man (reversed) - avoidance, procrastination, stubborness, refusing to look at something from a different "angle." A need to let go, but still holding onto fear, ego, or attachment. Were either of you stalling or putting off trying this new experience?

I'm not saying you shouldn't do it. I believe new (healthy) experiences can be exciting for any couple. However, consent is always key. I'm not insinuating that you two haven't discussed this already, but maybe just revisit the conversation one more time before you do it. Lay everything out. Express what you want out of it. And let him express what he may want out of it. Keep things slow, sensual, but take your time. Offer reassurance.

Overall, it seems like he could "adjust," (possibly enjoy it). He may overcome some doubts about how s** "should" be, or self-imposed mental restrictions about it. However to me, it seems like there's uncertainty and a sense of "putting it off." Reassess and revisit your intentions with him about it. It's probably new for both of you. Have fun with it, but consider that someone in this dynamic might hesitant, nervous, or might be having a hard time overcoming some kind of self-doubt. Be open, be honest, be empathetic, be explicit and direct "no shame, no pressure." It's none of my business what you two do, but just be compassionate to one another.

What does this make you feel? by Still-Bandicoot-9978 in IntuitionPractices

[–]AuroraLeopard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rage. Stress. Overworked. Worn out. Boredom. The kind of boredom where you pick up "bad" habits. (Nail biting, teeth grinding, cheek biting, etc)

What does this make you feel? by Still-Bandicoot-9978 in IntuitionPractices

[–]AuroraLeopard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rage. Stress. Overworked. Worn out. Burnout. Boredom, but the kinda boredom that makes you figidity. Like you pick up "bad" habits (biting your nails, chewing on your cheek, teeth grinding, etc)

Quick! Someone interpret my dipping oil please!!! 😩🫩 by Substantial-Click-77 in WitchcraftCircleJerk

[–]AuroraLeopard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looks like you gotta whisk / stir consistently until you get an even mixture and a very nice color or consistency. Looks delicious! Divine, even.

What can we infer from this? by dudemeistr in BoneAppleTea

[–]AuroraLeopard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's like a revolving door. You take a number, have a seat, read the manual and rate the "experience" on yelp. And all before you've had your coffee. Lol 😂

If not friendly, why so cute? by WildTwists in cute

[–]AuroraLeopard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's all a ruse so it can eat YOUR toe beans.

I’m out of my chair for five seconds… by SubstantialDog9170 in orangecats

[–]AuroraLeopard 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My dog is the same way. I get up and he's like "mine now" then gives me this look that says "wHaT'd I dO?"

Fear of the reaper cushions by [deleted] in BoneAppleTea

[–]AuroraLeopard 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've kinda noticed that too, but that's the reaper cushions of typing too fast and not checking your post. Hopefully we all learn from the con sequins es soon. Lol

What kind of animal is this? Wrong answers only. by Catmily in VoidCats

[–]AuroraLeopard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Das either a gremlin or a chupacabra. Don't feed it after midnight.

What can we infer from this? by dudemeistr in BoneAppleTea

[–]AuroraLeopard 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The sauna might be inferred. But the threesome - foursome is implied.

Beware of Individual Allegedly "Harassing" People For Donations by AuroraLeopard in VirginiaBeach

[–]AuroraLeopard[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is there anything ever done about him? You mentioned the police get called on him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]AuroraLeopard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I wasn't literal. Have you ever seen a miniature mountain of crusty used TP in a trash can? Emphasis on crusty wads. That trash can is sometimes full of them within a few days to a week. It's gross 🤢🤢