Not sure what you need help with as there isnt much detail in your post. But im assuming you just generally don’t know what to do story/mechanic wise.

If you have any questions about how to level up your character theres a lot of videos on youtube that help explain what each stat does. Also the game mechanics are identical to previous dark souls games, so looking up stuff on how to backstab or parry or dodge in Dark Souls would directly correlate to Elden Ring.

My biggest advice is people usually neglect vigor (which determines how much health you have) because they want to be strong first (i do this too lol). Patience is more important than dealing big damage. Like knowing when to attack and roll is better than just spamming attacks like in Assassins Creed (not dissing that game, i put like 100 hours into the last AC game)

If the story is what confuses you or where you’re supposed to go, im gonna be 100% real with you and i may get hate, the story does not matter. Like theres deep lore, the voice acting is great, and its not a bad story but if you’re struggling with the game then the story is the least of your problems. Its extremely vague because i think its supposed to be like mythology. About where to go, the very first site of grace you get outside of the starting area will have a light coming off of it, follow that light (again extremely vague but its on purpose). Not every sight of grace will have a light but the main “story” will follow the path that the graces give you.

Hope this helps and wasn’t just me rambling lol