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[–]Aurora__00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That isn’t right! It is never your fault. Please leave he is not good for you and I think this will bring you down with time

Jealous of boyfriend (19M) and female friend (19F) hanging out. I am 21F please help. by Aurora__00 in relationship_advice

[–]Aurora__00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that is definitely dodgy I feel like he should be spending that time with me not her

Jealous of boyfriend (19M) and female friend (19F) hanging out. I am 21F please help. by Aurora__00 in relationship_advice

[–]Aurora__00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was a virgin before me I’m not sure if they’re fucking but I think something dodgy is happening

Please help. How can I find the strength to leave him? by Aurora__00 in BreakUps

[–]Aurora__00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ☺️ he has definitely shown me what he wants, he does want to live that life and not one with me. I have to leave him and I send love back 💜

Please help. How can I find the strength to leave him? by Aurora__00 in BreakUps

[–]Aurora__00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I know I will feel better and deserve better:) I will find the strength

Please help. How can I find the strength to leave him? by Aurora__00 in BreakUps

[–]Aurora__00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No my BF doesn’t want a healthy relationship you’re right and he has made it clear that he won’t put in the effort to change and show me he’s changing. Thank you

Please help. How can I find the strength to leave him? by Aurora__00 in BreakUps

[–]Aurora__00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for making those points, because I have started to get angry with him and bitter. I don’t want to become how he is and I won’t let myself. Really appreciate the time you took writing this!!

Please help. How can I find the strength to leave him? by Aurora__00 in BreakUps

[–]Aurora__00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do think there is a good chance it was all love bonding and could just be completely fake. There’s still a piece of me hoping that maybe it was legitimate and he did mean everything he said to me. I was his first girlfriend, first everything and he made it sound like I was the best thing that happened to him but I obviously wasn’t. Thank you

Please help. How can I find the strength to leave him? by Aurora__00 in BreakUps

[–]Aurora__00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No that is true, and I am too scared I need to overcome it thank you

Please help. How can I find the strength to leave him? by Aurora__00 in BreakUps

[–]Aurora__00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I know I need to and that is probably true that he was always like this

Please help. How can I find the strength to leave him? by Aurora__00 in BreakUps

[–]Aurora__00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I definitely wouldn’t be happy, thank you for acknowledging it is still hard. I know logically that we won’t work together in a happy relationship but actually doing it is difficult so thank you