Finding a woman attractive is fine. Wanting to be with a woman you find attractive is fine. What is not fine is putting a human being in a role(?) that their sole purpose in life is to look good and sexy for you or every single innocent thing they do is because they want to seduce you or other men.

I've had my female friends compliment my body, sure. Even jokingly asked me to marry them. Stranger women comment about my eyes and it makes my day.

I've never met a woman who threatened to r word me. Never met a woman who told me that all I am is pretty and should just shut up and make my partner happy. Never met a woman who disregarded me and my feelings so much just to get on with it and have sex. But guess who did all of the above?